My tight innie vagina makes me look like a virgin? Not sexy? Not womanly?

[Anonymous]

I've got an innie and it's extremely tight. I have only had a few bfs but i look barely touched. It always takes AGES to start having sex even though i'm always soaking wet. I feel like it looks like a kids vagina because my inner and outer lips are so small, neat and tight. I feel i look like a virgin down there, even after having a bf with a 9 inch penis. I only feel comfortable with it clean shaven but that only makes it look even more like a childs vagina. A guy friend told me he's only attracted to pussy where the labia hangs when she's standing up. He said if there is just a line it isn't sexy. Mines so tiny and nothing hangs, there's just a line, like a child. I'm actually 28 too... is there something wrong with me? I look virginal. Is this not a sexy womanly look? Or do guys like all vagina?

[MrOracle]

This is ridiculous.

First, guys like pretty much all vaginas.

Second, many girls feel like they have the opposite problem and would kill to have what you have. It seems no one is ever happy.

Third, you're letting one guy's personal preference freak you out for no reason. If he told you he was only attracted to girls with blue hair, would you run out and get a dye job?

You are YOU - and you are unique. That's what's great about you - you aren't like everyone else. Learn to appreciate that and love yourself, or no one else ever will.

Every guy will be able to find SOMETHING about you he doesn't prefer (and you with him), whether it's your height or age or eye color or freckles or whatever, but if he chose you, then presumably your entire "package" (body/personality/attitude/etc.) is more important than one specific attribute, whatever it happens to be, and if not, then he has no business being with you in the first place.

[Asker]

Guess i need to work on my confidence before dating again. My insecurities seem to push guys away... I find fault in every little thing about my appearance constantly

[MrOracle]

Then, yes, you need to do some work on yourself before you're ready to jump back into dating. You can't expect a potential mate to "fix" you - that's something you need to do for yourself (with professional help if necessary) BEFORE you ask someone to share your life with you. You wouldn't want to get with a guy and then find out he has all of this un-dealt-with baggage, would you? It wouldn't be fair. Having said that, your feelings are quite common (many girls struggle with body image, even when they have little cause for concern), but it isn't healthy and will cause problems in any relationship, so it needs to be handled before you get into one.

[JSmuve]

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I prefer what you described. Better that its tight and neat than it looks like a bomb went off in there with everything hanging out

[Asker]

HA. Made me LAUGH.

[Bethany-Louise]

To quote Kidulthood
"I won't fuck any girl yeah unless she's got a DV... A designer vagina. Neat tucked in lips and shit. It's the way forward"

[Asker]

Thanks :-)

[aamy811]

That's just how your vagina looks. Just like nipples they're all different and there's no reason why

[AshleyMD]

What's an innie vagina? There's nothing wrong with you though, vaginas come in all kinds of shapes.

[VikingMac]

From the sounds of it, I doubt your ex was really 9 inches. Did sex hurt every time? I'm 8.5 inches and so thick you can't wrap your hand around it, and I've had women tell me they've tried 12 inches, then they got with me and said I was their biggest one yet (see how that worked? Women can't tell just by what a dude says about their size, they have to actually measure).

I'm in the SF Bay Area, so if you're ready for the challenge of a truly huge cock, let me know! I love super tight pussy! And after mine, you'll never want a smaller one! ;)

[BuchitaBuchys]

You're either:

-A liar. You clicked the wrong age, I'm having a hard time believing a grown woman wrote this. You claim to be 28, though your age bracket is 18-24, but you have to be younger than that.
-A man.
-Fishing for compliments.
-Very stupid
-Trolling.
-All of the above, take your pick.

[Asker]

You're the stupid one. People of ANY age have insecurities. It's life i'm afraid. I know people in their 40's who are extremely insecure about various things... no i'm not a liar and I was born in '86.

[BuchitaBuchys]

Still stupid cuz that's all guys ever drool over. Tight pussy. Yes you can be insecure, but about something that is obviously that men always want, and to ask if guys will want that, stupid as fuck. You only get a pass IF you're a foreigner. But growing up in US culture, no one is that clueless.

[Asker]

I'm not American... I'm European...

[kheserthorpe]

Guys pretty much like all vagina.

The few guys who have a preference seem to like it... like yours. But I think most guys like the vagina of a hot woman, not a specific vagina on random women.

[RasmusAiken]

I've never heard of this.

IMHO, if it's vagina, what's not to like?

[sugarvenomx]

Google... blue waffle Yw

[Red_Arrow]

Good grief! I prefer an outie. I enjoy seeing those lips and touching them and sucking on them. But the magic word was "prefer". Since they are part of her womanhood, then I love it whatever kind it is. If I was your partner, I would be loving what you have, and I certainly would never tell you that what you have is bad/wrong/whatever. My only thoughts would be, "that is amazing. I am so turned on. Let me at it." And I prefer no hair down there. But that is a preference again, so I would also like it with hair.

A real man will not stop to discuss how it has to hang for him. He will just dive in and make you fell like the most loved woman in the world.

[Misterjay02]

I don't know what kinda person would prefer and "outie" vagina. I would find that kinda gross to be honest. Yours sounds pretty good if you ask me. Be proud of it.

[sugarvenomx]

This feels like a troll. I'm getting definite troll vibes.

[Asker]

It's a genuine question. I'm self conscious after my guy mate dissing innies.

[JSmuve]

In got that too. Just the way she described certain things.

[sugarvenomx]

i don't buy it from the way you're describing it... you're obviously phishing for guys to say how much they love that type. Everyone knows most guys prefer tight, shaved innies

[BunnyBoomasaurus]

Definitely a troll... All vaginas are "innies". It sounds more like you think your belly button is your vagina... People don't have "outie" vaginas. Lmao.

[Asker]

Every guy doesn't. My recent conversation with my male friend proves that. He says he likes long labia! He's said he likes to fit a fist in there, that if there's just a line when she stands it isn't attractive to him. I wasn't self conscious about it before this conversation

[Asker]

@Bunnyboomasaurus you're practically still a kid... what do you know? Women DO have innie and outies. Plus there are a lot of questions on here about them... look on search.

[BunnyBoomasaurus]

Sorry but if your vagina doesn't goin, you have a serious problem.

[Red_Arrow]

The problem in this opinion's comments if the women who don't know what a vagina is.. The vagina is the birth canal, the part that the male puts his penis in. Outside of that is all the rest, making up the vulva. What does it matter what it is called? All this confusion because people don't know what others are referring to when they can't properly name it. The vagina is the birth canal and is obviously an innie. the labia are on the outside. If the inner stick out beyond the outer. it is an outie. If they remain hidden inside the outer, then it is an innie.

[Asker]

People call vaginas with long labia outies and impact labia innies. I didn't make the saying up.

[Klaatu51]

that's irrelevant actually.

it's true that virgins are more "tight'... but this is not a "rule"

[RomansToPhilemon]

No, what you described is probably the best looking kind there is. Hanging stuff isn't a good thing in terms of attractiveness.

[DumpliingPrincess]

A vagina is a vagina.

[frostedmyflakes]

Personally i'm an innie person.

[BlastingZone]

a guy wrote this

[Asker]

Huh?

[TheHooptyMiata]

Implying you'd rather have beef curtains...

Seriously your pussy's fine.

[kain7th]

there's nothing wrong with you, most guys like ANY vagina. and if they ever got to the point of seeing you naked they are just thinking of sexing you, not rating your body parts.

So this is something useless to worry about as it really doesn't matter

[loveladies1]

Yeah it's all in you head! Nothing wrong with you at all

[statham]

sexy olabilir

[tenofthepeaks]

i don't understand this...

just as men's cocks look different, so do women's vaginas/vulvas...
if your bf hasn't said anything negative, so be it..

[Asker]

I'm just self conscious after what my guy mate recently said. I'm currently single but all my ex's actually called it 'pretty'. Guess i just worry too much about what guys say is attractive and what's not.

[tenofthepeaks]

tell him it bothers you...

[Kingofthe541]

I'm an innie fan

[Anonymous]

Your fine some men prefer your style of vag and other prefer meaty lips it's usually 50/50

[Anonymous]

Yes I see what you mean. I personally find it hotter when her lips are big and opens up nicely. I like the it hangs a little too

I know what you mean by small lips and just a line. That's sexy too but a pussy looks more juicy when it's got some nice big lips

Yea I can see how a line type. Tight and shaved does look kiddie for sure

[Opinion Owner]

It's like a guy with a nice size penis but small tiny ballsack. Girls like to fondle and touch a nice ballsack You maybe tight which is good but labia and big lips make a pussy look juicy and so lickable