Is it a good or bad thing to look at girls with my bf?

Okay I have this thing where I like make guys horny or like tease them BUT not with me but with other women. I don't know what it is but I just like teasing and entertaining them. But also because I find girls attractive as well just like probably every other girl does. I'm not lesbian but as I said I do find women attractive and believe I have good taste. I would like to be like a matchmaker for guys or something but anywhoo... I used to do this whole thing like look at women in person or mostly on social media with my ex bf. Of course he enjoyed that lol. I'm just confident enough with myself to let my bfs look at other girls. With my bf now, it has taken a while to be open about this but it's cause I really am in love with him and with that comes being fully aware of everything I do to make sure I don't lose him. But recently, we have gotten more comfortable with each other especially me. I feel like it's been too long already and if I can't be weird around him without him looking at me like a freak then what's the point? So we recently hung out and he was going through this app where they have different categories including one of girls. He started looking through and I got curious not as in jealous but like "so you think that's attractive? let me show you what really is attractive..." and we started showing each other what we think is attractive and so on. It was fun lol and he didn't make me feel weird at all. But at the same time don't want to get too carried away before he begins to think I'm interested in the same sex. But you know what's funny? Guys are very easy in the eye. They're easier than girls and they call us easy. My dude would hit on the most basic looking girl and I'm like wow millions of girls kill themselves to look so great for guys when guys think the most simple is attractive. So we should stop this madness of plastic surgery unless you're genuinely doing it for yourself.
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  • "with that comes being fully aware of everything I do to make sure I don't lose him"

    work on this. i'm not christian, but the bible is right when it says love is not self seeking and not jealous. fear of losing her is what cost me my last girlfriend. It made me afraid to show my flaws, which led to lying. It made her feel trapped. It did all sorts of bad things.

    " Guys are very easy in the eye. They're easier than girls and they call us easy."

    lies. women are at least twice as beautiful as anything else in existence. XD

    " My dude would hit on the most basic looking girl and I'm like wow millions of girls kill themselves to look so great for guys when guys think the most simple is attractive. So we should stop this madness of plastic surgery unless you're genuinely doing it for yourself. "

    AMEN to that. and also it'd be nice if girls stop thinking they're fat when they're not. you can be mildly fat and not necessarily lose any significant amount of attractiveness, and some girls say they're fat when they could actually stand to gain a few pounds.

    • I've been with him for a little more than a yr but we actually been getting more serious recently sooo part of that is trying to get comfortable with him by being myself 100%. He's seen my flaws cause I haven't hid them from him but other stuff like my post and other things are what I'm trying to slowly show cause I am in love w him and that makes me try to keep us together until no more. But yeah some of the girls he was hitting on I was like "u have bad taste or just no taste at all, I feel offended" lol but its cause he was choosing just really simple looking pics and I can't believe that it takes so little to turn guys on.

    • "he was choosing just really simple looking pics and I can't believe that it takes so little to turn guys on" well, what guys consider an attractive female and what girls do can be quite different. wouldn't neccesarily have been so simple to him. I'd be very curious to see what kinds of girls you both chose.

    • Hmm I mean let's just say he chose someone who looks like Kristen Stewart wearing a sexy underwear and bra. And I would choose someone who looked like Jlo or Megan Foxx also wearing a sexy underwear and bra. Most of those pics were that revealing. So basically what I mean is all you have to do as a girl to impress a guy physically is wear less clothes. And as long as you're not overweight and have a vagina you'll be attractive. So that's why I'm like girls should stop driving themselves crazy cause they're probably twice as beautiful as what a guy thinks is beautiful by pampering themselves.

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  • It sounds kinda odd to me. I've never met a girl who would let their guy look as other girls as a tease.

    • Haha yeah I feel like majority would think that but others can relate so that's good

    • Yeah. Does it work for you?

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  • I'm completely with you on this one. I was even dumped for a girl we checked out in Tinder together, and I still don't see an issue with it. (He's just an idiot because that girl ended up being crazy and I was way better from the very beigining. He's even admitted that to his friends. And I know his best friend agrees, we're getting married lol)
    There's nothing wrong with looking, and it is a fun thing to do together. It shows ultimate trust. I can even remember my mom pointing out hott girls in public to my dad my whole life. As an adult, I exchange comments about attractive women with them now.
    I will even say I like watching girls find my fiance attractive and flirting with him. I trust him being nice and flirting back, and it is quite a turn-on to see others want him when I know he's undoubtedly coming home with me and has absolutely no real interest in those other girls no matter how attractive either of us find them.

    • Hmm well that was sort of my question... if its a good or bad thing I so this meaning is he gonna take advantage of me letting him look at other girls and potentially leave me? That's what I def don't want. As long as were on the same page of me being just playful and him not taking it too seriously then its okay. Otherwise, I'll probably stop.

    • I say you're probably in the clear. A man that is going to cheat is going to regardless of whether you check out other women with him or not. It has nothing to do with that activity but rather his own morals and values.

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