Is it a man's biggest accomplishment to not feel sexually nor romantically attracted to women at all?

[Anonymous]

I ask because apparently some men on the internet resent being sexually attracted to women (at least nowadays) and see it as a their biggest weakness, as if women are never sexually attracted to men even if they're straight. I'm an aromantic asexual and I just don't care about sex at all. While I have nothing against women, I don't care for them at all either. All I care about is my own different things that I need to focus on. However, I don't think it's an accomplishment.

I've recently found one article about a girl dumping a guy for being asexual. Apparently, women are starting to dislike asexual men. I thought you ladies hated perverts much more than asexuals but then again, why should I care? It's not really my problem and I don't want much to do with women anyway.

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And women say only men are strictly after sex. Hypocrites, I should say.

[BellePepper]

I feel bad for anyone who resents their sexual orientation regardless of gender. However, if you feel that way you can't resent the people you're attracted to. It's not their fault that you (as in them not YOU specifically OP) have some personal issues to work through.

But it is completely unfair to dislike an entire gender just because of their gender. And none of that "but I have a female friend" business either. No matter how you phrase it that's misogynistic and you know it. That's probably why it doesn't feel like an accomplishment :I

I don't mind asexual people as friends at all. However, we would be incompatible at dating. I'm heterosexual and enjoy sex like most other women. I don't date introverts or other women for the same reason. We would be incompatible. How is that hypocritical at all?

[Asker]

I wonder. If you women had to pick between a pervert and an asexual, who would you rather be with? The vast majority of you women obviously hate perverts so I wonder.

[BellePepper]

I don't know if the pervert and I have compatible perversions it could work out pretty well I'd say.

[udolipixie]

Is it a man's biggest accomplishment to not feel sexually nor romantically attracted to women at all?
For some guys it is.

"Apparently, women are starting to dislike asexual men. "
Not wanting to be with an sexual does not necessarily mean disliking asexuals.

"And women say only men are strictly after sex. Hypocrites, I should say."
Dumping because they guy won't have sex does not necessarily mean men are strictly for sex. A gal pursuing a guy only for sex means men are strictly for sex. Dumping a guy for a reason doesn't mean the reason is all she wanted from him.

[Anonymous]

Women do like having sex. I didn't know this was news to people. They just often also want a relationship. Obviously, that wouldn't work out very well with an asexual man.

[Opinion Owner]

*Doesn't mean women dislike asexual men, by the way. Just, if you have a normal to high sex drive, it doesn't make sense to get into a relationship with someone who doesn't.

[AmongTheFirs]

Those men are misogynists who don't get laid.

My girlfriend's best friend is a lesbian who eventually split with her partner because her partner was functionally asexual.

Most people like to have sex and see no need to commit to a Relationship (tm) with an asexual person when they can just be friends with the asexual person and fuck somebody else.

[Asker]

Asexual men are misogynists but Asexual women aren't misandrists? You make no sense. Asexual doesn't mean you hate the opposite gender. It just means you aren't sexually attracted to them. You can still be romantically attracted to them if you're not an aromantic asexual.

[AmongTheFirs]

I should clarify, the men with said goal are misogynists who don't get laid. Basically, if you're asexual, your romantic pool is limited to other asexuals. Anyone with a libido will eventually leave, unless the parameters of your relationship are not sexually exclusive. Most people are not well schooled in the new ways gender is bending, so a lot of those people are going to need some explanation of the "more than friends, no sex" concept.

[rthomas43]

"Apparently, women are starting to dislike asexual men"

Well no fucking shit.

God damn, there are some stupid mother fuckers on here tonight.

[Asker]

Good. I never gave two shits about women anyway and I sure as hell don't care about some insecure dumbass straight boys trying to question my "manhood"(If that's even suppose to be a great thing) just because I'm not as much of a dumb fucktard who only thinks with their dicks. Funny how there's a double standard of society accepting asexual women far more than than asexual men.

[rthomas43]

Who the fuck is questioning your manhood? I'm questioning your intelligence seeing as how this question fucking exists.

[Asker]

Apparently, society either hates me if I become a pervert or assumes that I'm a homosexual because I'm not sexually nor romatically attracted to women (or anyone for that matter). I don't care about other peoples lives and what they believe but I just want to live my fucking life in peace, not some retarded douchbag straight guys and straight women trying to push my shit in. I also don't want men trying to "help" me with my sexuality by getting rid of my "faggotry". I don't fucking need any men to "help" me with that. I am who I am.

[rthomas43]

I don't care what you do with your penis. Stick it in a cantaloupe or cut it off for all I care. I just don't understand why you can't see why reason that are attracted to men wouldn't be huge fans of asexual men. It's common sense.

[thealphamaleishere]

Chicks are so easy. If you can't control yourself around them you are a beta bitch

[Asker]

How does being asexual make me "beta"? That's some asinine bullshit fabricated by insecure straight boys who feel the need to make themselves sound "manlier".

[thealphamaleishere]

Alpha and beta are observable traits... The only thing made up is that they don't exist.. You listen to too many feminists. They are making you a mangina

[AmongTheFirs]

gb2reddit

[Asker]

First of all, you're an idiot, and second of all, "Feminists" never turned me into a mangina or "asexual". Asexuality is something you are either born with or not.

[thealphamaleishere]

Roof rat betta

[Homebakedcookies]

It would certainly make life a whole lot easier.

[Anonymous]

Only eunuchs have this characteristics... !!

[Anonymous]

My coffee has nothing on this! lol