What's the deal with my best guy friend popping a Boner on me? Is he thinking of me in a sexual way now or was it an accident?

[Anonymous]

I became really good friends with about the only kid in my neighborhood which just happened to be a guy, we've been friends since we were 9 years old and we are both 16 now. One of our favorite things to do is play in my pool and wrestle with each other. Here it is 7 years later and we're still great friends and have just as much fun playing in my pool. It was never uncommon while wrestling and throwing each other around for him to accidentally grab a boob or my butt. I could tell he wasn't doing it on purpose and it was never really that big a deal it just happens sometimes when you're wrestling with a girl. Yesterday we were playing in my pool pushing each other off the diving board and playfully beating each other up. At one point he picked me up sideways like a wrestling move. I don't know what move it's called but it's like where he picks me up sideways with one arm between my legs and one arm under my neck like he's about the bodyslam me except my back was to his chest. He tossed me up just a little bit and repositioned his arm under my arm and my whole boob went straight into his hand. I knew something didn't feel right so I looked down at my boob and realized my tube top had slid off of my boob and he was holding my naked boob in his hand. I didn't realize it but when he tossed me up the first time my tube top slid down. After about five seconds he realized he could feel my nipple and drops me in the water. He apologized and I knew he didn't do it on purpose but about a minute later I Swim up behind him and jumped on his back wrapped my legs around him and I could feel on my leg that he had a Boner. I think he got a little embarrassed but I pretended like I didn't feel it and just kept on playing. What's he thinking about me sexually because of what happened? Or was this maybe just an accident because he did feel my boob? I just don't want him to start thinking about me that way, I feel like it would mess up our friendship.

[tyber1]

Well firstly you need to know that guys sometimes get boners just naturally without sexual thoughts. So it's possible that happened. That said, he is 16 and he probably hasn't touched many (or any) women intimately. And there you are, all over each other wrestling and he's touching you all over including some intimate places (even if it's an accident) and then next thing you know he is seeing and feeling your naked breast in the palm of his hand (possibly the first breast he's seen in person). So yeah, the guy's most likely horny. Can you blame him? And why would dating this guy be such a bad thing? He's someone you know and trust and maybe it would be a good thing to keep an open mind about it if you find him at all attractive.

[NeonPhoenix]

Hmmmmm wel just don't think too much about it... I'm sure he's most probably the same age as you and hasn't had much exposure so I can't blame him for not being able to control it... Itz mostly due to hormonal influence and itz not his fault... Itz jus the way nature has created guys...

[heatherlu]

He's sixteen. He'd get hard rubbing up against a tree.

[NeonPhoenix]

I think he'd get hard jus thinking about rubbing up against a tree... Lol

[JonJames]

Right. And despite her question, it seems like she had a good time.

[Frost_Byte]

Wether he likes u or not, u were wet and half naked... he can't help getting a boner.

[RandomStudent]

I'm surprised you haven't caught him getting hard more often, even just seeing a cute girl in a bikini will make me hard sometimes, let alone getting a handful of nude boob. It doesn't mean he likes you as more than a friend or anything, but he's a guy so it's just normal. I couldn't imagine wrestling with a girl half naked and not getting hard, even if that girl was a childhood friend. Just part of being a teenage boy.

[meatballs21]

You can't control gettting a boner... touching a boob will make your body do it on its own.

[Scarecrow13]

I think it was just a natural reaction to the incident and he was probably really embarrassed.

[sizedoesnotmatter]

stop playing !! it's not the same like when u guys were 9 yo