Guys and girls - I sometime involuntarily jolt/jump when I orgasm - is that weird?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I want to know if this is weird, if others do it, and what a guy would think if this happens to the girl he's having sex with... Sometimes when I orgasm - especially from clitorus stimulation - I involuntarily jump like I've been hit by a bolt of electricity or like someone snuck up behind me and scared me. The jump will happen once but will happen again if my clit gets touched. It is a bit embarrassing. Girls does it happen to you? Guys, has a girl done this with you - if yes, what did you think and if not, what would you think?

[alexander1991]

Yes that happen to me with a woman a young lady. But that only happens because you're really sensitive down there that's why you jump like that because it feel so good that your body needs to jump because you never probably experienced some guy like that before. who would actually make you feel that type of way.

[Asker]

Yeah it doesn't happen every time to me - only when he has pushed all the right buttons - haha. But it seems guys know why it happens, which is good... thanks for your comment.

[alexander1991]

you're very welcome

[FinnishFellow]

It's natural and hot as hell! It gives your companion a clear signal that they did something ABSOLUTELY right.

It happens to guys as well, even when we are simply cleaning our guns, if you know what I mean. A good jolt is a good indication of a great orgasm. Don't fight it, embrace it!

[Asker]

Thanks so much & well said -that just took me through a whole range of emotions (reassurance and a laugh - haha cleaning guns).

[temilove]

it is a good reaction to your orgasm. it show how you really enjoy the sex.

[Anonymous]

It happens to me sometimes when it's really intense, kind of a full body reaction. Only happens with oral for me and then I need penetration afterwards but can't be touched or licked. I love it, it's the best!

[Asker]

Thanks, good to know its not just me. I feel vulnerable when it happens and a bit embarressed but it does also feel great. From what everyone wrote, I clearly dont need to worry about it.

[Opinion Owner]

No you don't. Just enjoy it.

[AustinMan]

I wouldn't be embarrassed. I would find it kind of cute and endearing. That said, I'm a bit sadistic so I would likely thump your clit while holding you down just to watch your reaction. ;)

[Asker]

A thump wouldn't feel too good and would probably piss me off.

[AustinMan]

In my world, that would just get you a spanking until you surrendered and calmed down. If you're not submissive sexually, that doesn't work at all. I only ate subbies.. Most of them are very aggressive and assertive in real life. The psyche seeks balance.

[AustinMan]

For you, it'd be more of a tap.

[Asker]

Interesting your comment about the psyche seeks balance... I'm the other way around. Why do you think she has to be submissive? Are you afraid of not being in control?

[AustinMan]

Afraid? No. Comfortable in who and what I am? Absolutely. Most people are switches but some are just Doms or subs. I'm a pure Dom.

[Asker]

I'm a bit of a switcher but mostly Dom.

[AustinMan]

For females, it's Domme. Subbie males abound. If you don't find them easily, look up online the BDSM groups in your area. The often congregate there.

[Asker]

Ok - not really up with the lingo. Not into BDSM... and I am married.

[AustinMan]

I hope your hubby has as much fun with your "jump" as I might. Enjoy!!

[dricky2011]

i was with a woman who did this, i thought it was very amusing as i would touch her clit after her orgasm and make her jump. i found it very cute and think all females should be like this

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment, it is good to know it didn't freak you out.

[dricky2011]

It is nice when a female is like that. One knows for sure that the woman has orgasmed

[Asker]

I always get a rythmic squeezing down there - I assume all women do that when they orgasm wouldn't they? - you'd feel/notice that, wouldn't you?

[dricky2011]

yes it can be felt, and it is lovely, nothing to be worried or embarrassed about

[Asker]

Thanks :-)

[dricky2011]

your very welcome

[Klaatu51]

sounds normal to me... and if your guy has no prob with it... why do you make it a big thing> :-)

[Asker]

Good to know you think its normal. He hasn't said anything about it but it makes me feel embarressed/vulnerable.

[Dargil]

I call it a spike. I don't know what causes it but I get these.

[Asker]

Oh cool - a spike, that is a good name for it... Thanks :-)

[oldanddecrepid]

Yup had that plenty of times. Certain girls are really sensitive that they sometimes, jolt, have to have you stop until they are finished, or they squirm so hard you have to chase them down hahaha

[Asker]

Yeah that's me! So you don't think to yourself "what's wrong with her?"... I sometimes wonder if he might be thinking OMG it is an epileptic seizure (I don't suffer from epilepsy though).

[oldanddecrepid]

Nope... to me it would be like... cool lets get you to do it again! and it would be a quest. There is nothing abnormal about the way someone orgasms especially a spike as @Dargil refers to it below.

[Asker]

Cool, thanks :-)

[oldanddecrepid]

no problem!

[JackPack]

It happens to me every time. I wouldn't think too much off it, but hey! At least you can't fake an orgasm ;)

[Asker]

Thanks, that is cool to know you have it too... no I can't fake it, but I don't try to either

[JackPack]

Haha no worries ^-^

[temilove]

women pretend not to love sex, yet most of them do only if they find the right guy to give them the way they want it.

[Asker]

I dont pretend that I dont like sex. I love it but with the right person -I need an emotional attachment.