How to know if a girl has an orgasm?

How to know if a girl has an orgasm? I've been with my ex for 2 years but she was very shy and NOT confident at all. Which is why we're not together anymore. I decided to break up because she was never ready to talk sex with me, to improve and stuff... I wanna know, when I used to go down on her or just finger her, at some point she was body-shaking and closing her legs because it became "too sensitive". Is that her orgasm? Also, there were 2 ways it happened... 1. Rubbing her clit with faster-slower motions depending on how her face and screams looked like. At some point she shaked and closed her legs and removed my hand, then she was getting shy.. Was that an orgasm? 2. Hitting the G-spot with my fingers in her, using an UP movement to hit it directly, after a while she was kinda getting "tighter" inside, like her muscles were really disturbed, they were getting tighter then slack then tight then slack, and so forth until I had to remove my fingers because she was too sensitive. That an orgasm? I never been told by ANY girl I slept with that I was bad in bed. Most of them told me I was actually pretty good (without me asking). I know how to rub a clitoris without putting too much pressure, I know how to go slow and prepare her BEFORE intercourse. I know how to get them wet and very excited. I know exactly where the G-spot is and how the "come here" motion works. Even with my "tool", I know how to rub on the G-spot inside of her, while rubbing the clitoris using my hands. I am not stupid, I just never had the chance to discuss the "orgasm department" with any girl. The intercourse experience is there and well learned, I just have to know WHAT SIGNS to pay attention... Any ladies out there can help out a fellow GAGer that wants to pleasure all future women that come into my bed hahah? (there's not a lot, but the few of them that come, I want them to leave satisfied)
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  • The physical reactions you describe sound like cumming to me, but a girl usually knows it when she has one, so why she doesn't just tell you she's cum is odd, could she have any reason to lie? Maybe she got some bad advice along the line and has gotten the idea an orgasm is something to be embarrassed about?

    Only other possibility is sonetimes a girl can get SO CLOSE but it doesn't quite happen, but it was so close she feel's kinda spent and sensitive like she has cum, but the fanfare and fireworks just never kicked in, and it means she's not up for keeping going. Only ever happened a couple of times to me though, if it happens consistently there might be something physical or psychological behind it. But it seems more likely that she got hers.

    • Thanks man. That's great there's older men on GAG, so much experience! Well I was only her second to sleep with her, the one before be wasn't experienced at all and they did not talk about it. He had no idea what a G-spot was!

    • Well, it sounds like you really care about making sure the girl you're with has a good time, enough to actually do your homework. With what you learned you should have no problem doing that and helping her on her way to some mind blowing orgasms. That's the main thing to remember about a womans orgasm, it's HER orgasm to have, not yours to give her. She has to want to cum, if deep down she doesn't because she's self concious or not turned on enough or whatever, no amount of wonders you work with your tongue and fingers will do it. Once you've helped her get really turned on and in the frame of mind to want to cum, the rest is easy, you're realky just helping her along the way... That's my best piece of advice on the subject anyway!

    • Thank you very much buddy :p!

  • Usually she thrashes around, breathes rapidly, then moans or screams and arches her back and gasps... then settles back down catching her breath, looks at you with admiration and jumps on you to plant grateful kisses all over :)

    • Yup, been there done that. Thanks man hahah!

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  • for point #1 she was close to having an orgasm. At the point of shaking it is very tingly for us girls and it sometimes too unbearable. The trick it to relax at that unbearable point and continue straight through it, because a few seconds later contractions start happening (the orgasm). So u need to apply more pressure at the point where she is shaking. Beforehand tell her to try to just get through and allow that tickly moment and to relax when it comes. IT WILL WORK 100% if she just lets herself past that "unbearable part" . This is coming from VERY RECENT personal experience.

  • Put your finger on her perineum, the area between the vaginal opening and anus. When she orgasms you should feel it pulse and spasm with the muscle contractions of orgasm, this is difficult to fake. Other things that are hard to fake are flushing of the skin and body shaking. You seem pretty clued up on how to please a girl, so props to you and keep it up :)

    • Thank you very much, I read a lot when I have questions, instead of staying clueless xd! Damn I'm gonna look weird putting my finger there, if she asks "what are you doing?" I answer: "I wanna know if you're faking this orgasm"? LOOOOL

    • Hahaha maybe just rub it so it's not as obvious :) it feels good to us. Or even just feeling her contract around your fingers is a good way to tell too.

    • So when they close their legs, it's because it's too sensitive and they're cumming? After they stop bodyshaking, should I get back in to give her an orgasm again or?

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  • Sounds like orgasms to me ;) good job!

    • Ohhhhh cool hahah I make them all orgasm! :D lol

    • Good for you and especially the girls lol :')

    • So when they close their legs, it's because it's too sensitive and they're cumming? After they stop bodyshaking, should I get back in to give her an orgasm again or?

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  • Some girls squirt "internally"

    • How?

    • The orgasm doesn't go out like its pee, they just feel like something is going on in them @itsallover

    • Yeah i've heard that. Some girls that I made them body shake started to get wet like crazy almost instantly, this might be it.