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Girls, would you let your guy best friend see you naked?

So, me and my best friend hangout a lot, he comes over all the time, mainly when my parents aren't home so we can be loud and do whatever. Anyway, so I feel really comfortable with him, and I was wondering if I should let him see me naked. Not like show my boobs randomly or anything but for example, yesterday he came over and my parents weren't home, we chilled around and before we left I made him leave the room so I could change, or sometimes I will leave but anyway I just hate having to do this it gets annoying even though its simple. So is it okay if he sees my boobs, or my ass, or even my v-jay. I'm not trying to seduce him or anything but it would he nice to know if its right or not. I feel he would be fine with it, it wouldn't creep him out, he's seen my in a bra and panties/thong, would it kill to go a step further? Its just boobs and ass, we all have asses and technically breasts. I wouldn't show him my v-jay much. We are in highschool, grade 10, both 15.
Yes, I should show everything, boobs, ass, vagina.
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Yes, I should only show boobs and ass.
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No, I should only show him me in my undergarments.
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No, I shouldn't let him see anything.
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  • Sounds like you do have feelings for him. Why do you always change when he's around? I think you just want him to see you naked. He might think something more about it. My guy friend saw me naked once. We were on our way out at 1230 in the morning and we didn't have time to stop anywhere so I just changed in the back seat. I'm also kind of like one of the guys and I keep an extra outfit in his car sometimes. It's kind of expected of me occasionally and we already established boundaries so it's fine.

    • I only have feelings for him as a friend, and I only change when he is around if I need to, for example if we decide to go outside, for a walk or to a store. I don't wait till he comes over to change, again, only if I need to. If all goes well, me and him will establish our boundaries also if necessary. Thank you.

    • But you make it sound like you do it all the time when you know he's coming over. Why not just change beforehand? You do want to show off or you wouldn't ask if something like this were ok and you wouldn't be thinking about a future with him. Sounds like you have some muddled feelings there. But ey whatever floats your boat.

    • What if we don't know we're going out? We decide when he gets here. Or, what if I know we will go out later, but I want to be comfortable for now? There are many situations that can happen.

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  • My guy best friend.. No.
    Absolutely not.
    He gets all weird when it comes to stuff like that.
    He completely freaked out when I showed him a pair of bra and panties that I bought on sale.
    I do have have a couple of guy friends that I wouldn't if they saw me in my under wear or bikini though.
    They won't freak out or think weird.
    It depends on the individual.

    • He doesn't freak out, he's bought me thongs, bras, panties. I try them on and show them to him, he's really chill when it comes to this stuff.

  • If he doesn't find it sexual, I don't think there's any problem with it. Just make sure he knows that. My close guy friends see me naked all the time as do I see them. I only do this with guys I'm really comfortable with and know they won't view it in a sexual manner.

  • Well, if you want to, then go for it. I mean, if he's not gay, he'll probably start liking you in a not so platonic way (that's if he doesn't already have feelings for you... this might just ignite them even more.) but do whatever you're comfortable with.

    • Thank you, I mean he always talks about other girls, I'm sure he doesn't like-like me, but I understand that he will like me a bit more. I am comfortable with him seeing me naked, I just don't know how he would react, I don't plan on having sex or any type of relationship with him.

    • Me and my bff are also both 15 and in 10th grade and we like being able to be naked around eachother and not have feelings becuase it makes us very very close and feel like our freindship is cemented. I would say go for it being naked around ur bff and knowing he's comfy with u is one of the greatest feelings

    • did he end up seeing you naked?

Most Helpful Guys

  • i think u should. y not? if he's just a friend.. i have a female friend who i saw naked and that even contributed to our relationship.. it made it even more clear that we are just friends and she's comfortable with me as she is with her female friends.

    • Thank you very much. I feel like it would build the trust and have us more comfortable with each other, knowing we don't want to go further and are perfectly fine with being best friends, and seeing each other naked is not a issue. Thank you for the opinion, I appreciate it :)

    • ur welcome. i had a long term female friend like that and she helps me with a lot of things =) if ud like to know more just message me.. i dont wanna write all of it on here lol

    • Lol okay, yeah me and him are very good friends and always here for each other, if I need some more help I will come to you, thanks :)

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  • Would you or have you gotten naked in front of your girl friends? If he is just a friend you have to treat him the same way you would treat your same-sex friends. If you treat him any differently, he is more than a friend.

    • I have been naked in front of my girls, and that is a very good point. I treat my friends very equally, considering they are all my friends. This is more of a private and personal topic, and since he is the opposite sex, there is that sexual orientation difference, its hard to figure out. But I will be comfortable in front of him, as long as he is also. I will show him, and if he does not accept this than I won't, it's as simple as that. You always have to try to find out. Thanks for the opinion, I appreciate it :)

    • I guess it would be the true to test of an entirely platonic guy-girl friendship. Obviously, if you show him your naked body, and he doesn't develop sexual feelings for you, then he never will. But you have to be prepared for whatever is thrown at your friendship if he does develop sexual and/or emotional feelings for you.

    • If he does develop sexual feelings for me, we will work it out. I'm sure he won't, but if he does it's okay and natural, but he will get over it and if he can't it will be a little bit of a problem which can be fixed, thank you.

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  • Not in a situation like you described. Stripping to the point of letting him see the goods (when the two of you are alone in a room together) . . . that's just a really bad idea. Sort of like him taking his clothes off in front of you so you could check out his package. Either situation would convert a "best friends" thing into something else. He likes you already, and if you show him literally all of you, he may try to convert that friendship into a dating/sex thing. If you want romance or sex, then go for it; otherwise, it will make the friendship weird, and probably end it. Let's just say if I am alone in my bedroom with a guy, and I undress to the point of showing him my breasts (or more), it's far more than simply a best friend.

    Now, if you two were with a group of friends (like 10 people or more), and EVERYONE decides to go skinny dipping, that might be OK. Or playing strip poker with that same group, and you just happened to be the one who "lost," that might be OK too.

  • If you go that far , trust me it will complicate thing more than you think it will

    • How will it complicate? He has feelings for other girls, we are just best friends, and we have been for about 11 years. Thank you for the opinion.

    • Knowing what under the cloths is one thing but actually seeing it is different entirely. Good luck with that

    • I understand, thank you.

  • He wants your V, I guarantee it.

    • He doesn't have a very sexual personality, he's still a virgin, and he's just not the typical fuckboy or player. He's a real, boy/man. Thank you for the opinion, but I personally disagree.

    • Right but just cause he's not slobbering all over you doesn't mean he doesn't go home with a major woody why do you think he keeps coming around? But i promise you this you start showing him more and hell think you want him sexually and it will CRUSH him when you do the normal girl thing and get with some douche bag and he gets all of what you would only tease him with by showing him

    • He knows we are just friends, and neither of us want anything more. We will establish boundaries so we know that none of this means anything sexually, and he will be okay with it hopefully. I can understand why he might get an erection, it's normal. It won't creepy me out, I know if I was a boy the same thing would happen to me. Thank you though for your opinion.

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  • I don't really have any guy friends. But if I did, I wouldn't let him see me undressed. I'd avoid being in anything less than a bra and panties even around my best female friends.

    • I appreciate the opinion.

  • I don't even let my girl best friends see me naked so I would say just underwear

    • Thanks, but are you self-conscious of your body? I love my body, and i'm not worried about being judged. Thanks for the opinion.

    • Yeah, I'm extremely self-conscious because I have a hormone imbalance lol. But if you are comfortable then definitely do what you are comfortable with as long as he knows that it isn't meant in a sexual way :)

    • Sorry to hear that, and thanks :)

  • If you want to show someone you know you naked either know it means nothing or get together with them.

    • In my opinion it means nothing, we've known each other for about 11 years now, and we have seen each other naked before, not on purpose. It would be a lot better to be comfortable with him in showing myself. I do not plan on getting together with him what so ever.

    • It looks like you've already made up your mind sweetheart, you don't need to ask our opinions. Do what your comfortable with. If you do have worries about it message me I'll help if I can.

  • It may happen that as a straight guy seeing a vagina, boobs and ass will be sort of a temptation, just letting you know, there's no getting around it no matter who he is to you, if he's straight that is...

  • He buys you panties and you model them for him and you're thinking about letting him see you naked.

    I think you're in denial. You are playing with fire. You're teenagers. Don't.

  • I've done that with my best friend who now is my SO

    • That's very nice, I could possibly see that happening in the far future, I mean best friends sometimes are meant to be more. I would like to be even more comfortable with him, and this could be a way. I will show him, and if he is okay with it which im sure he will be, we will go from there. Thank you :)

  • I don't like your wording of your question or poll answers. Specifically, the word SHOULD. You SHOULD do whatever you want to do. It's your body, and it's your relationship with your friend. I wouldn't care if my best friend saw me naked, (she's a girl). But she's a lot more conservative about these things than I am, and so she wouldn't want me to see her naked. As long as you're comfortable being naked around him, who cares what we think?

    • I'm simply asking for some opinions.

  • Me thinks if my friend saw my gf in b-day suit, that they had sex. I would pissed!!!

    • I'm confused with what you said, in proper English grammar please?

    • Creative saying of only I can see my gf naked. Any other guy that sees her naked gets punched!! Lol

    • I don't have a boyfriend.

  • The way you described it I think it's ok if you do it once or twice but you should refrain from doing it because it is your naked body and you should really only be showing that to your SO. If nothing else in consideration of your future SO don't show average guys your naked body...

    • He's not just an average guy, my best friend for 11 years. I understand, thank you.

  • Yes it's fine me and my female friends have been walking around seeing each other nude, naked since childhood it's not sexual to be nude or naked it's natural and beautiful. We have changed, showered slept in the same bed skinny dipping together all nude or naked it's fine.
    no we are not gay or lesbians etc .
    But it's up to you at the end off the day it's your body. But you sound happy and comfortable with the idare of it anyway.

    • Thank you for the advice. I wish to have a relationship with him like that, to be comfortable with each other no matter what. It is natural, and we all see these things, why would it matter that we are the opposite sex, that doesn't mean we are meant to have sex or have sexual feelings for each other. I am comfortable with my body, and he will understand, and at the end of the day, we can decide whether we will be comfortable with this. Thank you very much :)

    • You're welcome. If he loves you and is much of a friend you say he is he should understand and respect your privacy and decision

    • We love each other as friends, and I would respect his decision as hopefully he does of mine.

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  • Yeah, but make sure he knows you just don't care that he sees you while changing or he could misinterpret it.

  • if you are showing naked boobs, butt or pussy, he will think you are into him and want a threesome.
    If you do want that sure, else stop teasing him!

  • I think letting him see your underwear is fine if you are both cool with it. I personally wouldn't let my male best friend see me naked unless we were out on holiday skinny dipping as a group of friends but even then I'd be unsure. That's just my opinion, do what you feel comfortable with.

  • no not at all!!!

    • Why?

  • I wouldn't know. I don't have a guy best friend.

    • Okay, thanks.

    • Okay. YW

  • i think that i wouldn't especially if you have a boy friend

    • I do not have a boyfriend.

  • To any guy friend or not, showing him your naked body signals to him that you want sex whether you intend that or not

    • I'm simply changing my clothes, not trying to seduce him what so ever. He is interested in other girls, but seeing me naked will probably turn him on and stuff. I don't plan on having sex with him, but thanks for the opinion.

    • If you're just changing your clothes then why would you be naked? @Asker

    • Changing my bra, putting one on, same with panties.

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