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Guys how much do blue balls actually hurt?

How much does blue balls actually hurt. So I posted a question earlier because my boyfriend and I where making out. He said his blue balls hurt and that he needed to relieve himself, saying thy the only way for the pain to go away quickly was for someone else to do help him. So I did because I didn't want him to be in pain (also because he said if I really liked him I'd help him and I do really like him). I said this and someone said it didn't hurt so I was wondering, how much do blue balls actually hurt?
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  • Yes they do. But just to help you out, it's not his actual balls that are hurting. Nor is it because of any "sexual buildup".

    The medical term for what's happening is vasocongestion. Vaso- relates to the vascular system, which is blood. As you probably know, blood is what causes a penis to get erect. When soft tissue at the base of the penis relaxes and allows blood to flow into it, this causes the erection. However, if he has an erection for too long then it will begin to hurt right at the base of his penis or his lower abdomen.

    Imagine if you held a book over your head. After a while, your arm and shoulder are going to start hurting because they're being taxed without having a chance to rest. Same concept, just a different kind of pain. When a guy orgasms, his body signals the blood to leave his penis and for that soft tissue to go back to how it was before the erection. So it IS helped by sexual release, but indirectly.

    So the next time you hear a guy tell you that he needs relief in order to make his balls stop hurting, he's most likely trying to guilt or pressure you into sex. He doesn't need a release, he just needs to lose the erection and he'll be fine. If that means masturbating (if you aren't down for sex) or just cooling off and letting it go away, then he'll just have to do that.

    The first time I tried masturbating, I was looking at p*rn for like an hour and a half. I didn't know how to finish at that time, so I just kept looking at p*rn because I liked it. Pretty suddenly, the base of my penis started hurting REALLY bad. Like, it felt like a lot of pressure or like someone was choking it lol. I turned the computer off but I couldn't stand up straight because it hurt too much. I had to walk back to my room hunched over.

    • Thank you. What are some ways I can help get rid of the erection that aren't like sexual things (if that makes sense), basically to calm him down

    • Probably just get up and walk away, or just "switch off" the sexual mood. Of course, if you are causing the sexual mood and he's not just coming onto you, then of course you shouldn't get him fired up if you're not in the mood for sex. That's just confusing and frustrating for no reason. But yeah, it's not really your obligation to service him every time the mood strikes him or an erection pops up. If you've got things to do, then just tell him so. Pull up some p*rn for him and tell him to have at it lol

    • Yeah I wasn't trying to tease him or anything, i just really didn't want to go that far. But is be way too embarrassed to just leave him with some p*rn lol

  • Honestly he's a douche for asking you to do it for him. I have probably the most severe blue balls people can get at this moment, it involves rupturing and stretching of the epididymis within the scrotum. It DOES hurt like a mother fucker. Imagine the worst gas you've ever had, with the twisting tearing feeling, but in your crotch and the pain recedes up the spinal cord so it hurts in other close regions of the body. It only requires masturbating to relieve. Honestly ejaculating harder, like you would from a woman, relieves it faster but is by no means a necessity. I've never been rude enough to tell a girl about it. Not sure how she'd take it anyway. sounds like the intro to a bad porno. If the blue balls, or technically known as epidydimitis (or something), gets bad enough to where ejaculating doesn't help you can need antibiotics to reduce the swelling.

    So yes. Blue balls is very real. It hurts like a hard bruise or gas in the balls depending on how bad it is. I wish I had a girl who would willingly help me relieve mine haha. But I still find it sleezy he asked you.

    It's funny I've read that sex and testosterone in semen helps relieve menstral cramps for women too. Nature is a kinky bitch. Menstral Cramps + blue balls = most chore-like sex ever?

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  • Blue balls isn't fucking real. I'm pretty sure I answered your last question and I told you the same thing. Use a search engine and look it up.

    • You've never gotten real hard then stopped, have you lol

    • you are misinformed.

      health.howstuffworks.com/.../...lls-dictionary.htm

    • www.cosmopolitan.com/.../

      Looking for info from a ladies perspective? Here it is.

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  • It might hurt but a guy can fix it on his own. You don't need to do anything no matter what he says.

    • Yeah, that's what I'm hearing

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  • It feels like ur testicles are in a knot and u got punched in ur stomach

    For me anyways
    But depends how badly Uve been teased lol

  • Really bad actually. It's just rare. And you don't require someone else to help you, though of course it's nicer if someone else does and slightly easier.

  • It's not so much a case of them actually hurting, but rather, the unending frustration and misery of being constantly fixated on the gorgeous woman who is the source of this wretched condition. Blue balls can be caused both randomly as well as intentionally, and I can honestly say that I view a woman who willfully prick teases me into a state of absolute insanity is someone whom I will always be eternally grateful to, because unfulfilled sexual arousal is a vital component of the learning process of how men should treat women ❤️

  • Blue balls hurt some guys and not others.. Saying they don't hurt anybody is like saying child birth never hurts because Aunt Becky gave birth and said she barely felt it.

    Look up vasocongestion, they'd the medical term. It will tell you all you need to know.

    • I have an aunt Becky hahaha

    • Lol...

  • It doesn't actually hurt, for me, it's just the urge to either have sex or jerk off. IMMEDIATELY

  • it's not really pain, like a sprained ankle or something, more like extreme tenderness and swelling. if you don't touch them or move much you don't feel it that much, but it's very sensitive and uncomfortable.

    • Is it mainly just uncomfortable because it's pressing up against your jeans

    • You're not necessarily wearing jeans when it happens, but yes, just the pressure of the fabric can make it hurt. Walking around naked with your balls bouncing against your legs also hurts.

    • Well my boyfriend wasn't naked, he was wearing jeans

  • Lol. He totally played you. Pity works, so why not I guess.

  • this may help.

    health.howstuffworks.com/.../...lls-dictionary.htm

    • So it's mainly just an aching feeling, without extreme pain

    • i think it varies from guy to guy, but I would say you're right that it's not extreme pain - more of a throbbing ache.

    • Okay thank you that was really informative

  • It's more uncomfortable than pain

  • It hurts really bad. like having any part of your body squeezed hard for an indefinite amount of time. even finishing doesn't help sometimes

  • A fucking lot.

  • From past experiences, it doesn't "hurt" per se, but it's more of an ache like "I really want to pull these off!!!"
    Once you get past that, you're no longer a boy.

  • Yeah you have to suck the pain out

  • Its not really a physical pain but its like a really strong urge. Especially when things get really intense. Like if your making out for 10 minutes and there's just a solid build up. Its kinda like eating really spicy food, you body craves water to quell the sensation.

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