My mom caught me masturbating in the bathroom!!! What can she be thinking? Should I talk to her about it?

Its my first time masturbating im 14. Omg its so embarrassing, I was in the bathtub with a towel under me and the air thingy on so it was really loud and I couldn't hear when she opened the door. So I was naked with my phone in my hand, cuz I was reading this thing about most beneficial way to masturbate. So it was like basic instructions or something. Lol I was on step 2 my right hand on my clit and my free hand massaging my boobs. Oh god then she opens the curtain and she gasps and leaves!! Omfg im freaking out. Should I talk to her about it?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Why did ur mom come into the bathroom when u r 14, ur parents should leave u alone at that age, and no don't talk to her about it. Masturbation is an amazing part of life, sex is better of course, but ur mom a
    Has masturbates plenty of times as well, everybody does it, don't worry, ur mom was just suprisr to see u doing it she shouldn't b mad about it

  • Natural part of life. If she doesn't bring it up just leave it. Continue doing it if you enjoyed it just be more careful the next time? But be ready for that awkward convo if she want to talk to you about it. Most people have been caught by their parents 1 time or another.

    • Ughh omg thanks

    • Yup. It'll pass. lol. Just go about your business.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Just... don't. Don't address it. Carry on like she didn't see anything unless she brings it up to you. Addressing it will make things 10x more awkward.

  • Next time lock the door!!
    That sounds so embarrassing! If I was you I would just never bring it up and walk off the embarrassment.

    • walk the embarrassment off

    • Lol I know and it is!! Thanks

  • Only if she brings up the subject first. Your mom is just freaked out that her little girl is now a normal teenager.

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  • Its embarrassing, but its also normal. If she doesn't broach the subject then I would let it be. The discomfort will pass in a couple weeks.

    • Weeks?

    • Oh god

    • Thats how it was for me. My mom went so far as to say she was disgusted. And things were awkward for about the next two weeks. Sometimes I think I'm more mature than her haha.

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  • basically my advice is to NOT masturate when yur parents are around ;-)

    so that way you'd be more secure :-)

  • Some things need to be ignored. It's normal and she knows it.

    • Ugh yeah I hope so

    • She won't even make a big deal about it as long as you don't act awkward.

  • Unless she's some super religious person who thinks masturbating is wrong, she would have got a shock but would laugh it off

  • I'm sure your mother masturbated when she was young i wouldn't worry it will pass

  • don't be embarresed lol just tell your mom you were going to shower duh lol eww you naked lol

  • OH MY GAWD HER DAUGHTER IS A NORMAL HUMAN BEING

    • pretty much!

  • There's a reason why bathroom doors have locks lmao

    • Omfg I know!! xD I just never use locks. Well OBVIOUSLY thats changing!! xD

    • ahaha

  • I incest that you have a nice long chat about it. oops I mean insit.

  • Oh wow does your bathroom not have a lock? Did she know you were in there btw?

  • Just tell her you'd had a bath and you were drying yourself in a mildly erotic manner.

  • she masturbated too when she was your age. Next time close door. You can say something in some kinda funny way to get rid of the awkwardness like ''Next time I will close the door'' your mom feels the same embarrassed like you.

  • If you live in America, it so called normal... :'

  • You'll be fine. I know she understands. She's probably as scared as you are to say anything about it.

  • That is so hot. Do explain more...