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Ladies do you get offended if a guy tries to lube your pussy?

Some girls seem to think there pussy is always wet. Do you get offense if your lover tries to moisten it up?
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To bring some more context to the question. My girlfriend is horny. She wants me to put it in her. I try but its dry and uncomfortable. I try to apply lube to help the process. She gets offended. Keep in mind she initiated this encounter
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IF it does offend you. Does it tie into your perception of your sexual worth? Like a man with his erection qaulity?
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  • I was under the impression if a woman I'd sufficiently aroused she'll be wet. And since arousal also involves relaxing and opening if muscles, I'd be concerned that living if creates a false impression that the body is physically prepared for sex. When it is not. Which will cause pain.

    I wouldn't find it insulting as if my body is not. " right". but it would appear as if the guy is impatient and just wants to get off and doesn't care about her experience.

    I think if she's actually aroused she'll be wet. Maybe not a 70 year old woman but certainly in her 30s- I'm assuming you're having arc with women somewhat around your age?

    I've also only just started having sex so I could be wrong with my impressions.

  • I've never used lube. I know for sure I'm pretty much always considerably wet by the time we get around to things. Only once was I for some reason unable to get wet, even though I was turned on.

    If that were to happen again though, I wouldn't be offended if we needed lube. No reason to take offense as it's not really in my control and desperate times call for desperate measures. If both of us are turned on, no reason to cause drama over something as harmless as a little lube.

  • Never had lube on me because getting wet is definitely not a problem. Although I wouldn't mine him trying out some new kind of fire and ice lube or something tingling. I also wouldn't mine if it had a taste to it but it didn't mess with my PH balance. I'd definitely be all for that! So... lube? I don't see a problem in using it ladies and gentleman hahahaha.

  • If my partner did that for me I would be thrilled! Natural lubrication takes time no matter how turned on a girl is and different people produce different amounts at different rates. And that's okay! I know I personally have a hard time knowing how wet I am inside so if the s/o felt lube would help I would not turn him down.

Most Helpful Guys

  • All these women turning it round on you, some girls are just DRY! lmao

  • Better lube than chafing. Some girls get wetter than others.

    • This basically. The women on here who got all up in arms about a guy using lube are basically saying that all women should automatically be sopping wet down there, because nobody should stoop to the level of using lube.

    • Yeah. It seems as though somehow it ties into their perception of their sexual worth. At least those that are offended

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  • Heavens no, in my opinion you can never use too much lube. However much you're thinking of using, double it, triple it. :)

  • I think using lube is a cop out. Instead of using lube you should get me wet enough so you don't have to. Taking time to do foreplay usually does it.

  • It's never happened but I guess I would because I get really wet so why would he.

  • Put in some effort and get it wet! Lubing is lame.

  • Not at all. You need the extra lube and it's hotter when he puts it on. Just another reason for him to have his hands down there 😜

  • The best lube is hers, so few down there and chow down for a while.

    • Autocorrect get became few. Sheesh.

  • No, at least he's not going in dry o_o

  • shouldn't you be offended, or rather ashamed, for not turning her on enough to get her properly wet?

    • not ashamed, embarrased.

    • It's not always the guy. Some girls just don't get as wet as others.

    • unless they have a hormonal imbalace or don't drink enough water, it's definetly the guy.

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  • Would I get offended? No. Has it ever happened? No.

  • If anything the man should be ashamed for not turning her own to the point of saturation😁

    • You do realize that each woman is different, yes? Some women don't produce enough lubrication, just as some produce too much. Also, plenty of women have body issues or religious or cultural guilt/shame issues that take years to overcome and have nothing to do with the guy. Those can prevent her from fully getting into the moment and inhibit her libido, and in turn her lubrication.

    • Post this answer to the question , not to my answer

    • Ok so have you tried performing oral before penetration. How about you put the lube on your penis instead of her. That could be a way to help the situation without making it obvious.

  • I always use lube. Not ashamed.

    • What kind do you like?

    • It doesn't matter. I buy generic brands because I only use it so the guy doesn't grind my vagina like a cheese grater. (Apparently if you use synthetic lubrication to avoid discomfort you deserve some downvotes. Lolz. )

  • If I was the initiator go ahead use some.

  • ill lube it up with saliva

  • putting lube on would make me feel like a old azz grandma heck no bytch

    • OK cool so this is what I wanted to hear. So somehow how wet your pussy gets ties into your sexual worth? Like when a guy can't get it up, or its only semi rigid

  • As a guy, you should be aware that spit or lube should NOT be required if you are doing things right. Our body will create substantial lubricant if you properly warm us up. Spit/Lube is a lame lovers way to put it in before we are ready.

    • Not always true, not all girls' bodies can keep up naturally. I know I can't always stay wet for a full 10 minutes of PIV sex, no matter how much foreplay there is.

    • That would insinuate penetration has already occurred. I agree that if you hammer at it for an extended period of time, it will dry up. I was talking about the initial poke, but forgot to specify.

  • why dont he try making it more wet by eating out the pussayy

  • Yes cause he obviously didn't spend enough time on me.

    • exactly! what a laugh this guy trying to blame it on the women. lol

    • Yeah, I know how wet I can get, so it's really no excuse for me at least.

    • Just more curious in the thought process. Actually the last time it was her trying to get me to put it in but it just so dry to my feel but she swore she was wet and was offended when I tried to lube. Just want me to force my meat in without regard to friction

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  • I *know* my cooch isn't always wet, because sex starts hurting when it's not. I don't get offended at all, if anything I appreciate "lubing it up" more than he does.

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