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I keep imagining my female friend (who I fancy) giving me a blowjob?

When I say she is my friend, she's a girl I find attractive, but met as we were about to part ways and move to different cities. So I avoided asking her out, but kept in touch. I only really ever partied with her once, but I felt nervous around her and unfortunately it was with others as well. I think she is hot. When she left, the immediate attraction subsided. But as I kept in touch with her and chatted/texted over IM or texting I ended up finding I liked her more and more. I wished we had known each other better in person. She seems like someone who might have been a great girlfriend. I feel happy when texting her? Whenever I see her whatsapp picture, I can't help but feel excited? I also find her picture very hot as she has her mouth open. Why is this? I really don't know what to do as she lives far away, but might visit at some point. I don't know if she feels the same way although she does seem enthusiastic when we text each other. She used to always initiate IM. Now I lost that capability. Then I used to always initiate whatsapp. But then when I stopped one day, she initiated a fortnight later. I really want to keep in touch and flirt with her as much as possible. It's tricky with time difference, but any advice? I find myself hoping she will text, and I have dreamed about her. Do I fancy her? Why is it I love pictures with her mouth open and keep fantasizing about her on her knees giving me head?
You do fancy her. Masturbating about her is fine!! Carry on.
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You like her, maybe best to try to let her go, but masturbating about her is fine.
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Try to wean yourself off of her. Advice below.
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You do fancy her, Masturbating about her is fine!! Try to ask her out when she visits. Advice below.
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Whenever I see a picture of her with her mouth open, I feel quite excited? I keep having this fantasy where we go on this romantic date and then have a wild night afterward. Why is it I love pictures where she is smiling with her mouth open? Love the trend of these pictures of her doing this!
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  • Masturbating to people in your life is fine in my opinion, just try not to get too creepy about it (Irony?) There are plenty of women in my life that I would never date and just like as friends, but sometimes they wear something or look a certain way and I can think about is how bad I want to fuck them or get head or something, and then take loads of mental pictures. Many guys may not admit to this, but I doubt I am alone in this

    • Thanks! This is very helpful and solid advice. I agree. I do fancy one of my female friends and literally find her so pretty. With her and occasionally a few other hot friends, I find their picture hot and may visualize them giving me head too. Glad it's normal fantasy!! Not sure what to do about the girl I fancy? Why is it I find pictures with her mouth open so hot? Why am I nervous when texting and is there a way to woo her given it's long distance?

    • Any advice/thoughts?

  • My advice from personal experience is to not try to get over her. That's never going to happen unless you actually by some miracle get into a relationship with her.
    Now your infatuation with her, if it's just lust then yes masturbating to her image will bring temporary satisfaction. But if it is love then masturbating will only make it worse.
    And of course time will make it better.

    • It's partly lust, but I do fancy her a little. Thing is she is not the one, but she is someone I could see as a girlfriend. But the problem is the distance. It's hard to keep the rapport and obviously can't ask her out until she visits. So it's okay to masturbate about her yeah, because I find her picture so hot? Advice?

    • Yeah sure. But you'll only be able to get over her if you have sex with her. Which I know is easier said than done. So yes masturbating is totally cool. Nothing wrong with that.

    • How to hint at interest in her and take her on a date when she visits?

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  • Masturbating is fine but i think you should eventually ask her out or plan a visit, otherwise you're not really getting anywhere but your imagination. If she rejects you then move on!
    Just ask her how she would feel if you visited her or if you helped her plan a trip for her to visit you. Then if she agrees to that then take it from there.

    • I see your point about the imagination.. Though how would I do what you suggest?

  • Lol just ask her... if you dont ask you dont get that is what im Always told and it's true i was just looking at some other posts and it seems you are labelled as a creep... everyone has sexual desires and fantasies but unless you spk to her im affraid that is all it will ever be

    • But how to broach the subject given long distance (see above)? It's only with her I fantasize about this?

    • Agreed. How do I ask her? She lives abroad, but may visit soon. How to ask her for a one on one date?

    • How do you advise speaking to her please?

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  • #FapFapFap

    • So it's okay? Is there anyway to convey feelings by text.. should I or just leave it?

    • All you can do is just fap

  • "I also find her picture very hot as she has her mouth open. Why is this?"

    https://ntx.cz/zdroje/74/meme-really.jpg

    • meaning?

  • You again... you are still a creep.

    And it's still gross

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