Guys, have you ever been disgusted/disappointed by a girl's body first time you saw her naked?

[Anonymous]

Some girls (like me) look a lot better in clothes. I hate what I see when I look at my naked body in the mirror. But in clothes my body looks great. So it will probably be a big let down for guys when they see me naked. So yeah, my question is: have you ever been disgusted or disappointed by a girl's body when you saw her naked for the first time? PLEASE BE HONEST. Should I warn a guy beforehand that I don't actually have the amazing body he might think I have?

[warranted]

NOBODY is perfect and even the ones you think are perfect are not perfect in everyone's eyes. I think the best way to act is just to embrace the good and the bad and rock it. self consciousness draws attention to your perceived imperfections and self confidence tends to shine light on your love for yourself and others. Its really hard not to love someone who is so bright. Don't you have friends (girls or guys) that are not conventionally beautiful but you wouldn't trade them for 10 Brad Pitts or 10 Angelina Jolies? Its because you know them and love them as a person. It's definitely hard to let go of your image and comparing it to your ideal image in your mind. However, instead of working to hate, work towards embracing yourself. Then if you can change somethings (diet, exercise), go for it. Its much easier to work on yourself with acceptance and love than hate and loathing.

[BuchitaBuchys]

I know how you feel. Sometimes I feel like I look very nice in clothes and then when I take off my clothes, instant disappointment. When I had sex, I would keep my shirt or bra on during cuz I have tiny tits and felt that he may be disappointed to see them. Maybe even disgusted at how small they are. Of course, both my exes said they loved my body and didn't care, but I didn't believe it one bit.

If a guy wants to sleep with you though, chances are that he already has a sense of what your body looks like and most likely wouldn't be disappointed by it. Or he won't tell you.

[Bluemax]

"If a guy wants to sleep with you though, chances are that he already has a sense of what your body looks like and most likely wouldn't be disappointed by it. Or he won't tell you." The former is by far the more common, I believe. Out of curiosity, do you still disbelieve your exes about how they found your body attractive?

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Bluemax I guess I give people too little credit for sincerity. And yup. I'm a stubborn narcissist and once I make my mind up, it's hard to convince me without concrete evidence. So I didn't and don't believe them. Maybe my butt they did like. That's probably about it.

[Bluemax]

"I'm a stubborn narcissist" You have given new meaning to "narcissist." Most people would describe you as an anti-narcissist.

[BuchitaBuchys]

@Bluemax I'm such a narcissist that I make new meanings for words and demand people to call me that :p

[aamy811]

I know! Sometimes when I get undressed I'll be sad for a whole evening. Seeing my body just puts me in the worst mood

[MrOracle]

I have been disappointed after seeing a girl take off her clothes before, yes, but it's never been with anyone I had a connection with, or even knew.

I've been disgusted by a naked woman's body before too, but it was no surprise at all - given what she looked like dressed - I was expecting it.

Having said that, I strongly suspect that you are being WAY too hard on yourself, and that most guys would not judge you nearly has hard as you are judging yourself. For most guys, especially younger guys, seeing ANY woman naked in person is an incredible thrill, and it won't even occur to them to judge you negatively.

[Red_Arrow]

Reading the women's opinions, almost every one of them was down on her body. Over and over it was "I feel the same way. My body is fine in clothes but looks terrible naked." If that were so, then where are the gals that all the guys are always talking about being so hot? Ladies, they are talking about you! You are all beautiful, with or without clothes. Realistically, there are women who look bad naked. But they also look bad in clothes. So you ladies that recognize that you look good dressed, take it from the guys that you will look great naked, too.

[MishaMikado]

I'm exactly the same, my body looks alright I guess in clothes... but naked it's the most horrible thing anyone could imagine.

[Bluemax]

"but naked it's the most horrible thing anyone could imagine." I'm not discounting your feelings, MishaMikado, but I'll wager that the men who want to make love to you will strongly disagree.

[aneleda]

I know how you feel. I can't stand my body. My husband thinks I'm 'okay' and shouldn't feel so self-conscious, but I only like myself in clothes.

[existing_not_living]

I feel ya! I feel that way all the time about my body.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

I worry about this all the time. I look good clothes and for the most part my body looks good but my stomach isn't flat. I have a tiny gut, a scar from surgery to have an ovarian cyst removed and I have stretch marks because I used to be fat.

[Bluemax]

My wife had surgical scars. They mattered not a damn to me. To see her nude was a pure delight.

[Hopefuldreamer8]

Yeah but I think it might be different with a wife and a girl you just meet.

[Bluemax]

Personally, I've never been disgusted by seeing a woman's body without clothes. However, I should tell you that I can count on one hand the number of women I've had sex with. I am rather picky, so by the time we have gotten to that point, I was quite sure I was attracted to her.

Now that being said, I know some guys who were disappointed with some women when they took their clothes off, but they are relatively few as you can see from the poll results. For most men, if they have gotten to the point where you are stripping each other's clothes off, then they already like what they have seen and are unlikely to be disappointed.

Furthermore, I have known women who are much harder on themselves than they should be. They seem to be more numerous than the men who find some women's bodies disgusting when they see them naked. So, mathematically speaking, you're much more likely being harder on yourself than any man is.

[Bluemax]

"Personally, I've never been disgusted by seeing a woman's body without clothes." I meant to say a woman who I love.

[PiuBelloAmante]

all the woman i have seen naked, i have really cared about
it didn't matter how they looked naked, yeah they weren't perfect, some far from it, but i loved them and their naked body felt like paradise...

Be confident and naked, plenty of girls are self conscious with their nudity, guard your nudity but when you are opening yourself to your partner, embrace it! embrace their nudity and your own, let go, of all the thoughts in your head, all your insecurities and hold that person you care about!

[Kroakies_krickees]

That is so sweet and very mature!

[Xelebrum]

Judging by the fact that so far only women have voted "I have been disgusted/disappointed by a girl's body" shows that men don't care about the little things as much as you do.

Just like how women don't care too much about muscles or penis size, men don't care too much about breast size or weight. Yeah some guys like them busted & fit, some are chubby chasers, but most just prefer a healthy girl :)

[CHARismatic110]

I worry about this too.

[atomique]

Never. She was embarrassed due to her weight, but I thought she looked great

[loveskittens]

I draw naked people in an art class I take. yes, I've been disappointed. The constant analysis and references to ideal form has made me to be super judgmental Lmao

[StickStickity13]

Can you elaborate? What's so bad about it? I'm sure you look fine.

[Asker]

Just.. everything. On a good day my body can look like million bucks IN CLOTHES, but when the clothes come off.. ugh, everything is baaad and I just don't look sexually appealing at all

[StickStickity13]

I doubt that, but I'm not really sure since I can't see. But it's rare that a girls body is that bad.

[scrap422]

All woman are beautiful in there own way I'm sure you look sexy with them on or off

[herry47]

Her breast were very small she was using cup bras

[Anonymous]

Never been disappointed, not even a little, I've loved seeing every woman naked.

You can warn the guy or not, it will probably make no difference to anything, more than likely he will love your body, unless you've picked a real jerk. If he's even half-decent, he'll love seeing you naked.