Has anyone else thrown up when attempting to "swallow"?

I'm so embarrassed.. kay.. I have always refused to swallow for my boyfriend, because the very thought of it makes me want to gag. Anyway.. he wouldn't stop nagging me to swallow, and kept getting mad and what not and saying shit like "if you don't try to swallow then I won't eat you out, it's only fair.." which is ridiculous because for one, I don't squirt goo in his mouth, and I go down on him, I just refuse to swallow. Anyway, had enough of his bullshit.. so I let him blow in my mouth, and as I tried to get it down, I threw up.. on my bedroom floor (thank gosh it's wood).. I was am so fricking mad and embarrassed! He's all pissed off now and offended.. like, I can't even help that I did that, I have a weak stomach towards taste and smell.. :( I'm just feeling like he's an asshole and I am going to break up with him, because he never respected me from day one when I said I really do not want to swallow.. ever. Am I the only girl who's puked from this? Ugh..
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm sorry that I'm laughing so hard right now. I can't imagine that it seems that funny to you. I imagine that spunk is an.. ahem... "acquired taste"... Here are some things I've discovered over the years:

    1: No goo without pineapple. Have your man eat pineapple for a day or two before oral - it removes the smell and changes the flavor (works on women, too!)
    2. Tell him you're not a pornstar! Just because professional nut goblins eat that shit in movies doesn't mean every girl does. You need time to get used to the idea, if it's ever gonna happen.
    3. Start with a sip, not a chug. Pretend it's your very first beer XD
    4. Most important: if he insists on treating you like a porn ho - buy a strap on... and insist that he take it all before you try to swallow his funky spunk again. He needs to be realistic and have respect.

  • have him go past your tongue where you can't taste it. I had a girlfriend with the same problem, I had to shoot it down her throat if I wanted it swallowed. Then she got a little more used to it, and then didn't care eventually where I could go on her tongue.

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  • your boyfriend is a total blackmailing jerk and i dont blame you thinking about breaking up with him, swallowing isn't equal to eating someone out and you do give him oral so its not like its unfair to him he's just being selfish and doesn't care about your feelings.

  • I have never thrown up after swallowing cum. I did gag the first three times I swallowed, but that was only because it took me a bit to get used to the texture. After that it was smooth sailing, I got used to cum, like it and have enjoyed swallowing ever since.

    • why did u gag? from the swallowing or he was pushing too deep?

  • I've thrown up the first time I did it to my boyfriend and I understand where you are coming from. I told him never again and he respected that.
    Maybe talk to him about it and if he's still mad, tell him to start respecting you or you are done with him.

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  • Im a bi woman and i swallow both women's squirt and A mans cum, its a way of showing them you care and love them.

  • Yeah first time I nearly hurled, if I think about puking then I'm going to puke so the moment it hit my I was gagging!

    Your boyfriend sound like an ass though, sorry.

  • I’ve never had a girl NOT swallow. Even when I was a kid. But it would be a total deal breaker. I never asked them to swallow but I’ve even had two that swallowed both. They just keep going until balls and bladder are both dry. Now I’d never be with a girl that didn’t do that for me.

  • I haven't, but you're not the only chick who has that reaction.

    And your bf is an asshole.

  • No. I have next to no gag reflex, so, swallowing is literally effortless for me.

    • so does that mean you also have the ability to deep throat?

  • You dont need to be embarrassed.
    A friend I use to have, yes we talked about weird stuff at work, I asked her if it felt like sucking down snot/mukas like when you have a cold, she said it's real similar to that feeling. That feeling has almost made me throw up before so if a girl says swallowing cum is rough for her I'd believe it.

    Not gonna lie I'd want my girlfriend to swallow, just saying.

    As important as it was to him he should have also seen and respected how against it you were too.
    He handled it like a jerk, after asking so many times he should have realized you 2 weren't comparable and broke it off in a dignified way cause let's face it, there's no real way to compromise when it's something he always wants and you never want.
    But then he actually got you to try it, which I'm proud of you for, you made every effort and tried something new for him, and then he gets mad when it didn't go perfectly to plan? He should have just been happy you tried it.

    I could definitely see it making me throw up.

    Like you said dude dosent respect your wants, he could have split it up tastefully but he decided to control and change you, fuck that guy.

  • She did not throw up but I had a girl that i won a bet with and got her to swallow her first time ( i was dating her at the time) she started to and then got up and jerked me the rest of the way saying "that is all of that stuff i can stand" After that when we broke up she went into a major whore phase like gang bangs and double teams and swallowed for everyone. I actually had guys i did not know buy me drinks when we were out since i got her doing that.

  • I once spit it out on his t-shirt if that makes you feel better.

    • the guy liked it?

  • Happens to a lot when they have these fears.

  • You tried it and proven to him that you don't like it. That should be the end of the story. If he keeps pushing it's probably time for you to move on.

  • Just make sure you tell him you don’t like it, and make sure he respects you! Otherwise you can get someone who will

  • Lol! Never had a girl puke when swallowing. Thats hilarious.

  • Girls should always swallow.

  • It's fucking gross, I'd throw up too

  • let me put it this way, if you don't feel like doing anything that will make you sick, then don't do it. your boyfreind has to understand that. if he truly loves you, he will not force you to swallow

  • you should break up with him

  • I gotta agree with him on this girls should always swallow

  • I think it's time for you to change, go find another man

  • An old girlfriend of mine did

  • When he eats you out and makes u squirt does he swallow

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