How do I get out of giving my boyfriend a "golden shower"?

Question

Hey guys & girls! Basically i need your help, i found out a few days ago that my boyfriend finds golden showers and water sports in general a major turn on, i knew he watched  p*rn  that would be women peeing on eachother and men peeing on women but i thought it was just a preference in what  p*rn  videos he liked to watch i didn't actually think he was "into" that, I've watched some of the  p*rn  videos with him that are golden showers and it does nothing for me it actually makes me feel kinda sick when i watch it but i do it because i know he likes me watching  p*rn  with him but a few days ago he asked if i would ever pee on him for pleasure (at first i thought he was joking) so i said "no way" and laughed, his facial expression made me know straight away that it was a serious question and that he wanted me to say "yeah why not" i can be a freak in the bedroom dont get me wrong but there is no way i can get myself to pee on someone but i dont want to hurt his feelings, what do i do? :/

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I mean, I'm not trying to disregard your feelings about this, but you could maybe try it once in the shower/tub and decide from there. I mean, I would imagine that for someone not into it that being on the receiving end would be worse, so at least he's not asking that of you.

Personally I love it but don't really know why. My ex girlfriend didn't enjoy it much but she didn't have much of a problem doing it for me just during showers or baths but I didn't ask often because I didn't want to bother her.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's easier to try it once, then say that you're really not into it. That being said, I don't know if I could ever bring myself to do it, if my boyfriend really wanted me to do it...

Izzex3 · Accepted Answer

Just tell him you don't feel comfortable doing that.

Editor · Accepted Answer

Tell him it would kill your mood and you wouldn't be able to have sex with him. Maybe he's okay with separating sex from this link, and if you are, problem solved. If he can't separate the two, or if you're just flat out not okay with it, then you two aren't right for each other.

AustinMan · Accepted Answer

Short answer: find a new bf. A fetish like that won't go away and he won't be happy without it.

Debs1 · Answer

It's not something that especially turns me on as such but I have had a couple of partners who were really into it, I was very unsure before I first did it but actually found I quite enjoy it, like the fact it really turned them on turns me on, I found best way was to share a bath and have a few drinks, if you are really well hydrated and have had some alcohol your urine is almost like water anyway so a lot less icky, so I think it's something that is worth trying once, if you still don't like it that s fine, just be honest with him

Wgatap999 · Answer

Why don't you just try it one time I had a girl that I was seeing years ago not being to it even watching it and then she walked in one day in a raincoat told me to lay on the ground in my bathroom took off the raincoat wearing absolutely nothing and squatted over my face and pissed in my mouth and my face and on my stomach and after she was done doing it not only did she like the little bit of dominance that it gave her but she liked the fact that I ate her fucking pussy for a long while after that to clean her and just to enjoy her pussy and remember that day I ended up tongue fucking and eating out her asshole and didn't want to stop bearing my tongue in and out of her asshole for a good 30 to 45 minutes looking both her fucking holes before we fucked. I mean if you love him and you care about him and he's your partner give it to him one time and see what you think about it if you don't like it tell him maybe every now and then you can do it just for his pleasure I'm sure he would do things for you

Socal99 · Answer

If you love him do it to him. I was curious about it and the girl I was with was against it but when she finally surprised me one time wearing a raincoat showed up to my house told me to get on the floor in the bathroom on the tile opened up the raincoat was completely naked stood over my stomach started to pee all the way up my chest and not necessarily in my mouth it was the fucking hottest thing and after she was done she sat down on my face and told me to clean her pussy which I ended up making her come and she thought it was the hottest fucking thing after she had done it she was totally hooked on it. Every time she had to go not every time but a lot of times she had to go she would tell me to get my ass in the bathroom because she had to pee and I would and she would pee in my mouth or on my chest are on my cock and then I would lick her fucking clean and it was really fucking hot it was something new.

Philyouup · Answer

tell him how you feel about pee. or you could try it out , by peeing on his cock. you might find that you like it. even though now you definitely don’t.

mather80 · Answer

I was in the same situation as your partner - I really wanted to try it. I too asked and my girlfriend at first though i was joking. Then, on holiday one night after a few drinks (and without me even mentioning it for months, took me into the bathroom, made me sit in the bath and peed over my now hard cock. It felt really warm and was amazing. She hasn't done it since and I havnt pressured her to, but hopefully it will happen again soon. She said she actually enjoyed it - both seeing it arouse me, as well as the control she felt. Give it a go in the shower - it might surprise you