What do you think of girls who wear chokers/collars?
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What is your immediate thought when you see a girl wearing a collar, assuming the girl is cute? I have a small nude one that I wear quite often and I was just wondering what the average person thinks when they see it. It's not going to make me not want to wear it, I'm just curious if people register it as a fashion thing, BDSM thing, or something completely different.
This is NOT me in the photo, the collar is just identical to the one I have
I was also thinking about getting a heart one like this in black or baby pink:
Thoughts?
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leastforgettableXper 4
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For me my first impression was what you were expecting probably really into some BDSM. I would probably associate it as kinda weird to wear it in public thinking maybe you wanted to hook up or something. My second impression would be you're really into heavy metal bands and you occasionally wear ones, also bracelets, also bracelets. Wouldn't stop me from saying hi though. I've met quite a few women who go for the danger look and their cool, still not someone I would take to see my parents one day.
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lockednloadedXper 3
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It's a hard one to answer. My partner has a variety of different chocker's she wears for everyday use or for what outfit she's wearing that day. She also has a couple of chocker's that has a ring on the front (that she wears for me as she's the dominate one in our marriage) that you can get away with in public. From your picture's the top one is hard but the second one does have a BDSM theme about it.
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sammy_31Guru
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I used to wear some lace type of chokers in high school. I stopped wearing them when multiple guys assumed I was some secret slut and I looked sluty. I was like nah nevermind I don't need chokers in my life.
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Asker
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So you're saying most guys perceived them as in you're a slut/kinky in the bedroom or just a slut in general? I think the first one isn't necessarily a bad thing. How did you even find out?
sammy_31
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Yeah that is what they thought of me. Like I wore them after winter break and were like what happened to you over the break. It wasn't annoying at first, I ignored them but after a while it annoyed me to the point of getting really upset. I talked to the teachers and they said just don't wear them to stop the problem. I was like yeah that's kind of obvious, you're right and I stopped wearing them. They guys stopped shortly after I stopped wearing them. They basically drew bad attention to me and I didn't even like when people looked at me unless it was some guy I was trying get to notice me. That is a whole different story. So yeah guys thought I was secretly kinky because I wore them.
Asker
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That's really shitty though, you shouldn't have had to take it off, the teachers should have dealt with those assholes who were being rude.
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sammy_31
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Yeah they just blamed me basically -___- I was like alright whatever. You know how it is, it's ALWAYS the girls fault hardly the guy's fault. Flippin stupid.
Mrmeaner305
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Sluty but i like that sort of thing hahaha
Chokers_are_evil
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Good job fellow upstarting citizen, you have seen the light of God!! Bless your pure and kind soul that had seen the devil but avoided it like a good Christian should
Chokers_are_evil
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I found out the hard way, I looked in the mirror one day and realized that simple piece of fabric around my neck was causing my life to go to shambles. I realized straight away and threw them ALL out. I have finally found my path to faith and Jesus once more.
pr3ttybr0wnMaster
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It looks very BDSM to me. I'd see that and think "wow this girl is into some freaky shit. wonder if her master is nearby"
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MaisGem21Explorer
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I wear lace chokers, which are a lot less slutty and more Victorian chic. These kind of chokers are just a no no.
It look good in certain people, slutty in certain people. Just have to ask your friend/close friend for an opinion or post a picture here for us to rate.
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shyguy2004jfXper 5
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No... just... no. I don't find it attractive.
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Mrmr123Xper 2
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I love them on women, they look cute!
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Chokers_are_evilXper 3
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Honey, you gotta realize that it makes you look like a washed up skank on the side of the road who is waiting for the next guy to use and abuse. You have to ditch this horrible trend before it is too late. I realized my mistakes in life and hope you do not follow them,
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