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I've replaced women with fleshlights and p*rn ... is this wrong or creepy?

I prefer a fleshlight and p*rn to a real woman. My mindset is this: why constantly spend hundreds or thousands of dollars out of pocket just to please a woman who's attention, love and affection is fleeting and circumstantial at best (depending on what she wants at the moment) when you can pay out of pocket ONE time and be set. No worries about child support, divorce, alimony, STDs, mood swings or any of that. The worst part of it is the fact that the majority (98%) of women have absolutely NO interest in me romantically as a man or even as a human being, UNTIL they figure out i have a good paying job (Same ones who reject me and laugh get soaking wet when they see my car) Then im the sexiest thing to walk this earth. but, because im not trying to go out and meet women, or even have sex with them, all women in general have become practically invisible to me. Is this creepy or wrong?
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To all the white knight beta male simpletons, I'll put it in a metaphor: Let's say you were given a box of 12 hand grenades. ONLY one of those grenades open up into a big ass priceless diamond that you keep forever. The other 11 blow up and kill you. The catch is you won't know which until after you've pulled the pin. Now... would and sane man gamble with those kind of odds?
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  • If you imagine your life 10 or 20 years into the future and are happy with the outcome then go for it. I don't see why you can't do both though, like while doing your own thing, also keeping your eyes open in case you find someone. And if a woman expects you to spend money on her then just move on to the next cause not every woman will be like that. And I would hardly compare women with grenades cause like you said grenades kill you, however it is your choice on whether or not you let women screw you over and even if they do, I'm pretty sure you won't be dead, meaning you can try again and again, but with a grenade you can't do that. I just don't think that you are being very rational about this.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why do you care? Fuck 'em. Do what you want. Women aren't considered creepy if they use dildos or read 50 shades.

    As for golddiggers, they don't get soaking wet over your money I'm afraid to say. Money doesn't make a girl want to fuck you, it just makes them want you to believe that so they can spend your money. If that's all you have going for you, you could improve in other areas if you wanted to, but like I said, if you're fine as you are, fuck it.

    • In actuality I don't care. I just wanted opinions.

  • It isn't wrong at all.

    I have been married for 25 years and the last 20 have been disastrous at best. But with kids, I have stayed in it for them. I spend a lot of time with it in my hands to get my sanctification.

    Hindsight being 20/20 a fleshlight may have been the better option. I am sure I would have worn many out, but still less stress and would get it whenever I wanted.

    • I know its none of my business but could you clarify how the last 20 y have been disastrous?

    • Marriage with no love, not companionship, no intimacy, no sex. We live together in physical space only. We are equals in the raising of our 2 daughters. But outside of that there really is not much there. We stopped sleeping together years ago. We are going through the motions only at this point.

    • Fleshliiiiight...

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • What is a fleshlight? Should I even ask?

    • I don't wanna Google it if it's weird lol. Someone please tell me

    • Google it

    • See above lol

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  • If you're happy with it, why worry what anyone else thinks?

    • Exactly

    • Just wanted opinions, even if they are irrelevant and won't change my mindset

  • why would you wanna do that man. girls are original and girls! you can always be smart about it when it comes to diseases and unwanted pregnancies. it can all be good bruh with girls.

    • wow anyone feel like getting in-n-out all of the sudden?

    • Someone didn't read the entire post...

    • your second half is irrelevant. it seems like you give up before giving all the effort.

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  • Fine with me if it's fine with you

  • If you are pursuing women just for sex then yes you are playing a game.

    Women are gods gift to man in a softer gentler companion to share good times and bad. Laughs and tears. Fortunes and losses.

    I love and treasure everything about the female gender. The sex is a benefit not the prize.

    You are after the wrong things in life and on the path to a very shallow meaningless existence.

    • First, women are NOT gentle... they are actually more dangerous in my eyes because when they want to fuck you over they are subtle and cunning. You won't know what's coming until it hits you in the face. 99% of husbands don't know their headed for divorce until they get served with the papers. Second, what is gods gift to women? Certainly isn't men. We are expendable to them. Utilities to be used and traded like a household appliance. So what you're saying is the purpose of a mans life is a woman? A woman who will leave him at the drop of a hat as soon as someone better comes along? Lemme tell you someone bro... we are born FROM the uterus, not FOR it...

  • I don't think its healthy personally, but do whatever you want

  • It about more than that for me, I like the companionship. My wife is my best friend.

    • I've had female "best friends" and they're among the worst...

  • Why not visit a brothel. i pay for it rather than have a GF best thing i have ever done

    • Ok. Dates, dinners, movies, wedding ring, house. Then divorce lawyers, child support, and alimony. Seems to me you're gonna have to spend money either way...

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