My boyfriends favorite p*rn star looks nothing like me. Does he wish I looked like her?

[RovingRosy]

My boyfriend's favorite p*rn star is christy mack. I look nothing like her- I'm mixed, thick, I have big boobs.. But they don't look like hers... I'm only 20.. But let's say they go diagonally downwards lol. I don't know... When I see this chick- makes me want to change how I look. I try to think about how my favorite p*rn stars looks nothing like him.. I like rocco saffredi (something like that) but because of how obsessed he seems with the woman's body. I like to feel yummy to my partner in every way. I just don't know... Should I feel this way boys? Does he wish I looked like her?

[tinyclit]

Is he obsessed with her body or is it an obsession with her attitude, the things she does and the way she uses her body to please the man. How do you think he would respond to a video of you doing the exact same things to him that she does to her man (the fictional one in the video)? Would he lmasturbate to that? (Note that I am not implying you should make such a video.) Ask him.

[ladieslady50]

Well, if you both watch p*rn it seems that you are both visually stimulated. Is it possible that he likes the way his fave p*rnstar performs, much the same way you like how Rocco performs? Just a thought... I could be wrong

[WhereInTheWorldAmI]

If your favourite actor was Brad Pitt, would you constantly wish your boyfriend looked like Brad Pitt?

Wait, actually, don't answer that.

[RovingRosy]

LMFAOO probably. But he really is my dream boy- as far as physical attraction goes. Everything I have ever wanted; just wish I was for him too. The fantasy.

[PiuBelloAmante]

i think its understandable that you feel this way
don't let it get to you, you are very pretty and your bf knows that, I don't know why he would ever talk about p*rn with you, thats always a slippery slope!

he does not wish you looked like her either =)

[RovingRosy]

We are usually open about watching P*rnography . But I never feel comfortable enough watching it with him- not because of him, but just how I feel like he wants them instead of me. Brings me back to square one. Thanks for the tip, I appreciate it. :) and thank you for the compliment.

[PiuBelloAmante]

yeah no problem Ps. Rocco Siffredi is a legend, you have good taste lol

[RovingRosy]

Hahaha I'm glad :3 I didn't know :D

[PiuBelloAmante]

LOL he is my Italian brother! he is very famous in italy

[Red_Arrow]

If he is a typical male, he does not wish that you looked like her. A p*rn star is a fantasy girl. Not what he wants in real life.

[RovingRosy]

But isn't a fantasy what you deeply desire? What you would want if you could have it?

[Red_Arrow]

A fantasy can be something that you know you will never be able to do, but is fun to dream about. It might be something that sounds like fun, but you would never have the nerve to do. Sometimes it is something you would like to do, but you know you should not. He would not likely really wnat it.

[gray_sailor]

Teaming up with a bunch of dwarves to go and kill a dragon has been a popular fantasy recently. That does not mean he wishes you were a dwarf either. What you are stuck on here is the idea that your boyfriend's sexual arousal belongs exclusively to you. He can desire you above all other women and still have a favorite p*rn star that doesn't look anything like you. The p*rn star is not a substitute for you. You are real. She is merely, only a fantasy.

[gray_sailor]

A fantasy is like a costume you try on. Let's say that next Saturday, your boyfriend dresses up like a sexy cop and starts writing you tickets for being a naughty girl. Do you expect him to submit an application to the local police academy on the following Monday morning?

[RovingRosy]

Hmm didn't think of it that way; my mind, heart, and ego feel much better ^.^ thanks! I would put that longer comment as most helpful if I could! Funny as well :p

[Red_Arrow]

Thank you for MHO

[HorrorFan]

Christy Mack got the shit kicked out of her by her boyfriend and lost a bunch of teeth. If that makes you... feel better?

It's best not to try to live up to a fantasy. He likes you, or else he wouldn't be with you. Fantasies, are well... a fantasy. You are real. Nothing else really matters.

[Alej27]

I don't think u should worry about the look had a bf that liked one as well but once I asked him and he said he liked her about her sexual passion and how she had sex... maybe get a tip from that

[RovingRosy]

Hm maybe so. I am very spontaneous in the bedroom though... *SCORPIO* . So I don't think that's it. But I will definitely take that into account.

[M_A_X]

A favorite p*rn star isn't always about looks. It might be that she does the type of fetish videos that he's into, or that he likes her body language and stuff.

Your mileage may vary, but in my opinion, the actual scene itself is more important than the people involved.

He wouldn't have sex with you if he wasn't attracted to you, so just chill out

[genericname85]

There will always be chicks that are more attractive to him than you xD that's normal. Nothing to worry about.

[TheSpartan]

I wouldn't worry. Sometimes a favorite p*rnstar has less to do with the way they look and more with what kind of scenes they do and their attitudes. For examples, Christy Mack is really nasty; she takes cumshots to the face while getting double-penetrated. It's crazy arousing.

You're a pretty decent looking girl, so I wouldn't worry about not holding up to his standards.

[Mr2kinky]

Keep being you... Christy Mack is my fave also but I love my wife's big belly and saggy boobs nonetheless.

[Anonymous]

You should not feel this way, he lusts that p*rnstar and he loves you. Instead you should be glad this proves that he really loves you and if he has sex with you then be glad as in department of sex he is satisfied by you.

[Anonymous]

Does your favourite p*rnstar look like him?

[Anonymous]

Oh no, my girlfriend doesn't look like my favorite pornstar!