What's the appeal in eating pussy?

So I've been seeing this guy and today we were hanging out and things started to get a little intense. Its been a while for both of us and he asked if he could eat me out. I love being eaten out but I feel like guys feel obligated to do this. Whats the appeal in eating your girls pussy, men?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm a girl, but I've spoken with enough men to feel I can offer some input here.

    Not ever guy enjoys this, and you're right, some feel obligated. It is a courtesy to some, but at least those who do it out of courtesy aren't totally selfish in bed.

    Now, the good news. A lot of men enjoy this and take pride in doing a good job. Knowing how to please a woman like this is very significant to some men because it means they feel as though they're good in bed. And if they're doing a good job at oral sex then they probably are good lovers in other departments, too. There are other reasons men enjoy this. Some men enjoy the taste. Some men find going down to be very erotic/stimulating.

    Turn the tables. Do you enjoy going down on men? It might be very sexy to feel like you are totally capable of bringing a man to orgasm with only your mouth (and maybe some hand action). It might be sexy to know he's aroused watching what you're doing. It doesn't necessarily stimulate you in a physical way, but it's more of a mental stimulation. it can be like that for men as well.

    • Thank you for understanding.

    • What she said!

    • This girl knows exactly what us men are thinking! Kudos!

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's mainly because a girl's orgasm is my favorite part of sex. For me it's the most amazingly intimate thing ever, and it feels like I'm more a part of her orgasms with it right there in my face. I'm frankly a lot better with my tongue than I am with my penis when it comes to giving orgasms, and I love seeing her lose control because of what I'm doing to her naughty bits.

    That and the look, smell and taste of a horny girl's vulva are sexy as hell.

  • There are pheromones in women's scent that act on a guy and arouse him. When getting right in there it is almost overpowering. And the taste is wonderful. Plus while you are doing it you are getting a great view, and guys are very visual. So a normal guy does not feel obligated, he feels honored. You are not obligating the guy you are seeing, you are giving him a wonderful gift.

    • What he said!

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  • What ISN'T the appeal?

  • Its an opportunity to get close to something that has held my interest for most of my life. The smell and taste are pleasant, even arousing. If a woman can be comfortable enough to let me down there, and comfortable enough to cum, this is a good measure of the state of our relationship. Giving pleasure is a pleasure in its own right.

    • Check the ages of the guys that have replied and see if you notice a pattern.

  • I definitely don't feel obligated to eat pussy. I love to eat pussy. I love everything about it. It plays to all of my senses. If it is making you feel good and you are gyrating and moaning I can see and hear that. I can see the beauty of your pussy, and I think all pussy is beautiful. I love the taste and the scent of a woman aroused.

    So for me, I am not obligated but I love it.

  • it dose nothing for me. . . I only do it when I really want to please a lady and its. just the right thing to do.

  • I love giving oral to a girl, as long as she keeps it clean. Its a really good feeling to be in control like that. I like to see her aroused, and i like to see her enjoying it. No, i don't feel its an obligation, because i usually don't ask for a BJ (because i won't last very long i do get one). Is something that i very much enjoy. I like it when she screams, when she squirms, when she holds my head or squeezes my hand.
    Its a great feeling to arouse someone that much.

    Plus, i realize that a lot of girls can only have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation. Its important to me that she orgasms during sex, therefore, oral is an important part of sex- for both me and her.

  • i love doing it, when its clean and shaved. Love the taste, love giving her pleasure

  • I Love to please so it's a bonus. It's taste it's smell the physical response that comes from it all adds to the desire to have sex

  • Love the taste and smell and making her pleased like to hear her cum

  • I love it because her smell, texture, and the feel of her wetness against my face really turns me on. It also feels very intimate to have my face between her legs.

  • dont know why, I just do

  • I love doing it more than you love men doing it! I love it's beauty, it's sweet smell, and it's heavenly flavor but the only part I don't like is after the woman cums she wants me to stop my pussy eating obsession and dick her!

  • For me is to make her orgasm

  • I love cunnilingus.

  • The way you react. The pleasure we give you. It’s never an obligation, not for me anyway.

  • Its a bonus... As it is not concerned with ejaculation... N increases sex time...;)

  • I personally love eating pussy. The stimulation you’re giving the girl is pleasing and makes you feel accomplished. The taste is different from girl to girl. Straight out of the shower (or in the shower) is best but each girl is different. Never had a horrible tasting one but some are definitely more pleasing than others

  • I don't know yet but I want a guy to eat mine oneday and I want to eat another girls today

  • Taste smell feel intimacy all great reasons

  • I totally love giving oral.
    The pheromones I literally breathe and drink are very arousing.
    I love the feel, look, fragrance and taste of a fresh vagina.
    I love the flood of fluids in my mouth and on my face.
    I love the physical reactions like twitching and contracting.
    I love giving her an OMG! orgasm at point blank range.
    So what's not to like?

  • I don't like it at all. I dislike the taste and feel of it. I know I am going to get a lot of hate from both genders but I don't fucking care.

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