Found out my girlfriend has been going to gangbang parties, am I normal for having mixed feelings?

I recently found out my girlfriend has been going to these parties in birmingham called greedy girl parties, where she has been going to sleep with groups of men. Im very confused as i'm really jealous about it but at times also really turned on by the thoughts going on in my head. She doesn't know that im aware of it yet. Part of me is thinking of asking her if i can watch, but im not sure what to do?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You should probably stop thinking with your other head for a second and think with the one in between your shoulders. She's sleeping with other guys and a lot of them, that's cheating. She's sleeping with random guys who could be giving her STDs that she could pass to you as well. Who knows if they're even using protection? She could get pregnant by some random guy from it. Dump her because she clearly doesn't care about you if she's banging a bunch of random guys.

  • Figure out what you want. If you're not ok with her sleeping with other guys and if you still wanna be with her and exclusive with her tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't want that then dump her. If you would actually want to be involved yourself in those kind of activities then say her so. But you can't have both. So choose.

  • It's normal to have mixed feelings about it. It's not like most people did things like that. the best think you can do is talk to her about it and discuss the subject.
    That way you could find out if is was just a phase for her, if she wants to do it again.

  • It's all fun and games until someone is pregnant or gets an std.
    She's betraying you... how could this turn you on?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Why do you even need our help? You either want a woman for a serious relationship or for meaningless sex. Either way if she is sleeping with tons of men you are facing a serious health risk. Not to mention that dating a whore is not a good idea for the long run.

  • by the fact she does it secretely without tellling you, it means she doesn't trust you completely :-)

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  • This sounds fucking sordid.

    • I actually think this is a fucking hoax and you're just advertising these parties. sad cunt.

  • Sounds like a mass orgy party! :O

    • The great @sexualchrist may be of great service to you here. :P

    • I already told him what I would do

  • What the fuck man, dump her.

    • That's a surprising answer from you? I thought you would have agreed to it. One woman man huh?:)

    • @abundantlyrich I wouldn't appreciate my girlfriend doing that behind my back. It's a betrayal of trust. If she was single, fine but someone's heart is on the line here.

  • You should go down to the jewelry store and buy her the most expensiveengagement ring that you can afford and ask her to marry you.

  • Mate, I wouldn't stay too long with such girl. Do you really imagine a future with such a girl? I don't think so. If you do my guess is she will break it off with you sooner or later, so your best choice is: just have your fun and take advantage of her as much as possible before it ends between you two.

  • kick her ass to the curb

  • Confront her.