When I say I prefer smaller over larger, I'm not lying to anyone. I've had a big dick, and it hurt like hell. He couldn't go all the way in cuz I literally felt like I was gonna cry out in pain. It felt like he was hitting my damn cervix and that hurted so bad.
I prefer around 4-5in. You're probably gonna say, why?
-I LOVE balls. I mean I think I have somewhat of a ball fetish. It turns me on so much when he's penetrating and his ballsack is just pounding my vagina.
-Oral and deepthroat is easy. No explanation necessary.
-He can go deep and I won't have to worry about bruising my damn cervix. If other girls are into that, fine. But that's not for me at all.
-This is a stereotype, but men with bigger dicks do less work to please. I've asked female friends of mine too, the "BigDickDaddies" that their big dick is just enough to get a girl wet. FALSE.
-If a guy with an average size dick doesn't know what he's doing, the sex will not be great. If a guy with a big dick doesn't know what he's doing, the sex will be terrible AND IT WILL HURT LIKE HELL.
-I'm a tiny girl. 4'11, slim, short and petite. I guess you can say yea, I'm pretty tight. So even an average size dick can feel a bit much for me.
I don't lie to spare people's feelings. Na. I don't candycoat shit. I like average to below average dicks. I have my preferences, when I say a 5inch dick is better than an 8inch dick, I mean it. It is true for me at least. Maybe other girls need more. That's fine. When it comes to sex, I'm not gonna lie. If he's not satisfying me, I'll talk it over with him like adults and I'd like for him to do the same if I'm not performing well either.0 2 1 0Ok but a 5 in dick is average not small…
Yes, I've definitely just waited for sex to be over. No, size wasn't the reason. Lack of arousal and/or brutishness are the main ones for me. My best lover was about 5 inches, though and a guy with an almost 8 inch constantly hurt my cervix. I personally don't feel the same way as you on that one. If you aren't aroused, though, nothing will feel good being jammed in. It sounds like you dislike your partner.
PS: Magnums are really more about girth, but if he doesn't fit them, don't use them for chances of slipping off.0 0 0 0I see exactly what you mean, but its just my preference. Just like some men prefer a d-cup over an a cup.
That doesn't mean you should publically bash those who just aren't good matches for you, though. I'm sure it's frustrating to have a sexual response that is possibly atypical... But don't get mad, just look for better matches. I actually know a guy with a huge cock that has the opposite issue as you... His partners get hurt from him and it decreases their satisfaction, leading to issues. So there are definitely guys out there!
I realize this. But overall it's just a preference. I'm not publicly bashing anyone believe me I am very upfront and if I wanted to publicly bash someone in a petty way I will put their picture up here and publicly bash them that way but I prefer not to do things like that because it's a pretty low blow childish. Ever seen the movie Shallow Hal. My point exactly. and for the women who have been hurt by guys with larger penises they have to be lubricated. I do see your point but those little weenies do nothing for me. And I've heard the opposite from plenty of women compared to here. Its funny how on here the girls are taking the guys side but when I'm somewhere private talking to women I get the exact opposite.
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I would not want to be with a partner who didn't find me sexually satisfying. You can't say it 'doesn't change your feelings' because how you feel about sex is one of the feelings I care -a lot- about.
I'd guess some women care, some don't. Quite a few women like sex, but get more direct pleasure from eating out or fingering, or cum primarily from having their clit rubbed during intercourse. So his size may not matter THAT much to them.
Some of what you wrote seems a little contradictory - you complain about p*rn , but it seems like what you want personally is less foreplay, more hard thrusting, which is almost the exact opposite of what most women who complain about p*rn say the problem is. That's fine and all, but I don't think what you like is what every woman likes. That's fine.
But if a certain penis size is important to you, then accept it and find that, along with the 'inner beauty'. you see.0 1 0 0really true. Most women do not have the same opinion as me. but what's wrong with accepting it.. wouldn't it be shallow if I turned a guy down just because of the sex completely. I do like some foreplay but it bothers me when the guy only reaches for my vagina to finger it and or focus completely on the breasts. . just not going to turn down a good guy because the sex is bad. I've had these conversations with plenty of women. & I don't only and I don't only like rough sex, nothing wrong with love making.
I know men want to know that they please their partners but I know several women that are on please in bed but still love their man
my mistake. I'm using the voice to text. I meant to say that I know women that are under pleased in bed but won't leave their man just because of that and don't want to hurt their egos. I know honesty is important, but do you know how most men will react to you saying that I'm not sexually pleased
I understand where your comming from and its true... guyss lie about the diuck size too much... and honestly it pisses me off as a guy myself because i have a large penis and all the other guys are like dude i have an 8 incher... then im like hey bro mines 8 inches i doubt it... it seriously pisses me off... i guess they do it to help themselves feel better and more ocnifdent
1 0 0 0very true, why even lie its not worth it it's no like she's never going to see your penis. But a lot of guys have so called the Egos. and it's funny the responses I've got because I've talked to plenty of women about the same topic and most of them will prefer a guy about your size. See they are conditioned to lie to these guys lol
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1 10Average can do the job just as good
To be honest. If a women can orgasm insanly off of one finger, clearly average is enough
Its mostly all in your head. Its mental for you1 0 0 0yes I totally get it and I do like foreplay just not too much fondling lol yes it is very mental for women to get off. I know this is strange but the reason I don't prefer a lot of fingering is because it's uncomfortable for me and you can even Google it there's other women I feel the same way. Its not that I don't like foreplay but I was molested when I was younger and sometimes it brings the thought process back.
Another thing is your poll misleading. Your classifications are wrong. When people see small they think under 5 inches. Your poll should of been Average penises pleasure Average penises do nothing i think you would get much more average then anything else for sure
I see what you mean. But six or seven is enough. Im talking about men five and under.
My insecurities are on fire!
2 0 0 0Why should there be? someone for everyone and this cold cruel world.
Yeah but who wants to accidentally run into someone who really wants nothing to do with them? I mean I'd prefer someone just say "No, I will not have sex with you" versus having sex with me and really wishing they hadn't bothered. Major turn-off to dating altogether.
I'm so sorry. It's just the truth several men don't know what they're doing. And just like some men still deserve a chance and are worth dating.
Welll... I might as well just kill myself...
2 5 0 0I'll join you!
no worries dude, you still got your beard , which looks ridicoulous to me hahaha normally beards make guys look bad ass, looks like you used yours as dust cleaner... maybe grow a beard in your pants 2, is pretty dusty down there as well, and you can hide your 3 inch monster inside of it
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I’m a guy that’s tiny but I know that so you make sure she gets off first. I wish girls would just do what you said as well. I’m no
near 5 and will tell you and laugh about it. Guys need to get over there insecurities and accept it0 0 0 0i got 6 plus, wanna date? XD and apperantly im good at it as well ;) show me how attractive you are, i dont want sex with ugly girls, turns me off
1 0 1 0Typical! Gotta love it.
just as typical as your love for big guns :P you like it huh:P lets do some sexting through private messaging ;)
Nah dont sext
It's all about honesty to yourself and each other. some plugs need certain sockets, some sockets need certain plugs. it's just how it is. good communication is the best. yay to preferences, nay to shaming
2 0 0 0Aaaaand... women like you are why I am still a virgin...
0 1 1 0there's someone for everyone. And actually there is a lot of things online the help guys and women with tips about sexually pleasing someone. But if someone really cared about you, it wouldn't just be about sex and vice versa
There's a point at which a penis is just too damn small to bother.
I disagree, not every woman has my opinion.
Lol. And girls get pissed when guys prefer bigger boobs...
0 1 1 0I understand exactly. But I can't complain because I have double D's
Well, there's no proof of that
no need to lie
You tripped over yourself, you now sound like an idiot.
2 3 2 0thanks glad to have the great feedback from you
Haha. She's not a size queen and doesn't have a loose vagina. I think she's been lied to just like the men she talks about. Kegels weekly will do about as much for you as 10 situps every Saturday morning.
1 2 2 0I see I have struck a chord with somebody. I figured I would. I hope that made you feel better. how about the fact that I performed at least 6 days a week and I've been doing it for 4 years. will leave you with your own insecurities have a nice life.
And what if I told you unless a girl has a nice ass and tits we just think about other girls to get us excited instead of thinking about you?
0 1 3 0it wouldn't bother me, a lot of men to choose women just because of looks so it's pretty common and it doesn't bother me at all but I do have a nice pair of tits and a nice ass so no need to imagine someone else
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