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Do men hate eating pussy?

So I'm just curious. I never really had an issue with bfs going down on me, they always did. Then I met my current bf who before we started dating said eating pussy was nasty and it grossed him out. I told him he was getting no head if he ate no pussy. Well he went down and now he never stops and loves it. When he's done eating me out he has a rock hard boner and that's a really huge turn on, but still says he would never eat another girl out and talks as if vaginas generally are really gross. He said most guys don't like eating pussy. He said he'd fake eat out his ex using his fingers :/ haha wtf On a side note: me and my current bf had split for 2 years a while back and I had dated another man in between for 6 months. He said it was gay to eat pussy (I don't even see any logic in that) he also said arabs dont eat pussy. He still went down on me too, but his dick was always limp after he was done which was disappointing. I think he did it to make me happy, which is okay I guess, but it feels so much better when you know the guy is really turned on by it. I used to just think most men enjoyed doing it. So fellas is it a turn on to eat a girl out? Do you do it just to keep her happy or do you not do it at all because it's "gross"?
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  • Those who find it "nasty" are unaware that a vagina is self cleaning and just find it strange in general.

    Strange in the way meat eaters don't really like eating salad.

    There's also p*rn influence where the performance makes the viewer believe that penetration is better than oral for girls.

    But since lots of women have difficulty cumming from penetration, oral is somewhat essential for a guaranteed orgasm for the average woman.

    So you have a good strategy.
    Most guys who dislike eating pussy wouldn't bother trying unless they were given the bj ultimatum that you gave your bf.

    I personally love it, both for her pleasure and the fact that something as unappreciated as my tongue could be so powerful.

    So I like the thrill factor of knowing my tongue can make her body cringe. That alone makes eating out my favorite activity :)

  • I **LOVE** eating pussy more than anything, including intercourse. It gets me rock hard, and the best orgasms I have are from eating pussy and nothing else. I always suspect a guy might be gay if he won't want to make out with his girl's pussy. I've never understood guys who don't like it, although I'm aware there are many as I've been told by girlfriends as well as other women.

    I've had the privilege of regularly given oral to a number of my female friends whose boyfriends won't go down on them. Few of them would consider it cheating since their boyfriends won't do it, and we don't have intercourse.

    • That's a lot of different dicks you are sharing those pussies with. The odds of contracting an STD are exponentially increased, right in your face!

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have heard black guys don't like it, but like oral on themselves.
    I have no idea about it, but I suspect it's BS.
    It's not like you can exactly ask around on something like that.
    My guy and i love oral.

    • Not true at all. All of the men I've been with (primarily black men) loved going down on me. My current boyfriend can't get enough of it. I don't even have to ask he just goes straight for it whenever we're in the mood.

    • Is that what you have; a Killer Taco. HHHHHHHHHHHHH Yeah I do think I've heard that black thing from like white girls, so validity is always an issue.

    • yeah not true. race has nothing to do with it. its just blk men are known for being better at sex but they do love going down on women just as much as any other man. trust me

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  • Most men eat pussy and enjoy it. There are a select few who find it disgusting, and sometimes guys can be turned off by it from bad experiences (pussies with bad hygiene) .

    • With my bf abd that one ex who said they didn't do it I always just thought in my head "I'll change your mind" hahaha

    • It's because pussy sometimes tastes like alcohol. So long as it does, us guys will devour it :)

  • Have to say that I'm loving these answers 😋 It's one of the BEST feelings ever to be eaten out.

    • Another best feeling is to be the one doing it!

    • I need to find a woman like you

  • I have never run into a guy that didn't like playing with and eating the pussy.

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  • It's fun and a turn on if the hair is trimmed or shaved, the area recently washed and the taste and smell are pleasant. I've eaten some that made me want to gag and couldn't continue and others you just want to keep going. For me, it's a matter of personal hygiene if I'm going down there or not.

  • It is really fun and a turn on because of how the girl reacts other wise I wouldn't find it as enjoyable. Also it is a lot easier to do if the pussy is bald or trimmed, if it is hairy down there I won't be eating there any time soon

  • I personally love it. Guys that don't go down on you but expect you to give them head are selfish beyond measure... and probably not just in bed.

    I've met girls that don't like giving head, so I guess it goes both ways though.

    • I love this anonymous thing because I don't feel embarrassed to say I love love love sucking my bfs dick. It's a huge turn on for me to do it. I always wondered how some girls didn't like it. That's about as strange to me as a guy who doesn't eat pussy.

    • Haha that's awesome. Most girlfriends I've had also loved giving head as well and I'm not one to complain! But I always make sure to eat her as well. It's only fair!


  • No, I love eating pussy. I love everything about it. I love the feeling I get from opening her legs, gently kissing her inner thighs, while slowly working my way towards her pussy. I always anticipate the moment where I get so close to her pussy, that her scent captivates me; as if her pussy scent is finger-signaling me to come closer.

    I enjoy teasing her as I peck-kiss her pussy mound and gently brush her pubic hair with my face. I love to dig my face in between her labia majora and I use my nose to tease her clit with tiny wiggle movement. I inhale deeply her sweet scent and exhale my hot breath on her pussy and clit. All along, I never open my mouth to wet her. All my face digging and teasing is gentle and dry touches. I do this until she starts to get wet. Then and only then, do I begin to lick and tongue-kiss her pussy. She fucking loves it. And so do I. Even if it takes 30-45 minutes to make her orgasm, I enjoy every second of it.

    Sometimes when she can't orgasm from cunnilingus, she gets so close that she'll beg me to fuck her. Sometimes I keep eating her and start introducing gentle finger insertions. But eventually we both can't take it and go all the way. She definitely has an orgasm once I'm inside her 😁

    As a bonus, sometimes if I go down on her in the morning, and we're running late for work, I won't wipe my face so that throughout the day, I can raise my upper lip to my nose and take a nice whiff of her pussy scent. It's intoxicating and it drive me nuts, no pun intended. When I text her to tell her that I'm thinking of her and that I just took a nice whiff of her pussy scent. She'll typically responds with, "babe, your nasty." But I think she secretly loves it when I tell her that.

    In fact, I love it so much, just writing about this is making me horny. Excuse me now, while I go find my girl...

  • i don't think most men hate it. i know some men see it as emasculating but i think that's really just an insecurity thing.

  • No, boys hate eating pussy. Men relish in it and crave it.

  • I love it.
    Worship it.

  • Anyone who doesn't like it has probably never done it.

    I love giving oral to a woman (or a man for that matter).

    I adore the look, scent and taste of a woman. I can't get enough of eating a woman.

  • I love it

  • I eat my wife's pussy nearly everytime before vaginal intercourse. I make her cum and then I cum in her pussy afterward. Eating pussy is great, it builds up anticipation and I love her taste, to the point where I ask her not to wash so much before. She prefers to thoroughly wash/shower, but the compromise is she now uses mostly water to clean her pussy. A woman's pussy simply feels better to me after she has had an orgasm.
    I have had experiences however outside of an LTR with a few women I was not 100% into (more just wanted sex with her), and something smelled off down there. In those cases I bailed on eating pussy and moved right into intercourse.

  • Most love it.

  • I do it to make her feel good, but that's because it gets me off to know that I can make somebody else feel good. Because as an aspie, I enjoy sex as it is, without any societal bs involved. I understand that it's the basic point of sex... to show someone you love them/appreciate them (not really the promiscuous type). I understand that sex is a form of feeling connected, and I don't really make it more complicated than that

  • Well if he's over analyzing when going down on the ecosystem of life?

  • My girlfriend and I are in our 50s, I love eating her beautiful pussy, I get rock hard then get into her but she loves giving me a blowjob after I eat her out for half an hour, men who only like to receive (BJs) and not go down on on their significant other because they think it’s gross are selfish and just plain wrong

  • personaly i would... it's fine with me.

  • im pretty sure most guys wouldn't mind in the heat of the moment. you said it yourself, those guys said they would never and yet they have eaten you out, changed their minds.

  • I love it for me and for making her happy. I just prefer a shower first if possible. I have a too overly sensitive nose. But I like adding stimulating creams and tasty flavored gels in the mix.

  • I have researched not that all guys do enjoy cunnlingus... Same as ladies do not enjoy sucking penis whether if its clean or not.
    If guys really think about gross... If any woman who douche and bathe really good and nothing about gross... If you have seen at porn movies? They always keep it clean too. Its a huge pleasure that turn guys on.

  • Love it.

  • He's wrong, I would say most guys love oral. There are some guys that don't like it though.

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