The physical reactions you describe sound like cumming to me, but a girl usually knows it when she has one, so why she doesn't just tell you she's cum is odd, could she have any reason to lie? Maybe she got some bad advice along the line and has gotten the idea an orgasm is something to be embarrassed about?
Only other possibility is sonetimes a girl can get SO CLOSE but it doesn't quite happen, but it was so close she feel's kinda spent and sensitive like she has cum, but the fanfare and fireworks just never kicked in, and it means she's not up for keeping going. Only ever happened a couple of times to me though, if it happens consistently there might be something physical or psychological behind it. But it seems more likely that she got hers.0 0 0 0Thanks man. That's great there's older men on GAG, so much experience! Well I was only her second to sleep with her, the one before be wasn't experienced at all and they did not talk about it. He had no idea what a G-spot was!
Well, it sounds like you really care about making sure the girl you're with has a good time, enough to actually do your homework. With what you learned you should have no problem doing that and helping her on her way to some mind blowing orgasms. That's the main thing to remember about a womans orgasm, it's HER orgasm to have, not yours to give her. She has to want to cum, if deep down she doesn't because she's self concious or not turned on enough or whatever, no amount of wonders you work with your tongue and fingers will do it. Once you've helped her get really turned on and in the frame of mind to want to cum, the rest is easy, you're realky just helping her along the way... That's my best piece of advice on the subject anyway!
Thank you very much buddy :p!
Usually she thrashes around, breathes rapidly, then moans or screams and arches her back and gasps... then settles back down catching her breath, looks at you with admiration and jumps on you to plant grateful kisses all over :)
1 1 0 0Yup, been there done that. Thanks man hahah!
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for point #1 she was close to having an orgasm. At the point of shaking it is very tingly for us girls and it sometimes too unbearable. The trick it to relax at that unbearable point and continue straight through it, because a few seconds later contractions start happening (the orgasm). So u need to apply more pressure at the point where she is shaking. Beforehand tell her to try to just get through and allow that tickly moment and to relax when it comes. IT WILL WORK 100% if she just lets herself past that "unbearable part" . This is coming from VERY RECENT personal experience.
2 0 0 0Put your finger on her perineum, the area between the vaginal opening and anus. When she orgasms you should feel it pulse and spasm with the muscle contractions of orgasm, this is difficult to fake. Other things that are hard to fake are flushing of the skin and body shaking. You seem pretty clued up on how to please a girl, so props to you and keep it up :)
1 1 0 0Thank you very much, I read a lot when I have questions, instead of staying clueless xd! Damn I'm gonna look weird putting my finger there, if she asks "what are you doing?" I answer: "I wanna know if you're faking this orgasm"? LOOOOL
Hahaha maybe just rub it so it's not as obvious :) it feels good to us. Or even just feeling her contract around your fingers is a good way to tell too.
So when they close their legs, it's because it's too sensitive and they're cumming? After they stop bodyshaking, should I get back in to give her an orgasm again or?
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1 1Sounds like orgasms to me ;) good job!
1 1 0 0Ohhhhh cool hahah I make them all orgasm! :D lol
Good for you and especially the girls lol :')
So when they close their legs, it's because it's too sensitive and they're cumming? After they stop bodyshaking, should I get back in to give her an orgasm again or?
Some girls squirt "internally"
1 0 1 0How?
The orgasm doesn't go out like its pee, they just feel like something is going on in them @itsallover
Yeah i've heard that. Some girls that I made them body shake started to get wet like crazy almost instantly, this might be it.
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