My opinion on this topic….
I have greater things to be doing with my energy than spreading my legs and having sex all the time. Sorry to be blunt but that’s what it comes down to. Yes, sex can be fun, adventurous, and very intimate. Yet, I have other things that I enjoy doing with my free time and to be honest, it becomes a pain in the a** when your boyfriend always wants to have sex. It can make you feel like a sex object like all he mainly wants to do is get his d*ck wet. When a guy always wants to have sex, he can start to be a nuisance and it just becomes bothersome like a mother nagging you to do a chore that you would prefer to do later.1 0 0 0i appreciate the honesty
It simply means they have different sexual needs. There are women who value and enjoy sex in a relationship as much and as frequently as men. He needs to find someone who is better suited to him.
@shadowlegend meh not necessarily. Typically partners in a relationship who spend over 50% of their free time together f*cking can be replaced because they are lacking in mental and emotional intimacy. That’s just logical, rational sense: if you are spending most of your time with someone sexually gratifying them and vice versa then how much time together are you spending having meaningful, deep conversations or going on adventures that don’t involve your genitals? There are some activities that require absolute focus without your sex drive being involved. When a couple spends most of their time screwing, someone usually ends up having an emotional affair.
Be assertive, express your needs. You are being faithful I'm assuming? So you have every right to say what you want and need from the relationship, the same as any woman does. Maybe your gf doesn't know that it's actually something you need to feel fulfilled, so all you can do is talk to her about it and then decide if you are getting your needs met from the relationship or not. But also determine if you could possibly satisfy yourself (masturbate) more often and also have sex with your gf when she is willing, instead of continue to end relationships over it.
0 0 1 0yes I'm totally faithful! i don't even talk about other girls being attractive the way girls always go on about other guys!
So express your needs. I think sex is a very important part of a relationship and you need to find a partner who values it as much as you. Sexual compatibility is just as important as any other need in a relationship, don't settle and feel you have to suppress that part of yourself, there are women who feel the same way you do.
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