Why do premiscuois girls piss me off so much?

I'm not sexually deprived but I've always been in a relationship when I had sex. I think it's just nasty when girls go out to clubs and just start grinding on a dude and will have sex with them that night. I work as a bouncer so this just kind of opened my eyes even more. I think it's disgusting. Am I the only guy that would never even think about dating a trashy girl like this?
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  • o. O

    You did just say they were grinding on a dude and will have sex with them that night. So yes, yes there are guys who will have sex with these girls.

    I notice you don't mention them except in passing. Do guys who want sexual pleasure not piss you off? Only the ladies?

    There's nothing wrong with someone wanting sex and going out to get it - as long as everyone is on board and understands what's going on. If people go home together at a club... they've got a good idea what's going on, right?

  • I think you meant *promiscuous*
    and they don't piss me off but I wouldn't date one either bit it does kinda depress me. I feel like modest girls are in minority while the girls who grind and hook up with random dudes at parties are the majority :(

    • Yeah forsure exactly where I stand.

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  • I don't really get along that well with people like that. I usually don't have much in common with them. I personally don't know how they can be that comfortable with it. For me, that also goes for guys who will hook up with someone that easily. That would just be way too quick for me. I won't let their decisions affect me though so I just ignore it.

  • It's not abnormal. If I were a guy I would not date a girl like that. I'd prefer girls who have respect & choose their partners wisely. I also feel uncomfortable with guys who sleep with multiple girls.

  • Maybe because sex is incredible, and so is the bond it creates between two people. Being so flippant and casual about it cheapens that a little.

  • Women who are like that won't want to date you either so I don't think you have to concern yourself with" promiscuous girls " .

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  • I too would never have sex outside a relationship.

    Having said that, the type of girls you describe - now it is as much the guys' fault as the girls. If a girl is grinding with a random guy, and has sex with him, the guy too is actively involved in all the activities. So in my opinion, anyone who involves in such activities is trashy, irrespective of gender.

  • Actions that don't affect your life shouldn't matter to you at all. If you don't agree with their lifestyle, then simply mind your own business and stop worrying about what others do.

    • It's something I see every weekend when I work as a bouncer. I'm not just ranting but rather asking if others agree with me. Would you say domestic terrorism or radical racism wouldn't bother you because that doesn't affect your life personally? That's a stupid ass remark.. Chivalry has been diminished.

    • Those two things are on a whole different scale. Terrorists and radicals harm people. Promiscuity doesn't affect anyone except for the participants. If you don't want to see it, get another job.

    • Well you could compare it to a scale that affects our society and how our actions have deemed this as acceptable. Making STDS a more likely occruance. something along that realm. Religious nuts see thisnaa completley immoral but it's 2015 and I don't stand that extreme on it. I just think it's trashy and I would never date a girl like that.

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  • your not alone dude personaly i dont like those type of girls cause not to be cheesy but a man is gonna want to look for a woman and most of the time a real woman is not gonna be doing those things, but thats just me. like i said i dont like those kind of girls maybe because im not that type of guy but everyone has their preferences
    - David-

  • then dump her if you're unsatisfied with her...

  • Do promiscuous guys piss you off?

  • I'm definitely not on board with you man. I encourage promiscuous behavior.

  • Hey, man, it's your opinion. I personally like these types of girls, and I would date them.

  • It sounds like you have more respect for women then a lot of men.

    It's probably because you were brought up like that.

  • Definitely not the only one. Definitely a rare one though.

  • i know how you feel.. but not all girls are like this