Underage, & my GF keeps asking for IT?

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Im only 15 and she's 15.
We have liked each other for about 2 yr and she overtime became my GF.. ok. But for about 2 months she started getting way to close, and i tried to tell her to ya know take it slowly but she doesn't understand that. Then she for the last 3 weeks has been asking to give me to ya know, do IT! I know I have made plenty of hints to leave this whole sexual thing till later but she keeps pushing me in a sense and im starting to think she's using me i guess i could say. I really like her and she's hot (just have to add lol) but she's going to far and im thinking of ending it so i dont get into S***.

Any thoughts,

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

As you are both 15 years old, and have know each other already for 2 years, it is clear that she is not there to just get sex and that is it. She probably really likes you, and really want to have sex with YOU.
Girls get into puberty about 2 years earlier than men. So while you still did not really think about having sex with anyone and she was not even your GF yet, she probably was already dreaming of having sex with.
She has been waiting 2 months.
Take it slow slow slow.
You don't need to DO IT right away.
Tell her you want to go slow, because you are not ready yet.
Do small steps. Each time one step further.
Do the other things first. Kiss her, kiss her neck, kiss her boobs, suck her nipples, rub her pussy through her pants, rub her pussy in her pants, play with her clit, finger inside, let her rub your dick, let her masturbate you, masturbate each other naked in bed.
By the time you gone that far, your own sexual experience has grown so much that you are probably ready for the real thing.
BUT for now. BUY condoms! Find a pharmacy or something far away where nobody knows you, and buy them! You will need them before you realize it.

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

I think she is using you. If she can't understand that you're not yet sure about this then you should sit down and have serious talk with her. And add the threat of braking up if she continues.
But you should give her a second chance - you're both just 15 so it's obvious that she hasn't yet matured enough as a woman so give her the chance to grow up and understand you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Don't let anyone pressure you into something you aren't ready for. It's so often assumed that the young guy will be the pushy one, trying to persuade the sweet, innocent girl to put out which makes it quite hard for young men who aren't desperate to lose their virginity or sleep with girls.

You need to tell her bluntly that it's making you feel very uncomfortable and pressured, that if it was the other way around people would be telling her to dump you as you are not respecting her decision.

If this was the other way around there would be uproar. Please stay strong and make sure she understands how horrible she is being.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

just leave her, u shouldn't feel pressured into it if she doesn't understand that u want to wait and if she doesn't just give up on keep on asking u then she is trying to pressure u into it, just say its not working and then leave her, u can do better

zombiebabe · Accepted Answer

dude its obvious... she just wants it

Outofthegrey · Answer

... fuck her.  In the literal sense, not figuratively.

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