How to "prepare" for a blow job?

[Anonymous]

Before I say anything I want to put it out here and say I don't feel obligated to give a blow job. I honestly am ready to go there with my boyfriend and I genuinely want to be able to do this for him.. Not just do it, but do it well. I'm just nervous haha! I feel like I'm going to gag a lot.. More than usual cause I can barely brush my tongue haha! I know some guys like to hear a girl gag and moan but I don't know if that would be enjoyable on my end exactly! So is there any way to "prepare" for it? And get used to the gagging part I guess?

[NeenerNeenerNeener]

I used to gag when I was younger but I can deep throat now as long as it isn't too thick. It's all about relaxing. Most likely you'll be really bad at it at first. Dont ever feel obligated to do it. Only do what feels comfortable for you. I know some guys that really aren't into it, so maybe you'll find just that and never have to learn to do it. Each guy likes it different ways. one might like to hear you gag, but one might like your tongue more on the tip. Ask the guy to show and tell you what parts of his penis feel good to him, and you can always pause for a second and ask him if it feels good or ask him what he wants you to do. It's actually hotter if you talk about it while it's happening. it will get your pussy all wet ;)

[SashaSmith789]

It's great that you want to take your relationship to the next level! Blowjobs are (for some/most of the guys) as important as sex itself - so it's good that you want to give him pleasure :)

Now, on to the preparation:
1. Communication is the key. Tell him you want to practice and that you are not going to stop until you get it perfect - trust me, no guy is going to tell you no :)
2. Take it slowly. Take him just an inch at the time, until you eliminate your gag reflex.
3. Have him sitting in the chair while you're giving him a bj - and get some pillows under your knees!
4. Check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons for more detailed info - it's the only Blowjob Guide you will ever need :)

[kaylaS91]

I promise you won't gag unless you try to deep-throat. Just focus on the outer half of it, mostly flicking at or swirling your tongue around the head. Not too fast, let him savour & enjoy the sensations rather than racing to the finish.
As for how to prepare, just relax. Don't feel like you have to do it with any expectations other than for both of you to enjoy it. I find it also helps to have a cup of water close by to moisten things up if your mouth gets dry at any point. It's going to sound silly, but in my experience it seems that having freshly applied lip balm is useful too. Helps your lips slide up and down the shift much better as opposed to lips that are on the dry side.

[mechp]

That's experience talking there ;p

[WooPigSooie2000]

Talk to him about it if you are genuinely nervous. Let him know how you feel. If he has any experience ask him to guide you. Even if he has no experience, he will be able to tell you what does and does not feel good.
Gagging should not be a big problem. The head and the first inch of his penis will be the most sensitive. If you can put your tongue on the underside of his penis about an inch from the tip your are good.
If you would like a visual aid there are thousands of video on the internet. But always remember, if you are looking to P*rnography for sexual advice/direction, those people are not average in terms of sexual performance.

[Klaatu51]

wait a min... are you sure that he wants to receive a BJ?

[NExPats12]

Hey! Practice on a toy it sounds crazy, but it would be useful. I'm not really sure you can prepare for a bj, but practicing could give you a bit more confidence in doing it, so you'll definitely feel better going into the situation.

[thotramus]

just get turned on. get horny and everything comes naturally.