Do you believe that most girls are bi or bicurious?

[GamerArtNerd]

Time and time again I see girls become bi or lesbian after years of being straight. I also see straight girls react very positively to females. It seems as though the beauty of females is something that is naturally appreciated by both genders. A guy can work for months to sculpt the perfect body in the gym yet a girl can literally just be born with wads of fat conveniently located in certain parts of her body to be beautiful. Lastly many girls react very negatively to perverted/sexual guys, even straight girls. The moment you see a very sexual bi or lesbian girl, both genders will immediately respond positively to it (unless she's very sexual toward men) Most girls if not just a very large percentage of girls seem to be open to trying sexual things with a girl and they almost always seem to view it as something they'd be less afraid to do than with a random guy. It seems like these days, the only driving factor for women to be straight is just the social stigma associated with not being "normal". Does anyone else agree with this and what are your opinions on it.

[Kinstrome]

I don't think one sex or the other is inherently more beautiful. People have in the past just emphasized the attractiveness of women. Both sexes have physical characteristics that serve a biological purpose, which the opposite sex finds attractive for the purpose of healthy procreation. Women have tended not to be as vocal about the physical characteristics of men that they enjoy.

I think the higher proportion of female bisexuals to male bisexuals could be due to a few things:

1) There is a somewhat bigger taboo surrounding male homosexuality to female, so many men are afraid to admit their bisexuality.
2) It's possible for girls to have sex with less arousal than guys, since they don't need erections (being wet is important, but there are substitutes). Also, the anus wasn't designed to have things go in it, so unless a guy consciously wants something to go in, he's not going to be keen on letting it happen.
3) Girls are more empathy-based in their attraction than men, who need visual appearances. It's possible to feel empathy with a sex you aren't normally attracted to, but it's hard for a man to feel physical attraction to the body he isn't attracted to.

[GamerArtNerd]

I disagree with 2 and 3. For 2, how you said "anus isn't meant to have things in it. Most gay and lesbian sex consists of oral and masturbation. Butt play is just something "different" regardless of your sexual orientation. 3 I disagree because guys are more likely to screw an ugly girl than a girl is. Guys are more sexually driven and can get turned on by the "beautiful female body" regardless of her face. Personally my morals would prevent me from doing that but I can feel attracted to an ugly female body without having to see her face.

[Kinstrome]

With 2, it's still more possible for women to have sex than men because men require arousal to use a penis well. With 3, that's a good point, but it doesn't have to do with what I'm suggesting. I'm saying that women are likelier to develop interest in other women through empathy than men are to find interest in other men through physical appearances. Empathy can be felt with anyone, but body appearances are gender-specific. A woman may transition to liking another woman through shared emotion, but a man isn't going to start liking another man because he suddenly finds masculine features attractive. And, of course, these are only conjectures.

[VeryBiFun]

I think girls are as bisexual as men are. There are straight men and women, bi men and women and homosexual men and women. Likewise there are those who are unsure which way they want to go. I think there are probably more guys who find the idea of being sexual with another guy what they want more than girls looking to other girls.

I think there are many guys who would like their girl to be bi so they put that on women hoping it will happen.

I am very bi and find both sexes to be amazing alone or in groups mixed or unisexed.

[Sprouty]

I think most are bi-curious because of today's society, and it's idolization of the gay community. Gay has turned in to something more than just a thing that shouldn't be hated upon, but rather a trend... And we know how ladies love their trends (especially the young ones). Women begin to question their sexuality more than they would if he hadn't lived in a society where being gay was the thing.

I couldn't agree more with you when you spoke of the natural sex appeal of the woman's body, and how everything's formed in to place.

The issue with many of these fake bisexuals is that they assume they're bi just because they may get aroused by the display of a woman's beauty, when this isn't the case at all. It's only bi/homosexuality if you want to have sexual contact with that person.

[musicbrain5]

I think a lot of women are more open to a bit of experimentation with the same sex (even just kissing) more than guys are. However, I wouldn't say that most are bisexual, that seems like a bit of a stretch.

I think the idea that all women are bisexuals stems from the imaginations of men - because men are way more visual, they'd love to see two hot women making out with each other.

I'm straight and I have no interest in doing anything sexual with another woman. Women's bodies don't really appeal to me sexually either honestly.

[GamerArtNerd]

Umm no it's not that at all. I honestly hate the idea of being with a bi girl for this same reason. I think it would just be very awkward trying to please 2 girls at the same time and making sure that the other one doesn't get jealous. This is a theory based on life experiences, not fantasies.

[musicbrain5]

But just because a woman is bisexual doesn't mean she can't be monogamous with you.

[GamerArtNerd]

Well you said that this theory is fueled by the imaginations of men. So monogamy kinda has nothing to do with the point you just tried to make.

[musicbrain5]

No, that comment was just a direct response to your comment. Anyways, I said I THINK that's where the theory comes from, I didn't say it was a fact.

[GamerArtNerd]

I know and I was just informing you that that wasn't the case for me, that's all. No need to get upiddy.

[musicbrain5]

I'm not.

[aamy811]

I think girls are seen as birch riots because we're typically more open I trying new things. In 6th grade and time a guy grazes another guys hand he goes "sorry bro, no homo", like making contact with another male makes you gay.
Yet in six grade as a girl we could hold hands, hug, sit on each other's lap if we where out of seats; normal ways of contact. So I just don't think girls are as afraid of sexual experimentation

[GamerArtNerd]

I don't think it's really about fear, it's just about what society lets people do. For example a guy can brag about fucking 10 women in one week but if a girl did the same thing, she'd be considered a slut. A guy will brag about it not because he's "not afraid" it's just because of how our society treats the situations.

[aamy811]

But at the same time the woman doesn't say anything because she's afraid of how society will ridicule her. I think it starts as fear when we're young and care about how people think, then it just becomes habit

[GamerArtNerd]

True but I think that it's mostly just societal norms, not fear. Girls can hold hands and hug but guys can't. This goes for any age after toddlers.

[aamy811]

No I think it's fear, not like a huge life threatening fear, but a social fear. Like. How girls start to diet in high school it's not because we're afraid of death or something like that, but we're just scared that guys won't think we're pretty. And I think that guys are afraid they won't be seen as normal

[GamerArtNerd]

I said social norms, you said social fear... we are both pretty much saying the same thing only I don't think "fear" is the right word when referring to a social stigma.

[aamy811]

No I think fear or afraid is a good word.

[GamerArtNerd]

Meh... I guess we can agree to disagree then.

[SakuraChii]

I think most are bi curious, im straight and I don't feel emotion for women the same way as men but I think a lot of girls are pretty or attractive

[amphet11]

Emotional attraction has nothing to do with sexual orientation, do you feel anything sexual towards those women? i can see a man as good looking bu that doesn't mean i have even the slightest sexual attraction to him. Can you be sexually attracted to a man without emotional attraction.

[SakuraChii]

I don't feel sexual attraction either but to me the emotional part is the same, I think your talking about a different emotion like just caring in General. I can't develop the same romantic feelings for a girl as I can with a guy I can only care about girls so I can't see myself with one, also I usually feel emotion for guys that Im attracted to sexually

[Klaatu51]

no way... each obvious the majority is str8

[xCutesyLolitax]

... Nah, chill.
:P

[GamerArtNerd]

Any input?

[xCutesyLolitax]

... Literally nothing about another woman turns me on.

[GamerArtNerd]

Well let me add something, Does anything about the male body (physically) turn you on?

[xCutesyLolitax]

Yes, but only after I've developed a strong emotional bond with him.

[GamerArtNerd]

Then that isn't physical attraction. Like I can look at a random beautiful naked woman and get turned on by it, the emotional attraction just makes this feeling stronger. I see both men and women get sexually aroused by random naked women but it is extremely rare to find any girls that feel that way about men.

[xCutesyLolitax]

I've never gotten aroused by anyone despite how physically handsome or beautiful they may be if there is lack of emotional connection.

[GamerArtNerd]

I've met quite a few girls like you too, including my girlfriend. My point is that I've seen PLENTY of girls get aroused by other girls' bodies, even straight ones. But I have seen an extremely small amount of girls get turned on my the male body

[xCutesyLolitax]

... Weird.

[GamerArtNerd]

You'll see it, as you get older.

[amphet11]

Women aren't visually attracted to men, read the research i posted in my comment

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 ... Do I have to? .-.

[GamerArtNerd]

@amphet11 I know they aren't but I'm just saying that when they ARE visually attracted, it's usually to girls.

[amphet11]

no, i was actually taking to the asker, the research also showed that "straight"(all women are bisexual) where more aroused by other women than they are to men, women aren't actually sexually attracted to men, only emotionally (which honestly sucks)

[amphet11]

I meant "straight" women

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 I'm straight, though.

[GamerArtNerd]

@asker yea that's what he was talking about, straight women

[amphet11]

It's because female sexuality is selfish and narcissistic, women don't desire men, they only want to be desired by men, they get aroused at being the center of attraction and arousal not by men (yes there is proof of it, makes me wish i where gay, but hey what can you do about it, nothing!)

[GamerArtNerd]

@amphet11 you just have to find one of the rare exceptions that aren't like that.

[amphet11]

No you aren't straight, remember romantic attraction and who you love and want to date has nothing to do with sexual orientation, if you need romantic attraction to be sexually aroused by something, then you aren't really sexually attracted to them. It's stands to reason that if you could feel romantic attraction to a women you would be aroused by her, which shows no sexual orientation at all. I am also certain that lesbian p*rn would turn you on more than a naked man, if it is only slightly.

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 cool beans. All women may be bisexual, but only in your fetish dreams.

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 ... ew.

[amphet11]

No, i hate the fact that all women are bisexual, all the top anthropologists agree with this opinion, if you disagree with me read the research i posted.

[amphet11]

eww what? lesbian p*rn is the most popular genre of p*rn to the female demographic (statistics from pornhub) and that research shows that lesbian p*rn turned supposedly straight women on more than any other visual material

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 I don't get turned on by anything unless the person I've developed the strong emotional connection with. If we have no emotional bond, despite who physically hot you may be, I just won't feel attracted to you. Simple as that. If I feel no emotional attraction towards you, your body is basically nothing but a mound of flesh without the capacity of inspiring arousal in any shape or form.

[xCutesyLolitax]

*how

[life2blived]

Haha set it straight XD

[xCutesyLolitax]

Excuse my grammatical errors. It seems I'm feeling kind of lazy at the moment.

[xCutesyLolitax]

@life2blived Please stop stalking me.

[amphet11]

That means you don't have a sexual orientation, that means if you where brought up to believe women together with women was the norm, you would be able to be romantically attracted to women, thus have an eventual sexual attraction to them. It shows that there is no hard wired sexual attraction, you aren't straight! semantically you would fall under pansexual (i am guessing) which is very different to heterosexuality. And i bet you would follow the same arousal patterns as the women in the study (there subjective arousal was different to there actual arousal. This is in stark difference to male sexuality, before you even open your mouth you are just as sexually attractive as you are ever going to be, unless you improve your looks.

[xCutesyLolitax]

oh. Cool beans. Howeve, I can't be Pansexual because whenever I do form an emotional bond with another woman, it is never a bond in which I am emotionally attracted to her. I can only get emotionally/romantically attached with other boys/men.

[amphet11]

That isn't what pan sexuality is (as i said emotional attraction has nothing to do with sexual orientation), it just means you would be aroused by sexual acts rather than the people in the act (women where more turned on by monkeys having sex than to naked men in the study, just a naked man no sexual act, men where either indifferent or disgusted by the monkeys having sex and where turned on by naked women without a sexual act).

[xCutesyLolitax]

I wouldn't. As I previously mentioned, nothing has the capabilty of turning me on except for the person whom I am emotionally attached to. Otherwise, I will be grossed out of my wits. ... and ew to that monkey thing.

[amphet11]

I think i have come to the conclusion that women are almost asexual and are just run on emotion

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 Yes. You come to many conclusions.

[amphet11]

would you agree?

[xCutesyLolitax]

@amphet11 No.

[amphet11]

How do you mention someone in a comment (serious)?

[xCutesyLolitax]

Type their username and place the @ before the username. @amphet11

[amphet11]

thanks, same as Facebook should have thought of that

[Jersey1]

No, I dont. My wife, and most women I know, have zero interest in other women sexually.

[amphet11]

All women are bisexual,www.indiana.edu/.../...ers_Seto_Blanchard_2007.pdf , her is scientific proof

[JamesMcJohnson]

I think 60% of females are attracted to other females, but many do not have a bisexual orientation.

[Anonymous]

If not bi, then at least bi curious... since there's a diff.

[Anonymous]

Your making a big generalization there.
Do you have any facts to back this up?
I could say the same.
Most guys are bi or bi curious.

[GamerArtNerd]

Um no It was a question not an assumption. Did I say "all girls are bi-curious" or did i ASK "Do you believe that most girls are bicurious" I backed up my theory with personal life experiences. You can say that guys are bicurious all you want but I think you'd find it a lot harder to give evidence to support that than the other way around.

[Opinion Owner]

Forgot to answer no most are not bi or bi curious same as most guys aren't..

[GamerArtNerd]

That doesn't answer the question. I asked what you THINK. There is no way you could know what goes on in other girls' heads.

[GamerArtNerd]

Not sure why you are getting so offended.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not offended. You asked what I think and I think most are not. All you have is a little anecdotal stories. Where are your facts?

[Anonymous]

Seems like more women are attracted to women than men. Even lots of girls on this website say they find women verse looking than guys but for some reason they date guys

[Opinion Owner]

It should say better not verse

[Anonymous]

All girls are bisexuals , at least bicurious definitely.

[Anonymous]

All are so close to there friends who are same sex but loves opposite gender only.