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My boyfriend is perfect but he doesn't lick pussy?

I've been dating this guy for almost 4 months and he's everything I've ever wanted, he's perfect looks wise and even more perfect personality wise, I'm yet to see any flaws in him, I even think he might be the one, no guy has ever made me feel the way he does and I've dated quite a lot of guys so that says something. There's just one thing. He does not eat pussy. When I talked to him about it he said he's very sorry, he wants to give me pleasure but he can't do that because of his previous experiences. He has only gone down on two girls, one smelled and tasted so bad that he was down there for like 30 seconds only cause he couldn't take it anymore, and when he went down on the second girl he literally threw up a little bit. Literally. It makes me sad cause getting licked is one of my absolute favourite things in life and it gives me wild orgasms and I can't cope with the thought that I'm never gonna get eaten out ever again. As for me giving him oral, I love it and do it often. I can't get enough of his dick. What should I do? I shouldn't break up with him just cuz he doesn't lick pussy, right? That'd be ridiculous. Girls, have you ever been in a successful, great relationship even though the guy didn't eat you out? I don't even know what else to ask I just thought a lot about it today and it made me really sad and I needed to get it off my chest :((
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Aw what a horrible predicament you're in... Maybe try explaining how much you enjoy it and start to talk about it, dont pressure him into it, as he has clearly had a terrible time with this in the past! Have a shower (I'm not implying that you are dirty! Its for his peace of mind) and groom your intimate areas so that it is less daunting for him. Maybe apply some scented body lotion all over your body so that you're smelling extra sweet (not on your lady parts though! Use pure coconut oil for that as normal body lotions can sting!) and apply some flavoured lube to your clit and anywhere else he wants to put it, let him take as long as he needs to get to grips and become comfortable with doing this, not only will you be enjoying what you love, but he shall be enjoying this new and sweet tasting experience :) i really hope this helps! Good luck

  • My man has never gone down on me and I am extremely sexually satisfied with him. We have been dating for over half a year and I can say he's going to be my future husband. I do like being eaten out but that's actually not what gets me off so I am perfectly fine with never having it. But your case is different so I think you should keep thinking about it. To me, sex is one important aspect of a relationship, so if you aren't sexually satisfied, then you may need to consider other options.

Most Helpful Guys

  • He has a problem. He's one of these guys --- and they're out there --- who are squeamish when it comes to the rich juiciness of a girl's vulva. He sounds more than willing to receive oral from you, but not to return the pleasure. He's got a mental block about it, and if he were able to free himself from that block he'd be surprised at what he's missing. Giving oral to a girl is amazing and one of my favorite things to do. I really feel for you on this one. What you're having to come to grips with is that you two may not be sexually compatible. Because you deserve a guy who will perform that most intimate act of love and affection for you.

    • thanks for MHO

  • I think you find out his darkest, nastiest fantasy and role play it with him, to the hilt. Role play sex is absolutely the hottest sex there is, period. While he's laying there trying to breathe, you just give him those very best bedroom eyes and say, "We have to figure out a way for you to deal with going down on me." It may take hypnosis or whatever but he can find a way to please you. We all have negative experiences in life and I'm not a fan of muff diving myself but I do it from time to time for her.

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  • Tie him down in bed and sit on his face! But seriously, I totally understand the amount of pleasure received from oral, and therefore what you are missing. It is totally unfair to go through life without it! Ultimately, if he will not do it, that means you two are not sexually compatible. I think it is extremely unfair to you for him to not even try. You might have to get him down there gradually, start with fingering and have him lick his fingers and go from there.

  • Since your man does not like to eat you out and he has had 2 bad previous experiences it is unlikely he will be eating you out in the near future.

    The best advice I can provide is start exercising heavily and start learning on how to eat yourself out and once you can do it and for sure you will be able to then every time you want to be eaten out and satisfied you can do it yourself and not depend on your man who does not want to eat you out when you want to.

    Once you have perfected this on yourself then teach your man how to blow himself and then you won't have to depend on each other for any oral sex.

  • maybe he'll come around. try and experiment to make it seem appealing.

  • But I thought you said he was perfect.

  • Make sure your clean and put it near him and say please lick me wotth a try , I can’t imagine not licking a girls pussy I love it so much and love making a girl cum like that I understand why you want that I don’t blame you most guys would be more than willing to eat you

  • It would be both very selfish and very foolish of you to break up with this guy solely because he won't d oral. How would you feel if he broke up with you because you won't do blowjobs?

  • Well... I think the only reason why he won't go down on you is because of his bad past experiences... I think you should wait, you know maybe take a short with him and ask him to go down on you just to prove that you don't smell or taste bad...
    But if you are gonna dump him just because he won't go down on you then you will be definitely a shallow person...🙍

  • It sounds shallow but u migt have to thinks bout the future. I love my girlfriend but after 8-9 years of no blow jobs I'm seriously sexually frustrated and have to turn to pirn for my needs. I didn't mind for a few years as I'm a giving lover and always eat pussy. See is ok but evey now and then I wish I could just be sucked off. U might feel the same about being eaten out. Maybe not that strong now. But what if 8 years pas and u haven't came once from receiving oral?
    Relationships are more than sex j agree but tbh it really gets me frustrated now.

  • Assure him that you have neat, clean n tasty pussy... He will come then...

    Ahahahaha...

    Sorry for laugh.. :/

  • Then he's not the complete package!!! :-(

  • why does it matter?

  • Make him finger play with your pussy. Maybe dip your finger in your pussy and make sure he licks your finger as a trick. It might trigger him to go all in. Maybe also facesitting.

  • it depends on you... maybe some girls can keep on relationship without it but for some girls it's impossible... you can tell him that it's so important for you and it gives you better feeling...

  • Instant dump.

  • Sucks, maybe try to convince him somehow that yours don't stankkkk

  • It's called a trade off.

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