Should I let it bother me that my BF told his friends that I let him finish in my mouth?

My BF and I had some friends over last night for a Bon fire. My parents were out of town so we were drinking quite a bit. There were 4 of my BF's friends and 2 girls including me. The conversation was turning perverted after everyone was good and drunk. The guys started talking about blowjobs and my BF blurted out that I gave him a blowjob earlier and made him cum in my mouth and swallowed it. I tried to deny it but I think they could tell it was true because I was blushing and laughing. He went on to say that the first BJ I ever gave him I made him cum in my mouth and I've been doing it ever since. Later in the conversation he even told them I was shaved but had one little strip on my vag. I was embarrassed to say they least and told him to shut up. They all spent the night and the next morning I felt a little awkward around his friends. I was hoping they didn't remember until one of the guys was talking about breakfast and then asked me if Jacob (my BF ) already gave me my breakfast. They laughed and I just said "ha ha" sarcastically. I am a little disappointed in my BF for saying this stuff about me and kinda gave him the cold shoulder this morning. He doesn't seem to know why it's a big deal. Am I over reacting? Should I just not worry about it?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • It's what guys do to boost their ego, especially at that age. Their sex life is rarely personal because it makes them look more manly to their guy friends that they're getting some and they love sex so they're going to be happy about anything new they experience. It doesn't make you look like a slut, the guys would probably find you more intriguing due to your sexual abilities and your boyfriend evidently finds it hot.

    However, your boyfriend should've asked before saying anything, especially about how you shave! I personally wouldn't mind too much because I'm very open about things like that, though I would still find it fairly disrespectful for him to assume it's okay to tell everyone how I shave or how I am in bed! You should tell him that you're not comfortable with him sharing such information, it's personal and meant for just you two. Tell him you understand why he says it but that you don't appreciate it and he should always consider your POV seeing as his sex life involves you. Be aware that he probably tells them stuff when you're not there but it's nothing to worry about.

  • Guys have guy talk , that's normal.
    The only thing that strikes me as odd is that he got real descriptive talking about your vagina.

    I mean guys usually have this sort of talk when their girl isn't there.

    Girls have these sorts of talks with their friends also.
    It's normal.
    I just wouldn't like him to speak about those things in front of me.

    Let him know that u felt uncomfortable.
    Don't hide your feelings.
    Guys can't read you.

  • I don't think you're over reacting. Those are all very private things that he should have never said. A boyfriend shouldn't want his girlfriend to be viewed in any sexual way from his friends. He should want the complete opposite. No matter how drunk he was , what he said was rude.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't think your over reacting at all. Unless you two have agreed to share your sex life with your friends then you should be acting this way. You might want to bring it up that you don't like him talking about that so openly.

    But is his defense me might have been totally hammered

  • No you're not over reacting! omg.. he should respect you more, i think.

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  • I would be furious if my boyfriend told other people that kind of stuff.

  • your boyfriend was being a bit of a jerk. Some things you don't talk about.

  • Don’t give him the cold shoulder. Be mature adults and talk about it. He was bragging that’s what guys do in front of their friends. How is he supposed to know you felt uncomfortable if you never told him. Talk to him about it and in private.

  • So it's true u made him cum in your mouth the first time?

  • I can understand that. It should be a private thing