How long is a blowjob suppoed to last?

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How long does the ideal blowjob last? I've been told that I'm good at giving head, but I can't exactly whip out my phone and time them, and I never remember to look at the time before we start. Should it go really fast If I'm actually any good? Like two minutes? Or five minutes? Is ten minutes a good time, or is that like, forever in blowjob time? Would fifteen be outrageous? And, do guys try to last longer or do they not really care? What is considered too fast, and what is too slow?

DonkeyKong1979 · Accepted Answer

That deoends on soo many factors, probably more to do him than what you're doing really. As we know, some men just last longer than others, but even the same guy can massively different amounts of time to cum, depending on how long it was since he last cum,, how turned on he is when you start, many things.

And how good a bj is has nothing to do wirh how long it takes. A really raw, primal blowjob where you go in 'all guns blazing', sucking deep and fast, using your hands on the shaft etc. can be over pretty quick and be amazing. But a long, drawn out, teasing blowjob with lots of kissing, licking and nibbling will take much longer, but be mind blowing too. Just depends on your preferred 'style' and what you're in the mood for at the time.

TadCurious · Accepted Answer

I'd say 5 minutes is fine, with 10 being at the upper end. But what makes a good blowjob isn't the length of time it lasts. No guy wants the girl to get worn out. It helps to take breaks (cum up for air!), alternate between your mouth and your hand, and try to be in as relaxed and comfortable a position for you (the giver) as possible. How long your guy lasts depends on if it's a "finishing" blowjob or just a blowjob as foreplay leading to intercourse. Of course the two things are necessarily mutually exclusive. Try to take the pressure off yourself and not worry about time, or about giving the "perfect" blowjob. Those things take away from you being in the moment and, hopefully, enjoying giving the blowjob yourself.

madiangel · Accepted Answer

It depends why you do the blowjob. If it is a race, or a quicky, go get him fast.
but if you have time and want to please, give the guy lots of different pleasure, licking, deepthroat, sucking...
20mn to 1h is good to have fun, also most guys are really becoming crazy after 30mn and really want the release :)

HeyHeyG · Accepted Answer

It depends on how much time we have. Sometimes he likes it until he cums and then we're done other times he lets me do my thing for an hour or more making him cum multiple times. It depends what your man likes.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

Depends. I don't get off with bj unless I'm fucking her mouth. So usually she will keep going until her neck gets tired or I'm just so hard and horny I lay her down and have sex.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Try to last longer to a point. So how long it lasts is a mix of your technique, your attempt to speed it up versus draw it out, my ability to fight off early orgasms, and how pent up I am.

Blondiee2014 · Answer

As long as it takes for the guy to spurt his load. If you stop for a few seconds you pretty much reset the timer.

Ferretman21 · Answer

As long as you're willing. If it's a tease, till you all are ready to move on. If you wanna finish him off, then it can take any where from 10-20. Depending on how horny he is, how good you are at it, if he's nervous he can last a loooooonnnnnnnng time.

15 minutes isn't outrageous. Everyone is different and there's no ''Supposed to last'' time.

Durty · Answer

I love this question. How about... until he can't take it anymore!

Paige90 · Answer

If the guy doesn't cum in ten minutes I either start giving him a hand job or stop.

zinithin · Answer

The correct answer is, to the very end.

NovemberJoseph · Answer

Till he cums. If it's just foreplay, then until he signals that he's about to dive in the pussy.

gorydetails · Answer

until I cum.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

Until he cums,,,,__

Dartanyan · Answer

Ten minutes? Wtf?

IrishKilt40 · Answer

If you simply plan to give a blow job for his pleasure only, then yes, the blow job can be done in under two minutes. Men, unlike women, do not need more than two minutes. Make your movements passionate and slow, it is not a race, and two minutes to his finish line.

Anonymous · Answer

Your parents must be really proud of you! Some girls are good at school, some at work, some at special studies, some at journalism, some at space discoveries,... and you are good at giving head!!! So sad!