Is penis size really a big deal or are some females just used to getting away with being lazy and relying on a big d**k to please them?

[Anonymous]

As a female who has experienced a very large penis and a smaller penis, I am now a firm believer that penis size is not some roadblock to great sex. As long as you genuinely know how to work your hips and create the sensation with your body then you should be able to enjoy sex no matter what his package is like. I believe that some females think they are better in bed than what they really are and when a guy with a smaller package comes along, they blame his d*ck size for their inability to experience heightened pleasure. This theory makes sense to me when I consider how many guys have talked about females being lame in bed, being boring, predictable, or just having a lame p*ssy like they think all they need to do to please man in bed is spread their legs. False. I think that if you really have a well-rounded sexual arsenal full of delightfully sensual resources, then you can make steamy, hot, passionate, enjoyable sex out of any d*ck that comes your way. (Lol, that sentence came out really funny :P) It's like a professional making excuses that their presentation sucks because of the equipment when if they are really all that skilled and talented, they will make a damn good performance out of whatever they have to work with. Do you agree or disagree? What are your overall thoughts on this topic?

[godfatherfan]

Well since I am a guy you didn't allow for that in your poll. I have no idea. I do know that no guy is ever going to buy that his penis size is ok (yes, there are exceptions to every rule).
I very much disagree with what you said. when it comes to penetration. All a woman needs to do for great sex is just lay there and spread her legs. or be willing to take it doggy style but your still just getting on your knees and elbows and putting that ass in the air so we can get to the pussy.
A woman does not have to do anything else. What else can she really do?
sure it would be nice if she acts like she really likes getting what we are giving her. Guys are turned on by a woman letting us know she wants our cock.
I rather she use her talents on oral and be willing to go the extra that way, or allow anal...
I don't lik when she is on top because it has never worked for me. I just lay still and let her finish herself. then I move to a position that works for me.

but it is nice to know there is a woman out there that is really ok with different size penises...

[Asker]

whoops! prolly should have done that! My bad! If you feel like a woman doesn't have to do anything else besides lay there, look sexy, and barely exceed the expectations of a latex blow-up sex doll then I really feel sad for what your sex life has shown you. lol? No offense but what the hell kind of females have been bouncing on dat peen? :O : / I am so sorry that you have not experienced the absolute, utterly blissful delight that is a vagina being orchestrated by hip rolling, body waves, and jiggling ass.

[Asker]

what happened to the convo? : /

[Asker]

oh wait nvm, got you mixed up with someone else's answer

[godfatherfan]

I think I have always had amazing sex. I am much more oral in nature. I want them to have had at least 1 orgasm if not more before I get inside them. By that time I am just finishing myself off. So I don't need them to do much else. I am very happy with moans and watching their face when I pump away.

[PiuBelloAmante]

It takes two to tango
And i think that having both partners know their limitations, and what pleases them is important

I do feel as though some girls don't do enough, but there are a lot of girls who know how to work it so they can please themselves and their partner

It's also the mans job to know he might have to work a little harder and know how to stimulate his women in different ways

[grlpwr]

Unless it's less than 3" erect than I say it's fine anything from 4"-6" is great and anything more than that is unnecessary. Even if I was with a guy with a micropenis who I loved I could easily make it work. As long as he liked to give oral and use his fingers and toys. Too much dick is not good. My boyfriend was so worried that I was not pleased with his awesome, perfect thick 5 incher {i would have guessed 7" by looking at it BTW] that he bought an extender. That made it like 8" and even thicker. I threw it away. My boyfriend before him as gigantic maybe 7" which looked like 9" and I only really enjoyed the shallow thrusts.

[Anonymous]

Don't bash girls for having preferences. Kind of misogynistic, don't you think? If guys can like girls who are unrealistically skinny or have a big rack, then it should be perfectly for girls to state their preferences without a mob of angry, rejected baby dicks descending upon them. As you can see from the vast majority of answers (and even votes) here, size does matter, and dudes are gonna have to get over it.

[1977Rob]

Everyone is entitles to their preference. But it is a bit hypocritical for you to say guys should not get angry/abusive when you are doing the same thing yourself. And the votes are about 50/50 now. So I guess there is someone out there for everyone.

[fwbplease]

I disagree. I was with the same guy for awhile and I thought we had amazing sex, he was of an average size penis. I am with a new guy and he has an above average penis and the sex is 10X better. They both have same knowledge in bed but the bigger was better.

[JHAYES317]

Is it a dealbreaker now for you that they have to be big now to be in a relationship?

[missingmyfriend]

Hate to say this, but I think bigger is a bit better. I've had both, and my best sex ever was with the bigger guy.

[Asker]

But was that because of his size or his sexual knowledge?

[JHAYES317]

Why do you hate to say that? If that’s your honest experience, nothing is gained by lying about it

[itsallover]

No, I have to disagree here. Size definitely does matter, and I'm far from lazy in bed.

[itsallover]

It goes two ways too, if you're a smaller than average guy then you have to know how to use it to the best of your ability.

[capblahhh]

I'm almost an inch soft and almost 4 hard. I know that isn't big but how would you say that measures up (I won't get offended)

[JHAYES317]

Well that’s unfortunate

[bubble_tea]

How small is the smaller penis?

[Ihav2fart]

Asian small

[Tombstone1000100]

About 8 inches :p

[bubble_tea]

@Ihav2fart Almost everyone is smaller compared to a very large penis if the very large one is 10 inches xD

[Ihav2fart]

Why are you so smart! ? Ruining my Asian stereotyping ways

[bubble_tea]

@Tombstone1000100 bwahahaha someone else got it

[bubble_tea]

@Ihav2fart let me help you out with the Asian stereotyping.. It must be the Asian in me xD

[Ihav2fart]

It's aliveeee

[Asker]

Whateva, I've seen some juicy, yummy, meaty Asian peens floating around on Youporn : )

[JHAYES317]

Less than 4 in

[Prof_Don]

I believe A is more true than B

[SomeoneImportant]

Well, every woman's anatomy is different and like different forms of stimulation.

But, I can get on board with the "Bitches just lazy" campaign.

[Asker]

lmao "Bitches just lazy" campaign

[SomeoneImportant]

Has a nice ring to it doesn't it lol? But I homestly think both A and B are true.

[SomeoneImportant]

honestly*

[Asker]

bwahahaha that's my chuckle for the day! : ) Thank you, Mr.

[SomeoneImportant]

No problem bud

[Asker]

The older I get, the more I realize the extent in which people will discredit others so that they don't have to humbly take an honest look at themselves and I think this topic is an example of that. Logically, it doesn't make a whole lot of sense that sex can be ruined because "the guy was born with the wrong thing" -_- Makes me think that the true problem lies within some female's attitudes or their lack of skill and knowledge on how to work a penis so that there is MUTUAL BLISS.

[SomeoneImportant]

I see what you're saying, but the problem with that is, every woman on earth doesn't have the same anatomy as you. You learned through experience that penis size doesn't matter to YOU, you can't apply that to every single female on earth. There's women out there who have had the same experiences as you, but discovered they did need a larger size. There are some lazy chicks out there, but at some point, every woman finds out what helps them get the most out of sex. For some that's an average size, some larger, and some even like smaller. That's life. If what you say is true, then penis size insecurity wouldn't exist. It would all be lashing out at women, telling them to get to workin that ass.

[Asker]

It's not just about anatomy. Anatomy can only take you so far unless you take it to the next level. Anatomy does not determine skill level and acquired knowledge. Nonetheless, you do have a point. But I almost wanna be a pervy voyeuristic for a day and be a fly on the wall to see what the real issue is... lol

[SomeoneImportant]

I feel ya, I'd join you on the wall.

[Asker]

lolol! we'd chase each other around for the best angles :P

[SomeoneImportant]

Right lol. Like "Shit, they switched positions" then it's a race to the best possible view

[Asker]

hehehehehe

[Anonymous]

A small penis or at least for me can make it a challenge for us to feel the most pleasure. My current partner is really small (thin etc..) so sometimes i have a harder time feeling him because he can only reach the entrance of my vagina at max. So i usually have to masturbate after so i can get off. so yes it does make difference but no i dont think its females just being lazy its not the be all end all of a relationship. <3

[Anonymous]

tons of girls are going to lie right now and say size doesn't matter

[Anonymous]

I am naturally very deep, and I like when the guy hits my cervix. I need a big dick for that.
Sorry guys, trust me - I really wish I didn't. It would make my life a lot easier.

[ThinkingHead]

I like finding the cervix too... I'm fortunate to be able to. Girls that want this are thrilled. It's just a fact and we're all different.

[Opinion Owner]

@ThinkingHead Exactly

[Anonymous]

It's a yes and no situation too small is bad too if you can't feel it there's not much going to help.