Hooked up with a fat girl and now feel disgusted by it- anyone else felt this way?

So I met this girl on Tinder who seemed nice enough. Added each other on Facebook and chatted quite a bit. Browsed through her photos and though I could tell she was not skinny, she didn't seem too big either. In any case we finally decided to meet up and when I got to her place she was a lot larger than I had anticipated/what the pictures had led me to believe. But I hadn't been shagged in about 6 months so hornyness overcame my dignity. Although she had a pretty face and was a really nice person, once things got frisky I got to experience and see the full extent of her fatness and I almost went soft from it. Seeing and feeling all those rolls... not nice. I myself by comparison am a religious weightlifter and make an effort to eat healthily so I do have quite a trained body. I just felt quite disgusted by her appearance, made me think how come I've dropped so low. I'm just wondering if anyone else who has hooked up with someone who turned out to be fat ended up feeling bad about it afterwards?
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  • Some would consider that shallow viewpoint, but I can understand, if you don't feel attracted to larger women then you don't, beauty as they say is in the eye of the beholder. Also a few things to realize:

    People often forget how intimate and vulnerable an act sex can be for people, so try to realize that it is like that for the other person as well.

    Don't dwell on it, and try to stay in control for your next encounter, it should be one that both people can enjoy so make sure you are both attracted to each other.

    Lastly remember that often our opinion on what is sexy is something that we get from media and magazines, and it it something that is honestly unobtainable (photoshopped) so keep your expectations high but down to earth.

  • My virginity. I was drunk, she was gross, it was dark, she put her hand down my pants massaged, then rode me. I was like whatever but I regretted it sorely after (though she was just somewhat fat but not thick, too big). She had E's too and I love A's the most lol. Short story, she was a stalker for months, etc, waited for me to get drunk then did her thing.

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  • Wtf why would you say that about a girl? It's you & your hormones that couldn't hold it together! & now you're talking sh*t about this girl. No something is obviously wrong with you. You were the one who decided to be with her & offcourse now that you got what you wanted from her you come here to talk sh*t about her. You're so immature man.

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  • Haha, its not a good feeling is it.

    You're not alone. Damn those hormones.

  • The body is only a shell it is what is inside that counts. How was the sex?

  • Hahahah that's awesome

  • ok... nice trolling...

  • Looks of people make mistakes in the heat of the moment. Learn from how you feel and move on.

    • *Lots of people, that should say. Guys and gals both. Just don't be an ahole about it, since it was your error.