some questions:
What do you suppose would be the ideal number of prior sexual encounters for your boyfriend? Why is that the ideal? What will happen as a result of your boyfriend not fitting this ideal? Would it have been better if his sexual experiences were not in the context caring, long term relationships?
What are you afraid of?
Do you worry that he will go back to a previous girlfriend? Do you fear that you won't ever meet his expectations? Do you think that this might make him leave you for a new sexual partner?
Has he done ANYTHING to merit this much worry?
Could you recognize that you have a loving, caring boyfriend (!!!) that right now wants to be with you exclusively. Might you come to understand that you are the beneficiary of all that he has learned before being with you? Can you understand that fretting about something you know can't be changed will, over time, sabotage this relationship? Do you understand that the success or failure of this relationship depends on your willingness to support and defend it?0 1 0 0I don't have an ideal number I just know he's probably had sex literally 100 times more than I have. I worry I will never live up to expectations or previous girlfriends in the bedroom because I don't know what the fuck I'm doing. I worry one of his ex girlfriends is going to come back and he will just be like lol bye and that he's only with me because he doesn't like being alone, he likes having someone, and that I'm actually just a rebound and he's still not over someone else. Now is this enough information for you to just answer my question or do you need my whole life story?
Have you considered the possibility that your comparative innocence here just might be a source of attraction to your boyfriend? If this is true, then you are a singularly special lover for him.
Right now YOU have a decision to make regarding how he gets to experience you: 1) "I wish she could have just relaxed, and been open and honest with me... It's like every time we were together she put up her defenses and she never let me in... too bad because I really liked her." -OR- 2)"I am simply amazed that we have been together for yet another year. That woman brings a freshness into my life that is just... just... intoxicating. I remember when we first got together, she was a little put off by my, shall we say... experience. But then , a most wonderful thing happened: She sat me down and said that even though she did not know what the future held for us, she knew that right now it was her & me... and that was enough. I've been with my share of women over the years, but she is just blew me away. She radiates this amazing trust. Nobody else even compares."
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Don't stress out about that he's is with you now and he wants to be with you maybe that's what he likes about you that you don't have much experience anyways guys always like to teach girls instead of being taught
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