Once and for all, can the size question finally be answered?

I strongly believe that women should be clear about the answer to "Does penis size matter" with all men. Of course, we all have different preferences but let me clarify my view (and many other womens' views) right now. YES and NO. So... The "motion of the ocean" is correct: if the guy doesn't know what he's doing then it won't give much pleasure. That's true whether he's big or small. So then the answer would be NO. On the other hand, too big hurts (of course). I've measured guys before, I've had several partners, 8 inches and up DOES hurt me. But here's the thing. Very few guys are that size. If anything, more guys, in my experience, are smaller than 6 inches. And honestly, if a guy is too small, you won't feel pleasure either. What size is too small? Well of course 3 inches, 4 inches... and 5 inches. Basically, too small is fine, but it isn't ideal. I believe my ideal size is about 6.5 to 7 inches. Two of my exes were in that range, sex did not hurt at all, and it felt amazing. One guy was too big. And all the others were between 5 and 6 (no guy under 5). Some of the "smaller" guys had really good moves, but really, they did not measure up to the 2 bigger guys. What I am trying to say is that overall, size is not a big deal, but that for many women, there is an "ideal size". It will differ from woman to woman. Mine is around 6.5-7 inches, some might like bigger, some smaller. But I highly doubt more than a couple percent of the active female population would consider 5 inches "ideal". One of the guys was 5.5 inches, which was fine. But it's not 6.5 or 7. My preference: please be over 5.5 inches, maybe even over 6 to give me full pleasure. I could deal with less, but would not prefer it. Does size matter? Yes, if you want women to be fully sexually satisfied. Please let me know your opinion. by the way, I'm not taking into account love, bf, etc. I'm talking about plain sex with no emotions involved. Because emotions DO have an effect.
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  • I agree we all have different preference, and sometimes that also means that some of us have no preference. For me size doesn't matter because for me, at the end of the day, you get the pleasure you want. All penis sizes can please me because my pleasure is not correlated with the size of a man's penis, it has rather more to do with if I want to be pleased or no. What I want will always be far more important than a man's penis size. If I can't orgasm or don't, or take longer to, then it's because i either don't want to or I'm not interested in sex at that moment. This is me though. Although having sex for too long, with any size hurts after a while.

  • No!
    Nope!
    NADA!
    Nein.

    It has never, ever mattered to me.
    What it's connected is all that matters for me anyway..
    The biggest sex organ in the human body is,
    the brain,
    not the dick,
    nor boobs,
    not vag,
    not butt,
    Smile YES,
    or whatever.
    Guys that make me hot for them, turn me on with their creative, sexy, dirty, clean, probing, educated, investigative, WTF , do you like me, do you love me, please hurt me, mind.
    HHHHHHHH

    • I understand that you feel that way. But in my experience, women who think like that often got "lucky". I'm guessing the guys who have been with all had a pretty good size, no? I highly doubt you were ever with a small guy.

  • Good point, but what size is ideal varies from girl to girl depedning on the length and width of their aroused vagina.

    • *depending

    • You're right. So you agree that all women have an "ideal" size that works for them? Do you think the approximate measurements I gave sound about right for you, or for most women?

    • I definitely think that there are different sizes for different girls. I would want it bigger, but I think what you want is very normal.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Yeah because it's such a great feeling knowing the woman you love is fucking dealing with you. So what there is nothing an average sized guy could ever do to give you good sex, he's destined to be a fucking failure in your eyes, why did you even fucking date them? I'd rather die alone than be with some woman who spends all her time fantasizing about her big dicked exes, and thinking about how terrible and unsatisfying me and my penis are, you're just lying to such guys, dating them is hurting them because they'll never know what it's like to have a woman who truly loves and is happy with them. God I fucking hate being a human.

    • Lol there's always someone bigger that they've been with. Sad, but true.

    • Well I've been seriously contemplating just avoiding women altogether. And damn this is an old comment, lol, I'd forgot about it.

  • The fact that there is already another penis size question posted after this one on GAG would indicate that the intention that this would settle the size question 'once and for all' was hopelessly optimistic...

    It settled it for 10 minutes though. Which for GAG is actually pretty good.

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  • Good points. "it's the motion of the ocean, but bigger waves flip the boat over faster"

  • I give you permission to measure my erect penis as a science experiment if that's what you feel is necessary to get this issue settled properly!

  • This needs to be tagged on the main page or something so guys will read it before asking.

  • I will shed some lights about myth's and stereotypes around sizes. I am 9-11 inches depending upon if i dont use pump i am 9 inches. Size does matter as I have been with women who didn't care much about size, but changed their opinion after having sex with me. also Also I am not circumsized, Now it has to be combination of things with the size like stamina, desires, appetite etc. I have friends tell me that they are small and have trouble getting their significant other wet. I generally go about 30-35 minutes each session and my desires are what some people would call "abnormal". If I am with a right person, I have gone whole night fucking, and at the same time not being selfish. I make sure she is enjoying as much as I am. Normally we dont have any other option to change the sheet in the middle of the night because its soaking wet. Motion in the ocean is true but size adds more to it...

  • It will never be settled, because guys who worry about this sort of thing, will always worry about it. No words from a girl is going to change that. It's endemic to their personality.

  • Is 6 inches good? And do you prefer circumcised or uncircumcised

    • That doesn't matter, but uncircumcised penises feel more.

    • What do you mean?

    • I'm uncircumcised..

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