My boyfriend wants to put his hand down my pants?

[Anonymous]

I've been dating this guy for almost a month and I've gone to his house 3 times, each time we have made out pretty heavily but I stopped him every time he tried to put his hand down my pants. He always asks why I stopped him and I just said I'm not ready for that and he says he understands but asks again and wants another reason, I just can't explain myself other than I'm not ready. He says he understands and apologizes and said he's just not used to going slow. He tells me he loves me and I really believe him. I'm 18 and a virgin, he's my first boyfriend, and he was my first kiss and he knows that. He told me he wants more "firsts" with me and he wants to put his hand down my pants so I feel more attached and so he does too (he's 20 by the way and obviously more experienced). I feel pretty attached already because I've never let a guy touch me period. How can I just explain that I'm not completely comfortable and ready for that yet? I'm just not really a sexual person and I feel a little awkward when we're making out and he's touching me. I kind of feel like we're rushing our relationship and I don't want to ruin things by doing all of that.

[Anonymous]

You really dont need to do anything till you're comfortable, but he's a guy, and he will eventually expect you to. I think a lot of the ladies on here will tell you to wait and if he loves you he will hold out. But if that is the case then dont bother being in a relationship at all. It will just strain both your relationship.

[Jacer30]

Hey baby do you wear a dress with your hair up when a your boyfriend gets in your panties

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You tell him something like this "I'm very uncomfortable being sexual with you right now. I feel we are rushing the relationship, and I am not comfortable with you putting your hand down my pants. Please don't do it again, otherwise I don't think I can keep seeing you"

[DonkeyKong1979]

Next time you arrange to meet him hide a salami down your pants. Then when he wants to put hid hand down there, let him. After he's come back from running screaming from the room, he should have gotten the message...

Muahahaha!

[IAmCluelessToo]

Don't feel pressured into doing anything... do what you want at your own pace

[sizedoesnotmatter]

relationships for losers live alone just like me i'm 20 years and no i never had a gf before and i'm really happy