My boyfriend gets upset because I don't let him eat me out?

[Anonymous]

I'm new to sex, we've been together two years but he's the only person I've ever done anything sexual with, so I still consider myself fairly new to sex. He loves going down on me and he always wants to, but honestly it makes me feel uncomfortable and I don't enjoy it at all. I still let him do it though, probably twice a week. He still complains though and gets upset when I don't want it, he gets mad and says that any other girl would beg him for it. Should I let him do it more even though it makes me uncomfortable? Like does he have a valid point?

[Reddr]

First of all: there is nothing wrong with you for not liking it. You're not alone: I can't stand it either. It doesn't matter how good the guy is either, it just doesn't do anything for me and I get bored and it is awkward.

The issue here is this: he has been taught that all girls love it as like the greatest thing ever and so when you say you don't like it he thinks he isn't doing a good job. (Why he tells you others would beg for it) So to get through this you need to explain that he does a wonderful job but you just don't like it in general. Make sure you say you love that he wants to and that he takes the time to do a good job. The key is reassuring him that he is not the problem. Mention something else he does that you like more: "I just enjoy it so much more when you stare into my eyes and f*** me". Basically, you need to pad his ego so that he doesn't go into "I'm not good enough" mode.

[Frost_Byte]

Well first of all, why wouldn't u enjoy it? What about it makes u feel uncomfortable. I can only really help u if u answer that question.

[Asker]

I just don't like it, it doesn't get me off. It feels great but it doesn't make me cum. What makes me uncomfortable is that he's the only guy to even see me naked, now he's face deep in my vagina and I'm just... Uncomfortable with it

[Frost_Byte]

Wether u like it or not, he should either deal with it or find someone else. But i srsly dont understand how u dont like oral xD

[FirmSteam]

The key is relaxing into it. Then you will enjoy it more and u might even cum x

[chadsten]

Uncomfortable? Then no.

[mirandajohnson]

You will be fine soon :))

[Anonymous]

Well, you should tell him why you don't enjoy it. Maybe he's doing something wrong. Other girls probably loved it when he did it, but every girl is different and they don't all like the same things when being eaten out.