How can I touch my boyfriends penis without asking?

I really just want to start touching him so we can take a relationship a step further. I know I'm young but I am getting urges to touch his penis... I'm stuck on how to get what I want?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well you have to read the situation, if you are laying in bed together just cuddling and he isn't one of those "marriage first" types then just start touching his inner leg over his clothes and slowly make your way to his penis, if he shows obvious signs of approval aka boner then go ahead and carefully slide your hand down his pants, he won't fight you! The biggest part of all of this is obviously nervousness but you really do just have to go for it because there aren't many guys, especially young ones, that will just place your hand on their junk for you.

  • When you two are in the same room and no one else is around and you're next to each other, then start making out with him and move your hands along his legs and keep getting closer and closer and eventually put it in his pants

    • Thats kinky! :P

    • @sparklingwhite that seems like the right way to do it If I were female, that's totally how I'd do it :P

    • Haha sexy!

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Just put your hand on his thigh while making out and start to move your hand upwards. Go slowly as you do and then finally just kind of grab it. :) Good luck!

    Also, if he's your boyfriend, then you guys should be comfortable enough with each other to talk about that stuff. Don't be afraid to say that you want to touch it.

  • just say yhur curious on how itfeels nd ask him he will let yhu nd start jerking him off bite yhur lips see what he does maybe do oral? show him yhur wild sidee gurl lol

  • Dude just stick your jand down his pants. Its not a big deal.

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  • You don't have to ask. He's secretly hoping you'll touch it anyway.

  • ummm

    touch it while sitting next to other. say you wanted to touch his lap but accidentaly you touched his penis :-P

  • Sit on him like this:

    How can I touch my boyfriends penis without asking?



    Then kiss him in a way where your head is over his, therefore he isn't looking at his crotch but you are. Now you have your left hand ready to grab his penis.

  • You could literally just grab it whenever you want, assuming your in an appropriate location.

  • When making out. Just rub his thys inner and outer. Then after a few mins of this. Rub him through his pants. Then undo his pants and pull it out for him. At this point. He may even let you you stroke it up and down. Start off slow but speed up a little as you go.

  • Take a page from the Nike play book and Just Do It! Next time you're making out, just slide your hand down to his crotch and start massaging his penis.

  • While he's sitting down drop ice cream on his croch and start cleaning the area off with your hands. Then tell him he needs to take them off to get them washed. After when he's in his underwear tell him that he needs to take off his undies too because it is also a mess. Finally when his bottom is undressed tell him that he has some ice cream on his penis, then let yourself clean it off by using your hands and mouth to polish his penis till it's clean or until he starts to produce cream of his own

  • Don't do it without asking. You wouldn't like it if someone touched you between your legs without asking now would you

  • I'm a guy but I say just grab it

  • Then just touch it without asking. Lol

  • just drop something on his pant and touch that part with excuse of cleaning.. if he dont stop u can go further till whay u want

  • when you start an intimate kissing... gently place your hand at his crotch and start running until you open the zipper and grab his penis then start stroking... then enjoy...

  • While touching him touch on some sensetive area so he got hard
    That accidentally go on penis
    He will sure like that