Why do white men like Asian women?

Anything in specific? Ik they are the complete opposite of female pakis/arabs/turks in the sense that they are a very feminine looking race... But, anything else?
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@Bellibooo Don't give me a stupid answer like that. It's irrelevant to the question because I specified Asian. I didn't ask, "Why do white men like women that aren't white?"...
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  • I Agree that the white guy's love of Asian girls is not really as rampant in Europe as it is here in the states. I lived in Europe for a year (and going back soon!) and I noticed this. Now, this isn't to say that Asian girls didn't have dates in Europe . I knew several who did. I'm just saying the idea that Asians, or at least Eastern Asians, are the most feminine group isn't a globally accepted view. I'm black/mixed and I got way more attention than some of my Asian friends. Its not a competition, but I'm just illustrating the point further - in the U. S. its largely the opposite.

    Back to your question, there are several answers for this. Most are based on benevolently racist stereotypes, but sometimes it is just because a guy likes a specific girl without accompanying that attraction with generalizations that are commonly applied to Asian women. But some of those stereotypes/factors are:
    Very smart
    Very nice
    More submissive or traditional - "family oriented"
    Not feminist
    They tend to be very slim, tiny, and less curvy, which is quite popular with white guys here
    Exotic factor/contrast - compared to white guys
    Better personalities than other women (sum of more submissive, nicer, and smarter)

    Some guys have more rejection experience with one group and find more success with another. (Not saying thats the case for all white guys who like Asians, or even a majority. I can't know that as a certainty)

    Also, it's very widely known in many western contexts (not in Asia, perhaps, although I think there to a degree as well) that Asians love white features. In my city, its not a secret that Asian women LOVE white men. That can be encouraging to them, I'd imagine.

    And there's a political history of aggressive western oppression and exoticism of Asian people that I think ties into all of this, but thats another conversation for another day, and probably a bit further down the rabbit hole than most would prefer to go. Though, it is kind of ironic.

    • I'm from Europe and I fully agree with your assessment of the popularity of Asian women (or lack thereof) and black/mixed women here. So I really don't get the hate on Asian women in GaG.

  • I think it depends what you think is 'very feminine looking'. pakis/arabs/turks definitely have more boobs and hips which are feminine traits. they have big eyes that are feminine. unfortunately they often have an equally big nose in comparison that many guys seem to think is masculine looking.

    whenever my white bf thinks a model/actress is ugly, and I ask him 'why?' 90% of the times he'll say it's because of her nose, it's 'too big' for his liking o_O I didn't know a nose could make or break attraction so much.

    • Hahaha, very true. Tbh, I shouldn't have included pakis because I do think they're feminine looking more so.. The men are petite.. No idea why I included them. But yeah, it's mainly due to the nose factor.

  • It's just a curiosity, especially when they've never really directly approached an Asian and be good friends as they would with their white counterparts. The differences in appearances also captivates them. But the biggest part to liking them has to do with liking their culture first hand.

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  • I am with one now. This about foreign born East Asians.
    Physically they tend to be slender, athletic and retain their youth.
    I prefer the tan skin and straight black hair.
    They tend to be sexually uninhibited and compliant in private.
    They tend to be modest, calm and discreet without sexual politics, pretense and psychodrama.
    They tend to be far less vain, materialistic and self centered.
    They wear far less makeup and need not fuss with their already perfect hair.
    They are proud of their domestic skills.
    They celebrate authentic femininity.
    They respect their men and consider kids a duty.
    I'm getting writers cramp. You get the idea.

  • They have extremely adorable facial structures a very unique skin complexion, most 40 year old Asian females can pass for a 21 if they properly care for their skin.

    & this one is for the guys who are thinking this or don't have the balls to say it,
    their Vagina are ONE of the BEST to bang, I had to say it, I won't even deny it,
    I won't get much love from lots of females for this comment but, Its the truth.

    oxox it hurts I know, I'm sorry, I am.

    My Mouth and I'll #Kanye how I want too!

    • No no. No offence taken. I respect the honesty tbh.

    • Phew~, I'm sweating balls thinkin about how many people would've found this offensive. thanks :D, I probably could've worded it a bit better but my vocabulary is that of a highschool graduate. x: lol. The silence alone was just guilt tripping me O. O

    • I agree about the whole wording thing, but if you believe it's the truth then give the honest answer; as long as it's respectful. :)

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  • For some men, it's a fetish and there's no explanation for a fetish. It just is. Some of us love how very often that are so submissive and compliant and willing to do most anything.

  • you have said something very very offensive about pakistani, arab and turkish women... jesus christ :/

    • Its reality, love.

    • no, it is not.

  • I think it's quite common to like another race than 'your own'.

    • I agree

    • @kangy Asker didn't apparently, she got mad.

    • she is apparently upset with Asian woman. what's wrong with people these days?:/

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  • Asian women is a very broad term which relates to many different ethnicities and races.

    Indian women are my favourite.

    • On the behalf of ur Indian women thank you

    • When "Asian" is used, most guys mean East Asians, old school expression: Orientals. Old West expression (I rather like) "Celestials".

    • Asia is a vast continent of different ethnicities and races. Asian means someone from Asia, now that can be a person born in Taiwan or a person born in Sri Lanka.

  • Damn what's going on here. I've seen some Asian girls here complaining that white guys don't like them... and now you say they do?

    I'm REALLY REALLY confused.

    • We wouldn't want that, now would we?

  • i believe it's because of physical attraction.. cute faces, nice hair, nice skin, slim :)

  • Exotic factor, plus most Asian cultures are very similar culturally in terms of colorism

  • It is not like all white guys like Asian women, so chill.
    @Bellibooo said it right , it is common to date outside our race and she had answered specifically to your question.

    @bubble_tea

    • Why would you want to date outside of the white race? Lmfaoo.

    • Thank you, @kangy.

    • Maybe because people are not close minded or racist. Lmfaoooooooo it isn't that tough or complicated to understand right?

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  • My friend likes their look, how they are short, and how him playing video games may turn them on.

  • I like that they are feminine and feminine looking. I also think of them as smart, someone that would take care of their husband and be good mothers. All together, they would make a good wife.

  • Why shouldn't we like them?

  • They have cute faces and they are tiny.

  • White men don't like Asian women, any more than they like white women.

    Asian women like white men though

  • The same Asian like white women.

  • They are sympatic

  • IF I WASN'T CRAMPING SO BAD ID GIVE YOU A LECTURE ABOUT QUESTIONS LIKE THESE!

    • u r very cute :D

  • Asian girls are the most feminine.

  • Asian women are a refreshing change from the typical feminized Western women.

  • They are submissive ;)

    • More like "compliant". Not out of being controlled. By choice of assumed duty.

    • Bahaha touche

  • I have to say that, at least in my part of Europe , that isn't really true. Most guys here like girls who are taller and curvier than what Asians usually look like.

    • yes i noticed when i went to Europe