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Do girls like their butthole played with during oral?

Hi girls, when a guy is going down on you do you like him to pay attention to your butthole? be it licking it, rubbing it with his finger, putting a finger in, using a vibrator etc? Guys have anything to say on this? The reason i ask is when i was with my ex i used to rim her and finger her butthole while giving her oral, we never discussed whether it made it better or whether it was just something that happens. she never complained and seemed to like it. My current girlfriend isn't really into anal play but during a recent dare sex game she agreed to let me rub the outside of her butthole and said it did nothing for her, we have not brought it up again but i know rimming is another challenge in this game, when it inevitably comes up should i just rim her to say we have done it or should i work her up on her pussy first to get her going? should i keep swapping between the two to keep all the sensations going for her? thanks in advance for your help
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think they do, the girls i've been with had felt weird at the begining but then they ask or expect getting some tongue on their butt. My friend says that it feels different, but it's a good feeling, just remember to clean it as good as possible and dont be rude, use a lot of lub, that might help, but if your girl say Stop because she is feeling a lot of pain then stop it because That's a big turn off... Most of girls i've known eventually enjoy it, just be patient

  • Start with her pussy and when she is getting close to cumming, rub her asshole. It will give her a more intense orgasm. It is the most overlooked erogenous area. Going for her ass right off the bat will most likely do nothing for her but make her think that she just had a poop or maybe corking it until she gets home.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I personally don't like it at all and I think you should talk to her and ask because if she doesn't like it, it MIGHT annoy her if you do it out of nowhere. Also, if by "keep swapping betweenthe two" you mean using the same finger for her butt and vagina, don't even think about it haha you could give her an infection.

    • it's all part of a dare game so if it comes up we both say yes or no before anything happens, so if it happens it's because she said yes

  • I wouldn't like that, no haha but it's different for every girl. I just think you should ask the girl to avoid any kind of confusion! :)

    • well in theory she has agreed to the dare so she is ok with it being licked

  • This has never been done to me but I might like it. Only if we were in a shower or hot tub or something though. Somewhere VERY clean

    • What gives you the idea you might like it? Have you explored a little on your own?

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  • I don't do anal, but I like my BF to lick my butthole and rim it while eating my out. It gives another sensation to the moment. Lol.

    • That is very interesting. Usually if a girl likes a good rim job, anal is just around the corner. Did you try anal with a guy -- and had a bad experience? Tried it on your own with a toy -- just did not work out? Do you think you could ever orgasm from him rimming your butthole alone -- or always wound need stimulation around front?

  • Some girls do, this girl definitely does NOT

  • some do, some don't. I like it

  • Be careful with anal play, there are a whole host of infections and diseases you can pick up.

  • It's not something that's hard to ask.

  • Some love it, some hate it.

    I think swapping between the two is a good idea, but you can stimulate both at once, just in different ways.

    • Oh, and the finger (s) you've put up her butt? Once they've gone up there, they don't go back to the vag.

  • I have never tried it but don't really want to because it's my butt...

    • Just my opinion. You're a little too hot to shut down all that pleasure. It might be nicer than you think.

    • Your butt is just another area a guy that is into will want to explore

  • In my experience, yes. Yes they do.

  • what is this game you speak of?

  • Some do but that's gross. I wouldn't play with a butthole

  • It depends on the girl but personally I wouldn't want that

  • Some girls like it others not. I personally like it, but I prefer my vagina licked

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