Saw my mom naked, confused about what to do?

Question

Last night my mom came into my room unannounced while I was... well, I was masturbating. I didn't hear her come in and I didn't notice her standing there watching me until I finished. When I did see her it scared the hell out of me.

I yelled at her and asked how long she had been standing there and she just kind of smiled and left the room. I was so embarrassed that I didn't come out of my room at all that night.

This morning, I tried to quietly sneak my way to the bathroom, take my shower, and leave for class without being noticed.

I got to the bathroom, the door was already somewhat open, and I stepped in, to find my mom, completely nude, brushing her teeth. Instead of freaking out she just kind of stood there looking at me. I quickly turned around and went back to my room and as I was walking away, I heard her say something like, "not bad for a 44 year old, huh?" I didn't answer and just shut my door.

She never walked around our house nude before so I'm really confused about why this is happening, and why she was watching me masturbate. What should i do about this?

Ryosanada · Accepted Answer

Well, I'd talk to her about it first off. Maybe it's a lesson to show you that everyone needs to be comfortable in their skin. Or she could have Bern trying to show you it's not too embarrassing to be seen naked by family members.

She could be trying to introduce you to nudism, or other things.

Everyone on here can come up with different things, but you'll never know the truth until you ask her yourself.

AmongTheFirs · Accepted Answer

The fact that your age is 25-29 makes that probably not a legal issue, but ethically I consider that to be mild abuse or the prelude to it. Just not okay.

I mean honestly it sounds like your mom is down for the incest train and you need to do some very rapid setting of boundaries. NOT COOL.

NoMoreDreams · Accepted Answer

Tell your dad and maybe confront your mom on the situation since her behavior is very odd.

AshBrown · Answer

This is not normal. She is sneaking on you and her reactions, or lack thereof, are even worse.

Skadouchebag · Answer

Call the police on your mom. And tell your dad.

oncpl · Answer

You have to do nothing. Just relax. She has seen you masturbating and you have seen her fully naked. Now you can muster little courage and start walking nude in her presence. I am sure she would like it, and may be she herself joins.

jurgenmeister · Answer

That’s a porn movie dude

Entrieton · Answer

That's very creepy...

hypno-trip · Answer

I'd move out forever yeesh...

abc--123 · Answer

Maybe she is secretly a nudist and now feels comfortable to be herself round you.

BlakeTerry22 · Answer

And your mom had a dick right?

Jorgeshurk · Answer

Well usually ⟟ go into my moms room to ask her something so onetime ⟟ went in while she was top less ⟟ only saw her boobs ⟟ did not see her vagina so ⟟ got more used to it so if ⟟ enter while she it topless ⟟ act like nothing happened

Anonymous · Answer

Your mom impressed with the size of your cock

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think anything is strange in this

Anonymous · Answer

Nudity is pretty normal with my family. I've seen my mother nude plenty of times and she has seen me nude One night drunk she stripped off in front of me and went swimming nude in our pool ha ha