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My husband has a latex fetish and I don't?

So my husband and I have been together for 5 years. Last year, our sex life took a dive. I tried everything, but he got bored with me (I'm not boring for the record it's not roadkill sex) Dressing up, dancing for him different foreplay, nothing. Then finally one day after sex and I tried something new with him he was like "That's it" of course I was really hurt and then he showed me what he was really into. He wanted me to get a latex catsuit. I was terrified and disgusted at first. Why he would keep something like that from me is beyond me, but he told me at a pretty vulnerable time. So I sat on it for about a year and we have sex once every 2 weeks. I finally ordered something we could agree on me wearing (I have no interest in him wearing latex) but now I'm scared that he's going to need that to have sex with me. Is it going to ruin our marriage if I'm not into it?
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  • With a latex fetish myself, and my wife not really into it, I can see where you are coming from. Ur not inadequate, it's just something that excites him and he craves. You should consider yourself privelaged that he wants to share it with you. Maybe talk to him about some things that you like and have wearing the latex catsuit as a reward when he pleases you. Also, maybe try not to leave it too long to wear it again because he might become frustrated because he can't fulfill his sexual cravings in regards to latex, but at the same time he might find other things he enjoys with you if ur open to trying different things each time and exploring each other's interests.

    • How did you end up working things out with your wife? I'm having the same issue right now: i'm into latex and bondage and my wife is not. It's wearing on me to not be able to have kinky fun with her.

  • I don't have a latex fetish.

    Is it like catwoman in batman? That sounds reasonably hot.

    Go for it, have fun. If he is only willing to have the sex he likes, and not compromise and also have the sex you like, i'd suggest you take action.

    Not that I've taken action. But hey, it's easier to say what people should do, then do it.

    • I'm def gonna try it I'm just worried because I've done a bit of research and found out that my reaction was fairly common and now they're in the situation that I've feared and their husbands want to play with the latex instead of keeping it vanilla and only using the latex on occasion (if it were the latter I wouldn't mind at all)

    • TBH, I'd be pretty happy to wear a weird outfit if it involved a shift to regular enthusiastic sex... but... 50/50 is fair. half the time latex, half the time whatever you want. And he can't dial it in during 'your' way, and you can't dial it in during latex time. The thing that's frustrating is it seems like you're trying to fix things, why isn't he -trying-. Maybe he was too ashamed to admit it, but now that it's out, you should demand some effort from him too.

    • by the way you are NOT NOT NOT inadequate. If he has a latex fetish, he has a latex fetish. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Hopefully, you are the one he wants to share it with, because you're a beautiful little sex machine. OKay?

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  • Having different fetishes is totally normal. Not liking the same thing doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you and it most likely doesn't mean he won't want to have sex with you without it. If you're not averse to trying it, then you should give it a go and maybe you'll discover that you like it. If it's something you're really not comfortable with, then stand your ground. But talk about it when you don't feel vulnerable, take time to think for yourself - this isn't the end of your marriage, it's just a slight bump.

  • There is a chance it could all go horribly wrong for the two of you but you won't know until you try it.

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  • Well things like that don't turn me on.
    But if a girl was into that it wouldn't bother me.
    I'd consider yourself lucky as that's a pretty harmless fetish compared to other fetishes lol

  • Do you find something wrong with the idea of latex?

    • Besides the fact that I don't find it appealing no. I just feel so inadequate and it was hard for me to even accept to try it

    • It's not you, it's him; some fetishists are simply unable to have satisfactory sex without their fetish being involved. Just be grateful his fetish isn't something like vore or cuckold*. *The cuckold fetish is where someone wants to see their partner cheat on them.

  • My wife and I have different fetishes... it's all good!! Let him know that you have the control of when and where you will latex up! Break the catsuit out on special nights... anniversary, bday, father's day. .. etc.

  • I'm allergic to latex lol

  • the advantage of latex is that you can use it for a lot of thinks. so if you dont like a cat suit, you can start small. I have a latex fetisj to and i love te see a woman wearing it. i don`t mind what it is. From you`re pont of view, you have to talk to him about what you are feeling good about and if you hit a border he must accept that. just try it out and i know he wil love you for it.

  • Not being into will not ruin the marriage. My wife is not into it but will indulge me now and then with wearing a catsuit for me even though it is not her thing. Same goes for her pegging me, not her cup of tea, but does it because it puts a smile on my face. Just be sure he returns the favor with something you like as well. Needs to be a 2-Way Street.

    • How did you get over the hump of having your wife try these things every once in a while?

  • Ask your boyfriend for a latexperiment catsuit or similar as a gift. I believe a catsuit is quite expensive. Sizing is key essential for latex clothes I believe.

  • There is nothing wrong with a Latex fetish. Have fun with it. Don't get hung up on it. Learn to enjoy the feeling of the latex on you. He will be happy. You will learn to enjoy it. My wife was the same way at first and now she really enjoys me dressing her up. We have loads of fun with it.

  • I have a latex fetish and my wife is very conservative. It does make the guy constantly sexually frustrated and unhappy because he feels like he is always going to miss out on the experience. I love femdom too so that’s out of the question. My wife is the only person I’ve been with, so I will never experience this and it really makes me unhappy.

    • Same boat... same boat

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