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My boyfriend always has a boner?

He has a boner all the time. Whenever we're in the grocery store hell typically stand behind me and and I'll either lean into him or he'll put his chin on my head, and I'll feel his boner poking me in the back/butt. He's also always adjusting himself. I know all guys do this, but I feel like he does this excessively. In a car ride I'll watch him shuts himself about 3 times. When I'm just sitting near him or on his lap I'll either see or feel a boner. We haven't had sex yet so I'm wondering if that's the reason but I'm actually really concerned.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • hahaa... relax... i guess u people are very young,,,,,, to be frank during my initial stages of my relationship, trust me when when she hold my hand thats it... my cock jumps and goes up... i swear i though i was so weird or what... but even for her small touch i get an erection... no worry later it will fade away... i believe he loves u a lot... dont worry... but dont force control his erection...

    • We're not super young or anything, I'm 18 and he's 19. But out relationships is pretty new. I haven't done anything sexual but I still don't know what his sexual history is

  • He finds you VERY attractive and he's uber horny for you! It's natural, and there's nothing he can do about it. It's an involuntary reaction. Believe me, there have been plenty of times when I've had one and wished it didn't have to happen then!

    What is your concern?

    • I'm just scared that it's not normal and healthy. Because if it is I wanted to know if I could Eli or if he should see a doctor

    • Not Eli I mean help

    • Oh no, he's fine. And you're fine (and probably hot!). Just accept his arousal as a signal of attraction, because that's what it is. Unless, of course, he's gotten into his daddy's viagara!

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Most Helpful Girl

  • How old are you guys? If your younger like high school or early college this can be normal. How experienced is he? That matters as well.

    • We're in college he's my first boyfriend. But I don't know about his sexual history because we haven't been dating long

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I can barely shake hands with a girl without drawing wood😂

  • There's nothing odd about this. haha

  • i dont think u should be concern, it's quite the same for me cause i get boner quite easily. a hug or some other body contact can make me have a boner too. if u feel uncomfortable maybe u have to try avoiding the boner i guess. e. g dont lean ur butt on his boner

  • If and when you become sexual with him, it will happen less often. The easiest way for a guy to have frequent boners is to not do anything with them when they happen, so it is just sexual tension building and building. Once he gets release, he'll have them less frequently. Kind of like an excitable puppy that gets calmer when you indulge their need for attention.

  • Cuz he is young and easily turned on!

  • You need to have sex with him! You obviously turn him on A LOT as far as the adjusting, no thats not normal, he either is wearing the wrong underwear or its just a bad habit (I have family member that does this in excess) that being said after he has an erection and goes back to flaccid he will need to adjust himself

    • I don't think I'm turning him on that much, I'm just assuming he's getting random bonkers or something

    • I would only say that if he is really"into you" and you are constantly giving him erections then should be considering regular sexual activity, if you dont that could be pretty crule

  • Guys can't control an erection so there is no such thing as getting an excessive erection.

    As far as the other things... shouldn't you be happy you turn him on? Most guys would have an erection if our gf put her backside on us and you sat on his lap... what do you expect to happen lol

  • Just relieve him regularly and his dick will be able to relax.

  • lol grabs popocorn

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