Padded bras.. Misleading? And how much?

I have a bra fetish (as apposed to a shoe fetish many women have lol). I find it very time consuming to shop for them because so many are padded so much that it makes you a size or 2 larger then you are. Do they look good? Sure but I feel they are misleading. If I were a guy and getting intimate with a woman for the first time I'd be thrown off to discover she is much smaller then she looks dressed. I dont mind a thin amount of padding but thats it. I want to be ME, not something I'm not. So guys, how does this effect you? What are your thoughts on the bras women wear and how it makes them look different then their normal size. I'm a 36c so for me I don't need all the extra. Thanks!
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  • Boobs are boobs! big or small they will love them! & Guys know about push up bras, and I don't think they care.. in fact, I think they prefer them, for a nice visual, cause even when they are big, the push ups make them look way nicer! or should I say sexier!! I use a D and it makes it look sooo sexy on a push up! and it doesn't make my size look exaggerated nor , they just look overly perkier and in a sense perfect! But there's clothing for everything, push ups are only needed for certain type of shirts and dresses.

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  • It is up to the girls to do padding or not. But they should remember that it is not their boobs that the guys notice. I have seen guys who do not like big boobs as it spoils the girl's figure.
    They like girls wearing tight clothing with medium boobs.
    A girl should remember that someday the guy she loves will see that they have used padding.
    You should be yourself and not try to imitate others and remember that you are beautiful in your natural self.

    • thanks

  • If I'm taking her bra off, I've already made the emotional connection and talked about kinks (and plenty of them). If the difference is too large (this has never happened), I'll make use of my favorite kink, turn her over my knee, and give her one hot, sexy but painful spanking.

    • Well alrighty then lol Tx!

    • LOL! How would you react to being spanked for boob fraud?

    • I would not enjoy being spanked so that would bother me.. Spanking isn't my thing but something that feels good is fine lol

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  • Doesn't affect me at all either way. Padding or not doesn't bother me.

    • Thank you... So if she removed her bra and you discovered she was much smaller it doesn't have any effect? I know guys love boobs in general so happy to see them no matter the size and will still love them but.. doesn't it still feel a bit misleading? Tx again :-)

    • Nah, I really don't care. At the point I'm removing bras, my only goal is having fun at that point.

    • Lol very true! Thanks :-)

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  • Wouldn't bother me.. I know girls do it
    How would you feel if a guy padded his underwear to make him sim "bigger" lol

    • I wouldn't like it actually.. But thank you :-)

    • Lol I guess the same can apply to your situation... it can lead to false advertising xD

    • Lol yes..

  • I think many guys can profile women and can detect when proportions don't seem to match, but understand the need to make clothes drape correctly. While implants always will be a deal breaker for me, padding is no different than makeup. If you were to look 34C in clothes and end up 32A or B, it'd be mildly amused on my way to attending your sweet cupcakes.

    • Good answer :-) thank you!

  • I think most padded bras just define a shape rather than make her breasts look bigger. The padding can also prevent her nipples from showing through clothes. I don't think padded bras are any more misleading than makeup.

    • You may want to feel some bras... Many have thicker padding or have a very think portion on the underside to lift. The thick portion very thick. Especially Victoria secret. I buy many there and have only 1/3 of the store to select from thats thinner padding. At 47 I've had my share of bra shopping experience to know many are tnicker then whats necessary for nipple coverage or shape defining. Some are yes but... In this question I'm not referring to the thin padding bras, its the ones that do make a big difference. Thanks

    • I think the purpose of the thick material on the underside is to create cleavage rather than an illusion of volume, but I'm not a bra engineer. I don't think they're misleading though.

    • Yes it creates cleavage but you can't do that without the illusion of making them look bigger. I have seen my own breasts in those and regular.. And I look bigger by a full size plus.. feel one of those bras sometime, the rolled insert is like a 1/2" thick filling the bottom 1/4 of the bra where boobs should be.

  • If they have small boobs they could get away without a bra in my opinion

    • True lol thanks

  • .. Id just be happy to be unhooking your bra... padding or not..!

    • Lol true.. Thanks

  • It does not affect me because I love women.

    • Thank you :-)

    • Your welcome.

    • Also, I think some women use padded bras to smooth out their clothes.

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