My boyfriend has a weird obsession of interracial p*rn?

[Anonymous]

Hey, my boyfriend and I have been trying new ways to make our sex life better. Its not bad though we want to try new things for fun. I mentioned watching p*rn and since then I have found he really liked interracial p*rn . White guys and black girls, but mainly black guys and white girls. Idc what he watches though i am confused why its all that type since we are both white. He mentions sometimes how big the black guys package is and i wonder why he comments on that and if he is maybe bored with me and him guys/girls, what do you think about this situation?

[Anonymous]

This may be a stretch but it's the first thing that came to my mind and I could be completely wrong so maybe you should try just asking him why he likes it. But a lot of men think black guys can give the ultimate sexual pleasure to women because they're known for having larger "packages". He could be watching black men with white women because of that reason and a few more I can think of. And with the comment about their "packages", I think maybe he wants you to agree with him, he might like that you like it too and maybe want more things from you in that way if you understand what i'm saying.

[Asker]

honestly this sounds kinda spot on! he has asked me things like, "isn't that d so big?" and he compares himself to the videos. it is kinda awkward tbh why do you think he does that? and what other reasons are you referring to? thank you

[Opinion Owner]

Well my boyfriend has a cuckold fetish, which you can google but in general for one reason or another they like watching their girlfriend with other men. I don't want you to think that's what i'm saying because he may not have that at all but some of the comments sound familiar with my boyfriend's. He may want you to like it too because he wants you to enjoy looking at other men or wanting other men. But like I said that's just an assumption, he could just like the idea of white women receiving so much pleasure from black men and it could be just a fantasy to him because sometimes p*rn is just fantasy. So I would just ask him if I were you to ease your mind.

[Asker]

i have heard of that but i didn't think he had those thoughts. now i wonder. i will ask him, thanks! how do you deal with that fetish he has?

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome and yeah, I didn't want to assume he had that fetish but the comments sound familiar and honestly he could just like the thought of it and not the actual act which is why he likes watching that type of p*rn and maybe just wants you to agree with him because you're getting into his fantasy. I wouldn't assume he has that fetish but I would ask if I were you or ask questions that you need to know because it's not fun for either of you when it feels like someone has to hide what they like around the other. Honestly it's a struggle for me, there are days I don't mind it and days I can't stand it. I was really against it at first but I decided to entertain some things that he enjoys, he has a foot fetish and a tickling fetish and wants other men to enjoy me in those ways, so i'm open to them and might try them. I'm not sure if i could handle actually having sex with other men so i'm glad he has other fetishes as well lol

[aamy811]

It's normal and not a huge deal. Tons of guys like girls in p*rn to have perfect bodies but they're totally fine with girls having a little pooch or chubby thighs. So he's probably fine that you guys aren't some interracial p*rn sex couple

[Asker]

ok thank you! do you think its alright he likes watching black guys in particular?

[aamy811]

Yeah, some guys like hardcore p*rn and they tend to use black people for that

[Asker]

i don't get that but i believe you and appreciate your answers!

[aamy811]

Its really weir I know

[Asker]

i hoped he wasn't fantasizing about black girls. or worse guys haha

[aamy811]

Haha true. But even if he's fantasizing about black girls, then at least it's girls

[Asker]

i feel ya. i was a little self conscious with that thought because i don't have a body like the typical black p*rn star. i have much flatter stereotypical 'white' features lol

[aamy811]

Trust me normal. If say about 99% of people love the way models looks but about 99% of those people would date a regular looking person. Same with p*rn and body types

[AustinMan]

A lot of guys have a fascination with black guys on white girls. I like it a lot. I exp like black guys with huge cocks "using and abusing" smaller white girls. I'm into Dominance/submission and this is just another form of it.

[Theguyoverthere]

A lot of sexual situations today are very "fetish" oriented so it sounds like some sort of fetish with him really.

[Asker]

lol he has a fetish?

[Theguyoverthere]

It could very well be.

[Mtkali]

i think, he is keen on black guys and probably he is gonna find a black girl take the control dont lose your bf

[Asker]

why do you think that?

[Mtkali]

i am a white guy too and sometimes black people seem differently but dont worry i was just teasing you