My fuck buddy asked me out on a date?

I've been in a fuck buddies relationship with this guy for a while but tonight he asked me out on a date. I'm really happy because I like him but the question is is it okay to have sex on the 1st date? Does this rule still apply to this kind of situation? Since we've had sex plenty of times before. All answers are appreciated!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • he is your fuckbuddy.. if he want go to dinner with you.. probably he likes you.. go and have fun.. and if you guys both wanna fuck.. just fuck.. there is no rules on this.. stop controlling all of your feelings.. just have fun and see what will happen..

  • Well, lol umm, Since youve already had sex. Having sex on the first "date" is perfectly fine, unless you want to put the sex on hold and actually try to start a relationship with opposed to just sex. If that makes any sense

    • But if I actually want a relationship with him?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Enjoy dinner and connecting in that way then end the evening with great sex :-)

  • Considering that you've already had sex, I doubt it will make a difference.

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  • Yeah it`s okay. Why wouldn`t it be? Unless you want to keep it as fuck buddies. It seems like maybe you don`t though.

    • I'd want a relationship!

    • Oh okay. Then yeah it`s up to y`all. There aren`t any rules to that. Of course you can have sex on the first date.

    • I don`t understand that "sex on hold" shit. If you want to fuck then do it.

  • You've already had sex so any awkwardness should be out of the way. I say go with the flow. If you guys wanna have sex afterwards then go for it.

  • how well do u know this guy... ? if well.. yeah ok

    • Yeah pretty well!

  • Umm well do you want a relationship with this guy? Or just fuck buddies?

    • I would definitely want a relationship.

    • Its up to you really. You've already had sex so might as well?

  • No that rule does not apply here

  • then he's not your friends with benefits anymore...

    the thing is, do you like him? i mean, as more than a friend? if so, pursue it, if not, then don't..

  • If you want a different kind of relationship, I would make sure that you don't have sex on the first date. It will make him want you even more. Tease him a little, as you've already had sex, he knows what he's missing.