Would you enjoy taking a guys virginity?

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Girls would you enjoy taking a guys virginity? How about being his first kiss? Like would you have fun teaching and showing a guy how to please you and eat you out? What about teaching him how to make out with you? What if he was in his mid 20s and completely and totally inexperienced? Or would this be awkward and embarrassing to you?

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udolipixie Guru
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Would you enjoy taking a guys virginity?
No as most likely his inexperience means bad sex for me

How about being his first kiss?
No as most likely his inexperience means bad kissing for me

Like would you have fun teaching and showing a guy how to please you and eat you out?
No as I find guys generally do not take well to being taught/shown what to do unless the gal is ever so self-effacing and godly gracious about me. I'm not interested in coddling a guy and babying my words so I don't damage his male ego.

What about teaching him how to make out with you?
No

What if he was in his mid 20s and completely and totally inexperienced?
If he is inexperienced by circumstance as in he didn't choose to be then I'd question his ability to socially interact with others. I'd also look out for misogyny since I find most circumstantial virgins to be bitter, blaming gals, angry at gals, and/or entitled.

Or would this be awkward and embarrassing to you?
No it would be uninteresting to me.
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- tyber1
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  Ouch wouldn't want to have lost my virginity to you.
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 I wouldn't take your virginity. Seems we both get what we want.
- tyber1
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  I'm not a virgin I'm just saying you don't seem like you'd have been a very pleasant first partner.
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- Asker
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  You wouldn't even give the guy a chance to learn. What if you really liked him I'm other ways. What if you really liked his personality?
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 Of course I wouldn't have bern a very pleasant first partner as it's not something I'd want orbe willing to do. Unwilling sex partners are likely usually not very pleasant.
- Ihav2fart
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  Hahaha I like your honesty.
- udolipixie
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  @Asker No I wouldn't give him a chance to learn. My body is not something for a guy to take a chance on and practice with his d*ck. I'd offer him a sexless relationship which he'd most likely turn down no matter how much he liked me or my personality because it seems to most guys sex is important enough to have.
- Asker
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  I think you might be missing the point. I was talking about a guy who actually liked for you and wasn't just going to use you as sex practice. A guy who liked spending time with you and dating you.
- tyber1
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  That's just kinda cold. I mean I feel like people should be supportive when it comes to sex there's already enough anxiety and stigma around it.
- udolipixie
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  @Asker I didn't miss the point. I think you missed that 'giving him a chance to learn' may mean basically using my body for him to practice on with his d*ck. Again I'd offer such a guy a sexless relationship which he'd likely turn down because no matter how much he likes spending time with me and dating me he also wants sex.
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 "That's just kinda cold. I mean I feel like people should be supportive when it comes to sex" You're contradicting yourself by seemingly placing a negative judgement on who I choose to have sex with. Not having sex with a virgin /= not being supportive of sex. I support however people choose to have sex as long as it's consensual and not with children/animals.
- tyber1
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  "Not having sex with a virgin /= not being supportive of sex." True but that's not what you're suggesting. You're not suggesting that you're not having sex with a guy who happens to be a virgin, you're suggesting that you wouldn't have sex with him BECAUSE he's a virgin. And I'd argue that that is being pretty unsupportive, you don't even think he deserves a chance. Remember that you were once a virgin and you'd still be a virgin if everyone had that mindset towards you. "You're contradicting yourself by seemingly placing a negative judgement on who I choose to have sex with." No, I'm not placing a negative value on the 'who'. I'm placing a negative judgment on the reason you won't have sex with them. Big difference. I think you're being shallow and unempathetic.
- Bandit74
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  "I support however people choose to have sex as long as it's consensual and not with children/animals" So are you telling me I can't lose my virginity to my dog. Well thanks for ruining my day 😡
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 It seems more like you haven't been reading what I stated. Nowhere did I suggest I'm not having sex with a guy who happens to be a virgin. I clearly repeatedly stated I wouldn't have sex with him BECAUSE he's a virgin. Let me clarify again "Not having sex with a virgin (because he's a virgin) /= not being supportive of sex." "No, I'm not placing a negative value on the 'who'." Yes you are contradictory as you're placing a negative judgement on who I choose to have sex with. I didn't state you're placing a negative value on the virgin but my choice of who I sleep with. "I'm placing a negative judgment on the reason you won't have sex with them." That isn't being supportive of sex as it's suited for people to be able to have sex with who they want. Meh as I'm a gal pretty much being there would result in male pleasure/orgasm. Plus if everyone had that mindset towards me there would still be prostitution.
- tyber1
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  Whatever you say, I still think you're mean.
- udolipixie
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  " I'm placing a negative judgment on the reason you won't have sex with them. Big difference. I think you're being shallow and unempathetic." As I said that contradicts you feeling people should be supportive when it comes to sex as a person having sex with those they want. Arguably one could state you are seemingly shaming others into having sex with those they don't want. It seems more like you feel people should be supportive of only sex you approve of otherwise they are (insert negatives).
- udolipixie
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  @Bandit74 You can lose your virginity to your dog... I just won't support it. LMFAO
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 So basically: tyber1: support sex except when you don't like how people choose who they do/don't have sex with me: support sex except when it rape or harms children/animals Any more stipulations you have of your supporting sex? Or is it just when you don't like it when people choose who they have sex with and who they don't have sex with?
- Bandit74
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  yay!
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- tyber1
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  I guess I just don't like self-centered people.
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 "Whatever you say, I still think you're mean." LMFAO... you feel'people should be supportive of sex' yet you label me 'kinda cold' 'mean' because I don't have sex with people I don't want. Such a contradiction.
- udolipixie
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  @tyber1 "I guess I just don't like self-centered people." Yeah such self-centeredness to choose who you do and don't have sex with. LMFAO
Anonymous
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Some girls would because to be quite frank, the act sends them on a self-absorbed ego trip. They don’t really care about the guy in his experience, they just want to feel like an Aphrodite because to his untrained d*ck, it feels like something amazing even if she in particular is mediocre in bed or can be outshined by another female. It’s disgusting when people use other’s virginity as an ego boost.
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NExPats12 Xper 5
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I have before, and now he's my best friend. I've always wanted to steal a V-card, so yeah I feel good about it. 😂😋🍆
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- Asker
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  Why can't I meet girls like you? :(
- NExPats12
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  😉 because I am just one of a kind. @Asker
- Asker
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  That makes me frustrated. I hope I can meet a girl that wouldn't mind being my first, even if she's the only girl I'll ever be with
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- NExPats12
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  I didn't think it would be that hard for a guy. @Asker
- Asker
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  Well when you're eccentric like i am and a 22yo kissless virgin, I have a hard time finding my self confidence
- NExPats12
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  Inbox me anonymous @Asker

Most Helpful Guy

Anonymous
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I originally told my now girlfriend that I was sexually experienced when I met her - didn't want to come across as a fellow 22 year old that had never had sex, as society seems to deem anyone that has never had sex as some kind of oddity.

Admitted it to her eventually. Never heard anyone sound as happy. She can't wait to teach me actually.
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ladieslady50 Xper 5
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I would, and have...
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- Asker
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  How old was he?
- ladieslady50
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  It's been more than one...
- Asker
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  Where any of them older than 21
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- ladieslady50
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  A couple of them, yeah
- Asker
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  Well if that's you in your avatar picture, then those are some lucky dudes lol
- ladieslady50
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  Thankyou, Anonymous... you just made my day
- Asker
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  Well I'm mean you are well... Just damn!
basketballgirly7 Xper 5
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honestly no. I was a half virgin when I had sex with a virgin guy and it wasn't enjoyable cause he didn't know what he was doing.
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Anonymous
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Yeah it'd be cute
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- billmunch
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  I lost my virginity at 30 to a very experienced woman my age. First, she couldn't believe I was a virgin at 30 and laughed at me. Then, when I told her she would be my first everything: first naked woman i had ever seen, first kiss, first breast squeeze, first oral, she seemed also said it was cute and really seemed to like that I was a virgin because I was her first virgin since high school and that she never thought she would be with another one. It was an amazing experience. The only bad part was having to explain why I was a virgin at 30. She also told all her friends immediately after. I didn't choose to wait so long, but I don't regret it. Afterwards, she said I was awful and I didn't come but we both enjoyed the experience.