My husband doesn't like to have sex unless he fingers me and smells me first? He says it turns him on?

[Anonymous]

My husband says that my intimate smell is intoxicating, he's always rubbing his fingers on me. I get so embarrassed but he says it's the best and most intoxicating and erotic smell in the world. He gets really hard when I let him do it, so I know I shouldn't be complaining, but I feel embarrassed about it sometimes. I shower daily, I take care of myself, I'm always waxing for him the way he likes, BUT I can't get over why he seems so obssessed with my smell? And why he has to finger me before he can have sex? Sometimes I just want to have sex but he says he has to "warm me up" first. Is this normal?

[broadsword]

Smell is very a powerful sense & many of us have lost most of it true ability. Smell is hugely erotic , cosmetic companies spend millions on perfumes & yes they are pleasant but to drive a man wild with desire there is simply nothing more erotic than the scent of a woman.
Many women find this unattractive or confusing, they spend ages on personal hygiene because they have been taught by society that it's really important. Yes it is but not so much as to hide or remove your natural vaginal scent.
I understand completely why your husband does this I suspect he has a real love of it and you but in some cases some women have a very strong pheromone deep sexual aroma from there vaginal fluid and when stimulated into producing more it is very intoxicating to those of us males that are tuned into it.
I suspect to that he love to go down on you as this scent drives you to want to taste this as well it's the natural progression.
You should not be surprised either to find that he sniffs your panties. Please do not be upset or alarmed be thankful & pleased that you naturally produce something that drives your man wild for you.
If you find it to much all the time try teasing him about and using it to your advantage. Communication is the key in all relationships so tell him your thrilled he loves your scent but he can't have it every time. You want something else and if he's good to you the next time he can have what he wants & you will make sure you look after his needs and will allow him a lot of fingering and try to make it extra wet with lots of scent.
You may not believe it but this is sexual power you have between your legs if you can except it you can tease him & drive him wild. Try when out one evening in company restaurant or bar. Going to the bathroom coating your fingers in your scent when you rejoin him kiss him then but your finger to his upper lip as if telling him to be quiet making sure to wipe some under his nose, he will be putty in your hands late

[takemaru111111]

The nose has a small organ, which sole purpose is to pick up pheromones from the opposite sex. Men's smell has a measurable impact on women as well. But I think it is also psychological, in this case. It turns him on, that he smells your privates.

"Warming up": I think he means foreplay. He probably thinks it is absolutely a must.

[GraySailorsBride]

Let him! Try new things and be confident! Your husband obviously loves your body. You should too. The bedroom is no place for inhibitions. Especially when shared with the on that loves you most in the works! Have fun and enjoy!

[GraySailorsBride]

**** loves you most in the world*****

[KatherineJ]

Well, I love being fingered first, lay back and enjoy.

[gray_sailor]

Rather than be embarassed, your husband would absolutely love it if you would be proud of your scent. Take pleasure in pleasing him this way.
Part of the beauty of sex is that there isn't a single correct way to go about it.

Why can't you enjoy this simple pleasure that is so easily given. There is no reason at all.

[HemrecRon]

if he enjoys your smell, then why would you get embarrassed... just feel proud and happy to own such a heavenly sexy scent factory... let him sniff and satisfy his thirst... nothing gonna hurt u... and its common humans attracted to opposite sex smell... to be frank am attracted to my girls natural armpit smell... i love sniffing and licking her armpit as a part of foreplay and warm up... she always happily enjoys this and lifts her hand erotically for me to wipe out her sweat on pits... just enjoy every act in sex... of course sex is full of naughty and nasty stuffs which we would feel so happy to do only when we are horny... so live u life and give him more babyyyyy...

[Klaatu51]

obviously he turns him on... some people need a warm upbasiclly.. they cannot go for sex straight away ;-)

[gapminder]

Seriously, I get harder if my wife let's me go downtown as well. Whatever it is, taste, smell phareamones doesn't really matter as long as it's enjoyable. So I say let him go to town and don't worry about the reason.

[Menarecrooks]

so, what's wrong with that?

[Anonymous]

May he smells his old crusty cum he squirted up in there from last time.