How is it women don't mind having a guy cum on you?

[Anonymous]

My wife never seems to mind haveing me cum anywhere on her body? To me, as a guy, this stuff seems sorta strange and slightly disgusting? She can jerk me off, I can pull out and hose her down, or the most unthinkable to me is taking my load from a blow job. How do you women do it? Is a guys cum just a natural thing you enjoy or do you just put up with it to make us happy? Let me say thanks to all of you for accepting and puting up with our mess and I bow down to you with the utmost respect.

[Anonymous]

Most guys don't freak about their own load. Sex is messy, you just get used to it. Though I occasionally feel a little gross during period sex when we end up looking like a crime scene. Haha!

[Asker]

Could be it's just me? I have a problem with dumping my load on a woman. Some guys can see it as badge of honor spraying his manhood on a woman. I however have a problem with it. I find it incredibly respectiful if a woman let's me enjoy this pleasure with her. Yes sex is messy, the messier the better! And you must both respect the deed and enjoy the action. But I still resect a woman and feel remorse for making a mess on her however much fun it was.

[Opinion Owner]

Nah, don't feel bad. Most women don't mind or enjoy it as part of the experience.

[Anonymous]

Because it's kinda hot. Don't you like your womans juices?

[Asker]

Sure, women get what you would call wet but I can't say it is the same thing. I have never thought about that when going down on a woman orally. Somehow it isn't the same thing in my mind?

[Opinion Owner]

No, they're different, but so is a penis and a vagina. Men will love pussy and her wetness, and women love dick and cum. To me, I find it weird and gross when my man likes my wetness, because it's just not nice to me, but his cum... that's hot. He probably thinks his is kinda yucky to, but he loves mine.

[Asker]

I get it, kinda the same thing. I never thought a woman would feel gross that she got wet. If I can make a woman wet it is a great thing. Definetly not gross, your wetness is a turn on. I don't think of it the same way as cum. Cum is the surprise you get when a guy works, wetness is the prize you get when a women is getting off.

[Opinion Owner]

Same thing again lol. A mans cum is her prize for the good hand/blow job or because her v feels good for him. It's nice to know he's cum because of you. If a man didn't come, she'd feel like she hasn't done a good job or he just doesn't like how she feels or something.

[Asker]

That is the greatest answer I could have gotten. It explanes it perfectly! Thank you!

[jessfinesse]

Because it makes me feel sexy to know I made him cum. If I'm going to fuck a guy I know cum is going to end up in me or on me somehow, it's like a goal not a problem.

[BelleGirl21]

If you love a guy it really isn't a big deal. That's what showers are for!

[Asker]

That is a great way to look at it! I respect this incredibly!

[BelleGirl21]

Thanks.

[Anonymous]

From what I hear from other girls, it's a turn on and just fun when a guy cums on/in you. It's the same as a guy giving oral and the girl cums.

You get a mixture of satisfaction and even more arousal from making your partner cum.

[Asker]

You are far wiser than your years. I get it when you say it is extreme satisfaction when you make your partner work. Also I get it that is is something so different for you women, you must feel it isn't the most danty thing when you cum for a guy. A guys orgasm is so different than a womans, much more a messy thing. I have no problem when I make a woman cum orally. But I can see how a mess can be fun!

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you :) I'm still a virgin by choice. It seems messy to you, but most girls don't see it as messy.