I can't get a hard on with my gf anymore, would you be turned off too if ur gf was like her?(Sorry English is not my first language)?

This is my 1st relationship since the last breakup at 2013, so I met this girl on fb when I was out of town for a vacation and met her personally after 3 months. We were friends back then she told me all about her previous relationships, I think this girl is broken inside. She has her 1st exbf that used to keep goin back to whenever he feels like he wants her body but as she says she doesn't let him "put it in", in fact she's still virgin, I am too. I really love this girl but I don't know whats the matter with her, she says she loves me but she never makes me feel it and she never shows it, and recently I've been feeling like she's putting a lot of stress on me and I feel like I can never be the man she wants, she always puts me down and gets angry at me for the slightest reason, I feel stressed trying to satisfy her, I feel like she just wanna feel loved and she's not serious with me, we had a few times we kissed and touched and she gives me handjobs but I feel like she's expecting too much she always says no one could turn her on like her 1st ex. she's looking for someone with his touch, and that puts a lot of stress on me. The first time we kissed and touch was okay she made me cum twice, the second time we only kissed and touched and cuddled but something happened and I had to leave.. Ever since the 2nd time I've been feeling like she's kinds numb and getting moody around me which puts me through more stress. Then she suddenly wants to touch and just goes straight to touching me and expects me to get instant erection and it's hard for me to get an erection with her now. There's girl that lives next to me that really likes me and she's into me and I just met her 2 weeks ago, I cheated on my gf once with this girl, we just touched but we never kissed but this girl gives me instant hard on and she makes me feel hot, and she cares about me too she almost gives me everything I need that my gf doesn't give but I feel guilty so I stopped seeing her Any ideas?
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Yesterday when I was with her I had to think about that other girl to get a hard on >_> What is wrong with me?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Do the right thing, mate. By staying in the relationship all your doing is keeping her (your current girlfriend) from potentially finding a guy who resembles her first ex or who ever she wants you to try to be and stopping yourself from being happy. I think you know what you have to do. Do the right thing by both you and your girlfriend and end it. It would be terrible for things to continue this way

  • If its between a internet "relationship" and a real life relationship, always choose the real life one because its the one that can actually be measured.

    • Its not internet relationship... We've been seeing each other for a while now

Most Helpful Girls

  • Lol. She is rude and moody and you are a cheater who talks too much about getting an erection. Like thats your biggest problem.

    You two don't connect anymore. Break up

    • Talking abour being rude

    • I never said I'm not rude. I am. But also being honest. Stop thinking with your dick and realize what the actual problem is.

  • Did you tell her you cheated on her?
    Break up with your current girlfriend.
    Browse your options.

    • I told her about her and how she's into me as if she has a crush on me, the only reason i cheated on her is because this girl started it and she seemed hopeless and wanted to just hug me then she wouldn't let go.. The only thing that happened is i just touched her body, then i stopped coz i felt guilty, i never did anything else. I just kissed her on the cheek before she left the car

  • Break up with her? Gently though, broken people don't handle things well.

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  • Break up with your girl and go with the one that makes you feel good. If your current gf keeps bringing up her ex she ain't worth being with.

    • I don't love her though...

    • Ditto this.