If it was someone I didn't really know or was romantic with doing that to me, I would be freaked out. However, something similar happened with my boyfriend and I on New Years... I don't even think he was really awake when he did it lol. I just remember being woken by a kiss (which was awesome!) and he pulled me close, whispering in my ear that he wanted me. I told him I was too tired to do anything and I think I laid back down after that... Next thing I knew though, I was kissing his neck and climbing ontop of him. I was just kind of like, "How did I get here?" He started to get up I think, but then he put his head back down and said he was going to crash, so I let him and went back to sleep. I asked him about it the next morning and he said he didn't remember a thing XD
So basically, if it's my boyfriend doing it to me, I'm alright with it and it's kind of nice. If it's someone I don't know, trust, care for, etc., I will kindly get a restraining order against you.1 1 0 0Maybe he said he didn't remember because he didn't know how you felt about it. Did you make it evident you enjoyed it? LOL how do you kindly get a restraining order? Just wondering...
Lol I don't know, his expression/surprise was pretty honest. We had also been drinking before bed so I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't remember a lot of other things ^^; Also you can kindly get restraining orders. You don't have to spit in the other person's face when getting one; you can just get one and be on your way =)
That alcohol gets you every time lol Im sure YOU can kindly do it, but the recipient probably won't think its kind Heh But I guess he shouldn't have sleep assaulted you huh?
uhm... lol I mean. It can be rape, if you do sth to someone while they sleep. Like you haven't got consent and shit so that is rape. And when they find out you violated them that'll be like, fucked up and traumatic for them. So thats a thing.
But, you woke her up! I don't think you did anything super fucked up, really? I mean... maybe talk about it w/ a girl first in future, lol. I've done that, actually, like, I've talked to a girl about messing with her while she's asleep, if she'd be okay with it. And she was and we messed about a few times like that. It depends on the girl, if she'd be comfortable with that or not. Some girls definitiely wouldn't.
But yeah w/e from what you're telling me I don't think you're a rapist. I haven't heard how she described it, tho. Maybe tell her you feel a little creepy and ask her for what she feels about it?1 1 0 0I was just reminiscing lol. It was a few years ago. havnt talked to her for a while sadly. always curious what she thought of that night. I never asked her, she never said anything about it. but she seemed to be enjoying it a lot. oh well :( I hope I didn't traumatize her D:
ah okay. I thought you were concerned. I think its okay :)
Please don’t do this again! Any sexual touch without consent is rape! I woke up to my ex’s fingers inside me one morning and we didn’t discuss beforehand or anything! If I wasn’t so damn tired, I would’ve pushed him away
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not sure this qualifies for sleep assault. that would be to me if you took advantage of a girl that you were not regularl sleeping with and never ever gave you permission to touch her or have sex with her. IN this case you kind of had an agreement in place to sleep for a bit and then wake up. You used sex to wake her up, but it was not unexpected per se. Sleep assault would be unexpected and IS RAPE.
2 2 0 0no... we were definitely slept together on a regular basis.. Long term relationship.
that is why i am saying i don't think this example really counts for sleep assault.
Ahh... I see lol
I was raped every morning by my x fiancé. She assaulted my face with her pussy. (please pass a napkin)
0 0 0 0careful now.. someone might smell bullshit. I know you were smelling x fiance pussy.
Mmmm I was
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5 3It is okay. :) Um if she liked it, you do not have anything to worry about okay. :)
0 1 0 0It's not rapey if someone I'm with does it. I asked him how he feels, because it's usually me, doing it to him...
He said it's "hot", so, green light...1 1 0 0It would always be a green light for me! lol. With a girl im in to...
Hot!
Would love that2 2 1 1I feel that an attractive girl will never be able to sleep assault me.
0 1 0 0Gave up on p*rn and became a novelist?
0 0 0 0Dear pent house.
If a stranger attacked me while i was asleep it would be rape. If my bf did it I would enjoy it.
3 1 1 0How does that get a down vote by a girl of all people? Apparently she's either ok with rape or sleeping sex is naughty.
LOL I am curious myself...
Always been one of my fantasy's
1 2 1 0I can smell BULLSHIT on this website again...
1 0 1 1Cause you havnt done it... I can see why you would feel that way. Sorry bro.
You ain't done either! lol. That's the bullshit I was referring to. But do carry on!
Lol Alright man. I won't try, its impossible to prove. Maybe one day you'll have an experience like this and you'll realize.. 'Oh... shit like this IS possible" lol. Good luck my man.
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