Is my girlfriend being honest when she says my penis is "huge"?

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone. I would like the girls opinion on this. I have been dating my girlfriend for a year. Earlier on I stupidly asked her if I was the biggest guy she's had and she said no. She said she was with a guy that was "massive." She felt uncomfortable talking about it but I got curious and asked how big and she guessed 9in. My ego was bruised a bit and I felt self conscious. Im 7.5 inch long with a 5.5 girth. She always said I was big. But not recently in the last few months she is saying Im huge. Its really bothering me because she's never said that before and Im worried she is saying it to make me feel good. She swears she's not and that she really thinks its huge. I asked her if the biggest guy is really 9 and she now says now that she thinks of it he was 1 inch longer and.5 inch more in girth. She tells me Im the best she's had and better than that guy and that it was uncomfortable and he didn't last long. But Im not sure she is being honest with me when she says Im huge. She tells me she doesn't want it bigger and it already hurts sometimes. Yet she tells me Im big when Im hard but huge in my absolute hardest state. I believe her when she says Im the best she's had but Im humble and can't believe the huge comment. I've been told Im big but I dont think its huge even tho she swears it is. She tells me she didn't tell me that before because she wasn't as comfortable and she had not experienced it as much as she has now. So the question is should I believe her when she says Im huge or is she saying it to just make me feel good?

[Red_Arrow]

You seem to worry mostly about your girls having been with a guy that was larger. You even said your ego was bruised. Wake up. There are bigger guys. I can understand being jealous (understand, not agree) about her having been with larger, but how can you ego be bruised by the fact that larger exists. And ehe and most girls on here as well as in the world will tell you two things: some penises can be TOO large, as in actually be too large to comfortably fit, and what he does with it and other moves are more important than the size. A guy can be huge and just not know how to please a girl and can't learn. Girls don't want that.

The answer on here that was extremely good at explaining from a woman's view was @Findingmyway. Just believe what she told you as gospel, and you will have the best knowledge of what is important.

[AustinMan]

Dude!!! Shut the fuck up and take the compliment!!! She's saying it earnestly so accept that in her eyes and hands and pussy and ass and mouth, you're huge. OK? Any questions?

[Findingmyway]

Rule número uno.. You don't discuss past men unless relevant to your current relationship and penis size difference is not a justified reason.. you absolutely don't compare penis sizes. 7.5" is still very large/massive so even if he was 9" she is not lying. And largest doesn't equal best. My most pleasure came from an average man versus a large man. You are wasting time stressing about it.
How you make her feel feels massively good is what she is saying is true and its your massive manhood thats doing it. It has nothing to do with the other guy.. And no more asking her about other guys penis sizes. Thats taboo no no..

[Asker]

I guess thinking of her having bigger kinda makes me jelous or wonder if she liked it more or when she likes mine i wonder how much more she like that. She says he was an inch bigger but dont know if I should believe her. I've started doing exercises to make it bigger. She says she doesn't want it bigger but I want to be her biggest. Bothers me that Im second biggest even though she says its best.

[Findingmyway]

Its not a competition.. You need to believe her.. Biggest does not equal best. Making love and sex is not about being the biggest. She is with you, not him which means you are the best.. Not him!

[Findingmyway]

I don't have sex with my guy wondering if my breasts are the biggest or feeling bad if they aren't.. Or needing them to be or my girly parts to be the best.. I want to be the best in bed with what I have.

[Asker]

thank you for your input. Im responding to your post because I find it very helpful. I understand what your saying. She says Im the best and I know bigger isn't better. But just imagining a bigger guy than me hurts. it just bothers me that she says im huge now but didn't say that before and now she's saying that guy is only an inch more. I want to believe her but its hard cuz of the inconsistancies. its hard to believe her biggest was 8.5x6.

[Findingmyway]

I could be inconsistent with measurements too. I don't have sex with a ruler there too.. So its just a guess. You need to let it go. Penis sizes vary and there are more important things in life and relationships then being the biggest and needing her measurements to be accurate.

[Asker]

I know what your saying but it just makes me feel bad when she tells me im huge then says things like bigger isn't better and it wasn't good and your perfect. Makes me feel small and looks like she was impressed by that more than she is by me even tho she says Im better. Its making it hard to do it with her imagining her taking a bigger one.

[Findingmyway]

Thank you for MHO :-)

[Anonymous]

there's no point in not believing her. 7.5 sounds big to me. she could think you're "huge" even though she's been with someone bigger. like i think my boyfriend is big even though he isn't the biggest i've been with. besides, what's the big deal? what's not believing her going to do for anyone here? lol

[Anonymous]

if it's not true.. she will never tell you otherwise

[Rahdle]

It doesn't really matter, because it won't change your size anyways. But either way, she is saying it to compliment you and because it's in the heat of the moment, your best bet is to just go with it

[Bigandy1990]

Should you believe her. Well sh is with you and likes your pnis so you should be good. I know i am not the biggest my girl has had she told me. If you penetrate and they like it and you go dep they lov it and its perfct for them you dont seem like you have a small penis so no need to worry. You should believe her!!!

[Klaatu51]

i believe yeah...7.5 inches is indeed biglike 2" above the average dick size

[zorro8888]

I'm sure she was being truthful. Guys see their penis from a weird angle which makes it seem a lot less smaller. So there is no reason for her to lie.

[JackKerouac77]

1) Your penis is massive
2) Your ego is fine
3) There are many more important things in life than penis size
4) I'd suggest you raft down the Amazon and take hallucinogenic drugs to stop thinking in the 3rd dimension
5) This is 5
6) Jerk off, calm down and appreciate the fact that you have a girlfriend

[eddzeeman]

Don't ask questions you don't want the answer to

[MakeitOrDieTrying]

Cmon son are you really insecure about a HUGE 7.5 / 5.5? Yes it is HUGE. The 9 incher? He's GIGANTIC.

[Whtevernever]

You're in your late thirties early forties, grow up dude.

[kakaloo]

Of course she is honest!

[Anonymous]

7 1/2 is AWESOME!! The 5 1/2 part width is scary though lol

[Asker]

its 5.5 around or about 2inch diameter. doesn't look scary. she said her biggest was 0.5inch more around :(

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know that width stuff is confusing, but length sounds on point

[Anonymous]

I wish I were 7.5 inches long.

[Anonymous]

She musta been referring to GAG inches
No need to panic your fine

[Asker]

whats GAG inches?

[Opinion Owner]

GAG inches are similar to internet inches. An internet inch = near 1 1/2 inches in the real world.